For example, maybe this girl has a teenie ounce of interest in you, but she's seeing other guys too and whatnot, and altogether acts nice in person, but always seems to be busy.

So if you know you're being played, what do you do? Let's assume the girl isn't consciously doing it. Or maybe she is, iono.

Just want something to discuss.

Do you get back at her? Or do you drop it?

Drop it, there'd be little point in getting back if she's not interested!

I'll be her friend and whatnot but if there's a slight chance of her playing me I just drop all effort of getting with her. Drop it!

if she only has a tiny bit of interest in you, why do you have to get her back? its not like you`re dating right?

Just let it go and find someone who will treat you right.

Snipe em! then find someone nice.

Rule of thumb: do NOT badger girls because you happen to think that you'd be a good match for her. It's annoying as shit, and she likely doesn't give a flying shit about you. If she's always appearing to be busy and making little time for you, she's not interested. Drop it, like others have said.

Drop it. There are too many girls in this world, to be concerned about just one. My rule of thumb, is that if they don't get it after the first few attempts, then they obviously aren't worth it. Their loss not yours.

Ah, not necessarily true. I 'played' (couldn't make my mind up over) my current boyfriend for almost a year before I went out with him. Well worth his - and my own - wait I assure you!

I know that and I am in that type of situation as well. I believe that if it is an open courtship, and you know what your role is, then that is one thing. If you are constantly up someones ass, and they are ignoring you, then you should kind of get the hint. I am in a situation where we aren't "together" but we both are the main one in each others rotation. I like being able to not be in a relationship, but knowing that whenever I need her, she is always there.

Slam-bam-thank-you-maam.

Yup. If she wants to be with you, she'll present herself accordingly. If not, and she shows interest, just blow her back out.

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