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alyssa6789
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ArtofBreaking
Is it a "across the nation" relationship or a couple hours apart, see eachother twice a week type deal?
alyssa6789
across the nation
DoubleJ
Can you call a florist and send flowers?
EddieV
QUOTE(alyssa6789 @ Jan 7 2008, 05:23 PM) *
Okay so its now 3:00 and i have to the end of the day to get my ex back. he says it has to be amazing. i already wrote him a poem and that wasnt good enough.

heres the thing wit my ex. its a long distance relationship. so whats something amazing i can do long distance.

i dont even know about the fight it happened all to fast. we both said really mean things.

so if you could help me that will be aesome. thank you all so much. ill try all of your ideas no matter how crazy and weird they are. i just want my baby back. thank you!


If he doesn't appreciate you, he doesn't deserve you.
alyssa6789
he doesnt like flowers.
x-Lovelyy
Heh, I'm in a long distance relationship and we're coming up to 2 years in March.
I'm not really sure what you can do tbh. :/
New Years he was upset as we couldn't be together for it, and while he went to a party I took a picture of me kissing the camera and wrote a paragraph to him saying a lot..
I tell you, it was tough writing something that deep.
I was up all night with it and the amount of tears I cried.. >_>
But he was very happy with it, maybe that is something you could try?
alyssa6789
the poem i wrote to him explained what he met to me and how sorry i was so it didnt work either,
ArtofBreaking
Oh geez, not really much you can do then, i'm sure you've tried the whole "please I love you and I don't want to lose you" shpeil.
Doesn't really sound like it matters to him if he expects you to do something amazing thousands of miles away, that's not to fair to you.
Idk what to tell you. sad.gif
Call and talk about it. ermm.gif
DoubleJ
QUOTE(x-Lovelyy @ Jan 7 2008, 05:31 PM) *
Heh, I'm in a long distance relationship and we're coming up to 2 years in March.
I'm not really sure what you can do tbh. :/
New Years he was upset as we couldn't be together for it, and while he went to a party I took a picture of me kissing the camera and wrote a paragraph to him saying a lot..
I tell you, it was tough writing something that deep.
I was up all night with it and the amount of tears I cried.. >_>
But he was very happy with it, maybe that is something you could try?

I would definitely go with what she did. It sounds like something that may win him over.
alyssa6789
i tried talking to him bout it and he was tis close and this his friend made up shit and then he was like now the only way ill forgive you is if you do something amazing
x-Lovelyy
QUOTE(alyssa6789 @ Jan 7 2008, 10:36 PM) *
i tried talking to him bout it and he was tis close and this his friend made up shit and then he was like now the only way ill forgive you is if you do something amazing


It sounds like he doesn't appricate you.. :/
I'm sorry but I don't know what else to say to help. :|
alyssa6789
well thank you anyway

all of you are the best
if i cant get him back
i lived with out him before i knew him
so i could live with out him now.
ArtofBreaking
QUOTE(alyssa6789 @ Jan 7 2008, 05:42 PM) *
well thank you anyway

all of you are the best
if i cant get him back
i lived with out him before i knew him
so i could live with out him now.

Sounds like that's what you should do. It's obvious he doesnt appreciate you, what you should do is just break it off before he does :P Make him feel regret && like he's missing out.
x-Lovelyy
QUOTE(Excel @ Jan 7 2008, 10:44 PM) *
Sounds like that's what you should do. It's obvious he doesnt appreciate you, what you should do is just break it off before he does :P Make him feel regret && like he's missing out.


Hah yeah, that is most likely what I'd do.
I'd let him know that he is selfish for sitting back and expecting you to pull out something amazing from that far away, and that you deserve someone better who would actually put 100% to the relationship. :|
DoubleJ
Friends seem to always have something to do with the destruction of a relationship at one point or another.
hypnotique
Im sorry.He sounds like an ungrateful a-hole.

You shouldent have to do amazing things and kill yourself over it especially seeing as how he gave you a time limit as to how long you have to impress him?

Forget that.You shouldent need to be at anyones mercy unless of course you really did do something wrong like cheat or something.
AskAlice
No one should have to change themselves or prove to someone that they are worth it. You need to be someone who knows you're worth it just by being yourself. That's what love is; accepting someone's faults as part of them and loving them. This relationship sounds unhealthy.
alyssa6789
i broke it off
thanks again everyone for helpin
S-Majere
Well done. You did the best thing.
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