Pretend you really really liked this guy/girl and everything about them suited your needs. Except they had an std/sti. It could be herpes, warts. Both could be genital. Anything. or even HIV. would you get with them when you know that it would be a really good relationship except for the std thing?
For me, I don't know if i would..me coming from an asian family the gossip and their assumptions and judgements from my aunts/uncles/mostly anyone asian and good freinds with my family would be enought to kill me But i couldn't stand being far away from my parents..

you knwo i always thought about that.

but i guess ill never really know until it happens to me.

i know my current bf said that if something like that were to happen, he would still want to be with me.

i mean thats what condoms are for right, not just to prevent pregnancy

I know from personal experiance that if a person is willing to commit to the relationship, then no, you shouldn't let it get in the way. Sex is only on fragment of a relationship, and you don't neccessarily need it to have a good relationship (although some people do). You have to figure out what is important to you: personality or the STD. Besides, there are always condoms. I think you should give this person a try.

Yeah, I'd do it for my fiance. We would always have to be really careful so that I could stay STD free, but being in love is worth that risk. In my opinion.

Yeah, I'd do it for my fiance. We would always have to be really careful so that I could stay STD free, but being in love is worth that risk. In my opinion.

Absolutely, Missfits. Not that sex is a problem seeing as we're 'after marriage' types.