I'm curious, some guys treat girls so horribly, I wonder if they think that's what girls find attractive. Even worse is the girls put up with it, well some do. Then I'll be talk'n to a nice guy and he'll be telling me that he feels like he should be an a-hole to get girls to like him. so I'm just wondering, what do you guys really think girls find more attractive; a guy who treats a girl right (please tell me you know how that is) or a guy who doesn't (example: basically doesn't care about her... just thinks of himself, has the girl "trained")

A guy who treats a girl right but enough that his own image is not degraded in the light of being "servant-ish."

There are the same amount of "bad guys" with nice girls as bad girls are with nice guys. You just never hear the guys complaining, as long as they have themselves a girlfriend.

I like nice guys who have "bad guy" tendencies. I mean, I want him to break out of taboos and restrictions once in a while. However, I don't want a drug addict or an abusive guy. It depends on what you mean by "bad."

this is true, the bad girls with nice guys thing, but I guess what I'm wondering is what guys feel like girls are more attracted to? cuz yeah you're right, I don't hear bout the guys complaining bout the girls, I've actually never heard that, but I don't think I've seen that either, like a bad girl with a nice guy. cuzz doesn't it seem like bad girls want bad guys?
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HAHA. Are you kidding me? By your logic, guys are assholes when they treat girls terribly, so we're going to call these "bad girls" bitches because they treat men horribly. Yes, even if girls can't be physically abusive, they can be extremely emotionally abusive. I've known many, many controlling, manipulative bitches being in relationships with the nice guys. It's not unheard of.

It happens both ways.

lol ok, yeah, I guess I just have a sterotype thing go'n on. that's why I did
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at the end of my thing, cuz I was think'n I wasn't making much sense. lol

i pick a nice guy...when your sad he will hug u n kiss you n other things like that...nice ones know how to take care of a girl. A guy who doesnt is a dumbass! he is a ....n is stupid! :P so you know

TO THE TOPIC : There are some girls that are attracted to the bad guys, or i don't know if the only like to be mis-treated and called hoes ,slut, bitch etc.
But the part of NY where i live most of the girls go for the nice guys. LUCKY ME

Usually girls run around chasing all the "bad boys" and when they realize the assholes they are they then begin to appreciate the nice ones.

I just think some women are too naive to know it's a bad idea to date 'bad boys' So until they realize it is, they won't get to experience what it's like to be with a genuine man.

But if that's what they are in to.. okay.

I was watching Dr. Phil lately and they had a segment about this topic.

Every girl always says that they want a nice guy, but deep down inside, they know they want a bad guy. The girls that I know, love the guys that give them a challenge and can oppose them, rather than the ones that just are yes men. I absolutely hate when girls say that though, because when they come across a nice guy, they usually will leave him for the bad guy and then complain when they get treated badly. Ladies why is that?

A good guy who can take care of a girl, but also displays leadership qualities.

the nice guy!
eveyr girl has fantisies about the bad boy , but when i comes down to it, most girls will choose the nice guy who will be there for you.

I like when a guy treats me well but can stand up for himself. I like to feel safe when I am with my man, like no matter what happens I know I am not in danger.

anddd?? heh



I have noo idea, that's not how I roll.



yeah, cept, I don't dig bad boys, but I'm def over the immature boys that occupy high school. wait'n for the men in college. haha