my ex refused to return my big teddy bear saying that he's still loves me and don't ever want to get over me.. and when i came back from my holiday he told me he is in love with his new girlfriend. hmm also he refused to return my bikinis

what are the reasons?

and how can i get my stuff back?

i think you need to be a little more clear on what you're talking about.

did he give you that teddy bear and then take it back? or did you give him that teddy bear? either way, i don't get why you'd want it back.

if he won't return your bikinis, then shoot him in the eyeball. or tell his new girlfriend in a civilized manner. or just f**king shoot him, i don't know...

if you want reasons, you ask him, not an online community.

nah thats my teddy he took it from my room..

and his girlfriend told me that she wants to rip my eyes off so i can't talk to her lol she wants to smash me telling me her gangs will beat me to death

but did he give it to you?

if he doesn't return your bikinis then he's probably burned them or lost them or is being obscene with them. for all you know they might have stds all over them.

somewhat agree with above.

does his current gf know about him not giving back the teddy bear??

dude, blackmail him!! lol

if his new girlfriend is making threats, i really and honestly think that she'd be bluffing.. because i know for a fact, i don't make threats. i just do it.

if she really hated you enough, you'd already be hit by now, unless she's trying to plan out some real elaborate shit - and unless she's finished out elaborate schemes multiple times, they probably won't work.

just carry pepper spray, no big.

or rather, get to his place, and be a finger twitch away from spraying him... and demand your stuff back. if he doesn't give it back to you, DON'T ACTUALLY SPRAY HIS FACE. just get his arm or random body parts until he gives in. it's better if he's not blind because then he'll be able to see you the entire time.

you'll probably want to get a couple cases since his girlfriend could possibly want to kill you after that, haha. i've only got maybe four shots left in mine, but i get them free from a friend who's in the industry.

Tell his mother. Maybe that way you can get your stuff back.

I suggest that you go over there and ask for your stuff back. It's better than you trying to arrange a time to go over there or yadda yadda. I don't know why a grown man would want some bikinis. I only get thoughts that aren't appropriate for a PG-13 forum, lol. I have some of my ex's movies, but he never asked for them back so if he doesn't care, then I don't care. But I'm sure if you go over there ask for your stuff, which he has NO use for, back he should give it to you.

Sex movies?

he did not give me any of the stuffs that i want back

he told me he wants to keep my teddy bear because then he can sleep at night and cuddle it and i know for a fact that when iam not there he cuddle my teddy to sleep but im not sure now cause he is with another girl. ahh confusing shits

his girlfriend kind of back off when my mates wanted to smash her for saying shit to me it's all good now.. but this afternoon i was reading this blog on the net and people everyone.. no matter if they`re just teenager or grown ups they said if he is the one break it of don`t even call him. and must not call him.

so do you guys think i should just ignore it buy myself new bikinis forget about the teddy and move on?

Why... would he keep your bikinis again?

duh. cross dresser.

maybe its best you guys broke up after all.

yes. shouldn't you be slightly disgusted with him by now?

Yeah, you should just buy some new ones...and I'm sorry to hear about the teddy bear. But some new bikinis wouldn't hurt. I say you tie a note to a rock and throw it to his window.

buy a bigger, better teddy bear and flaunt it in his face. then cuddle with it that night saying to yourself, "job accomplished" =P

First off - unless that teddy bear is of enormous sentimental value to you and you paid an inordinate amount for those bikinis....I wouldn't even bother with it.

If however, you answered 'yes' to one of the above ridiculous situations then go around to his house when he's not in and get his mom/dad/brother/relative to give you your expensive, sentimental stuff back.

Girl, you be tripping over some pairs of bikinis and a teddy bear? All can be recovered with like 20 hours of babysitting. Talking to him and dealing with him isn't worth your time.

he once told me it looks good on him

eww then you dont want to use them again... its like sharing undies with another girl ...gross!!

hey, some people have a fetish for sharing the same underwear :o !

He goes on the sex offenders list for being weird.

So your ex boyfriend, who crossdresses and suffers from gender confusion, probably stemming from some deep seeded mental issue, is keeping your bikinis and teddy bear?

Maybe this isn't a battle that isn't worth fighting.

do you need them back really? its winter your bikinis are out of style. and if you really want to, go skinny dipping. happy ?

I think he broke up with you because he's gay then. Explains the bikini and why he wants the teddy bear.

Homosexuality explains all the symptoms. - Dr. House