Well, I grew up with a few of them and they sure know how to scrap. I even got involved with one of my friends before we took a step back and realized dating while living with each other wasn't going to work. It surprises me however to see her dressed like a dude and surrounded by guys. Don't get me wrong, she is a beautiful girl. But my point I'm trying to ask is; Do you think some guys have a subconcious attraction to male characteristics and want to be the girl in the relationship with a tomboy?

I actually don't know a lot of tomboys, now that I think about it. But it's probably just that I never even knew they were tomboys.

im a tomboy. and in my experience, the guys feel like they have to, i don't know, tame me. make me submissive to them.

so no. guys definitly dont want to wear the skirt in the relationship.

HAHA. NO.

I don't think guys want to be girl in the relationship, unless you're gay. They either don't mind "equality," but they will never let the girl take charge for everything. I'm not a tomboy, but I'm naturally the "dominant" one in the relationship. Either that or I'll settle for equality. In any case, I lead a lot of things, so you can already tell how many relationships I've had. . .

I used to be a tomboy - football, mud, language and all. But only because I felt as though I didn't fit in with the girls and that lads were much more easier to get along with.

I still feel that way in one sense; but female charm is underestimated.

Tomboys kind of turn me off I like me a lady

how do you like ladies that punch harder than you do?
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As long as they dont look like a man!!!

but what if they punch like men?
let's say you and your girl or crush or whoever are hardcore martial arts folk, and she beats you.

would that completely murder you or what?

we should fight! i haven't had a real match in WEEKS.

I think there is a balance, because I know that I enjoy a girl to be aggresive. To wrestle around, and be able to take care of herself. But I still want a girly girl, but you dont wimper at every thing.