I am most definitely a real woman with pride. Because I am a real woman I don't whore myself around so I have never been in a situation like this, they are really easy to avoid
I don't hate this girl, I hate how she makes ignorant people like you look down on women.

And please quit double posting.

am i not a real woman because i'm assertive?
what about missfits? she knows what she wants, and clearly she can argue her point perfectly (and with much more class than i do).

there's a big difference between stuck in the situation of whether i should do physics or apush as opposed to one guy or another.

the amount of people interested in you isn't even slightly related to "what you're doing right," unless you just have shit morals. sorry. deal with it.

thank you for responding to my tristan and isolde comment.

please stop throwing out such backless comments about how being indecisive is in all women's dna.

edit;


i'm glad again that you're basing real life off fictional stories. hitch is a great movie :)

also because i know you are extremely well-educated, have you ever read The Scarlet Letter? nathaniel hawthorne, ftw.

you seem to be suggesting metaphorically that hester prynne was not cheating on her husband because her husband left her in a puritan community in MA for two years while he was abroad. in this case, would sleeping with someone else and having a child still constitute as cheating? discuss.

this is a test grade!

You're right, she's not being a whore, she's being a two-faced cockteaser because she can, and this is somehow "right" to you? She tells one guy one thing, and she runs off to tell another guy, her boyfriend, other things. Being unable to make up your mind about food is not the same as being unable to make sense of your feelings, because in the process of making up your mind about two guys, you are playing with their emotions and heads. It is not only inconsiderate but it is selfish to put people on the edge because she's trying to "sort out her feelings." Just don't be in a relationship at all.

so your calling her a whore
because

1. she's not like you.
[apparently not a reall woman either]

and
2. she's stuck between two possibly great guys.

its not even about the fact that she has two guys &&
thats what you dumbasses keep focusing on.

its the fact that right now in her high school life,
she thinks she's found the one with the topic starter.
but at the same time, she's had time to grow
with her long distance boyfriend,
& thinks its retarted to leave him because she
really feels him now.


love makes you do crazy things.
&& apparently that entails the topic starter
feeling on her boobs!
he even said himself that
she said his touch is like no other.
you can't get that in long distance!
you can't get that anywhere unless its true!
its not about horniness
its about the senses responding to what
it knows is right.
he knows how she feels and she knows in reciprocal




&& women are indecisive indecisive indecisive!!!!

she's not playin tease.
she playing:
"whose in it for the long run?"
you have to see that.
put yourself int othat girls shoes.
you think she's just playin like she a mackk?
i can tell you right now this girl
has spent nights crying over
which one not to hurt.


you basically gettin' at her like she a ruthless bitch!

i wonder if you have ever been scorned by love?

you sound bitter!

you see that!
she's cried.
she's not a teaser.
she was dedicated && then got distracted.
everything happens for a reason.
she gon end up with this dude.
trust.

bloody hell. if women are so indecisive, then just change your f**king mind and agree with me. you obviously lack the morals that common people do to see this in a more educated light.

again, pick up a book.
this was entertaining at first and now it's just a waste of time... until we get more people in here and then it'll be entertaining again. w00t

But on the flip side, it is unfair to the guys who are far more confused than her, and at the same time, worrying who she's going to pick. It is not healthy; it doesn't matter that, in the off-chance, she's spending nights crying. She needs to get her shit straight, for the sake of her well-being, too.

No, I'm not bitter, I just don't condone this type of thinking. My boyfriend? I've loved only him, far longer than we've dated. I've never had to choose between guys because my head isn't up my ass. I'm committed to him, and vice-versa, and it will stay that way. I know what I want, and if I didn't? I can tell you that I wouldn't put everyone on the edge due to my issues.

Just because she is not getting what she needs out of her relationship with her boyfriend doesn't mean it's okay to f**k around with another guy. She needs to break up with her boyfriend and quit leading this guy on.
She obviously doesn't love either of the guys because if you really love someone you don't f**k around with their emotions or cheat on them. Mistakes happen but a prolonged affair is f**ked up.

And, thank you revoltaire. I think your posts are always very well thought out.

you know what missfit
i believe you to a point.
but i mean you sound real irrational right now.
life forreal.
you, to me, are coming off
like you've bever had the chance to make
that decision.
lackk of game perhaps i dont know.
now im not sayin
that you gotta be in that situation
to have game, but im sayin' that
she was dedicated to a point.
but how lonesome can a women get?
honestly.
you should know that from
whenever your boyfriend
leaves for days at a time or just hours.
she did'nt go on a hunt looking for the next best thing because her boyfriend wasnt around to catch her.
because if that was the case
she would have left long distance dude,
right when she found the topic starter.
i'm just sayin you gotta see it from her point
put yo self in her shoes.

the topic starter never
said anything about the girl
saying she didnt like the long distance dude.
she said she loves them both.
she not toying with any one of them


girl you lucky you got that 1 man
cuz you aint never got to worry about nothing like this
unless yo dude flippin if you know what i mean.

haha.

&& revoltaire ..


shut the f**k up you middle man with no sense!!!
you contradict yourself with everything you say && you need to stop playin kiss ass to missfit.

you f**kin dike.

No, I have never been with a guy and f**ked around with another guy.
Lack of game? No, I could do if I felt the need but as I've stated before I am not a whore. If you are with someone and you f**k around that's whorish.
Yeah, I do miss my boyfriend when he is not around but that doesn't mean I am going to go out and flirt with other guys.
If you are only dedicated to a point you shouldn't be with that person. If you can't be completely faithful you don't need to be in a relationship at all.
This is something that really pushes my buttons. I can't stand unfaithful people that claim to be in love. It makes me feel like it means less when I say it.

thank you captian obvious.
so we've established that she's in like.
not love.

thank you for the update.
she's in high school what do yu expect.


whose to sayy these guys aren't cool with what she's doing either?
if they care about her like your making it
they would respect her wishes
&& hold off on both of them like she's doing.
not neccessarily breaking up witht he dude or telling the topic starter he's not the one.
are you married?
engaged?
glued to your spouse?

please update so i can make my next statement more clear.

I was just talking to you in the thread you made, I am happily engaged.

I don't see how that affects this post, though.

no textual evidence. :(

the only way i've seen myself even slightly contradict myself in this small discussion was when i called you out for using fictional stories to compare to real life, while i just recently used TSL. however, the story that i used actually had a situation that was very similar to the one proposed and is actually historical fiction instead of a legend.

i was merely complimenting missfits for being able to respond to your irrational comments with sensibility, while reading your posts cause me to slowly lose my mind. :( tell me that her posts are no good, i dare you. an elementary school child wouldn't be able to down her with reason.

and for the record, i've got my one man, and i haven't drifted since 2003. sure makes me a d*ke, hm?

okay well


1st:
go to sleep revolatire!
please.
i know its past yo bed time.

&& second:
you are really closed minded for someone whose getting married.
was he the only guy you ever dated prior to getting engaged?

because if so, thats why your saying all these things.
you had it set in your mind that this guy was it.
after whatevr time period you and your fiance were together before he proposed you already had in your mind that he was the one

dedication dedication dedication!

am i right?

&& for this girl
she's in high school.
regardless of what age or grade she 's in
she's been brought up that you have to kiss a bunch of frogs
to find her prince charming.
she has her whole life to not ever be in this situation again.

its killing her more than you think.
you think she's just some chilidish little girl who plays games with peoples hearts.

&& you might not want to admit it to me
& thats fine cuz ima stranger & i dont blame you
but you been hurt by love.
&& i dnt know if it was the same situation, but you been hurt.
&& thats understandable for you to think that that one person is that one person at that time.

but you cant force anything to work out if it aint meant to be,

hence, the topic starter turning into the lover from the friend.

hey revoltaire...



dike dike dike dike dike!!!


you a cover up dike.

i don't think i'll be sleeping until 3:30 this morning at the earliest. my physics teacher has this notion that a fifty question assessment is a quiz and not a test, so she's giving them out by the handfuls this week. what's ironic is that all the quizzes she's giving out this week have more material on them than our exam will. ho hum

have you read up on tristan and isolde yet? :)

i'm so very hurt by your name-calling.

I'm confused why you keep the defending the girl when the original poster was a guy who had a question about what he should do. Look, it doesn't matter if she is dying on the inside, she is leading guys on and clearly confusing him, for crying out loud. It's entirely selfish of her, and the guy should not get romantically involved further and spend his spare time writing on this girl's rack. Who in her right mind would allow another guy to do this while she's in a relationship? Let me throw out a concept to you, once again: two-faced. She is "playin'" in your words.

ummmm .. why do we care about that??


not to be rude but ...


well no i take that back.
its to be rude.

aww, so cute!

you wanted me to go to sleep, and i just explained myself.


and we care about tristan and isolde because you referenced it. QQ

who is she confusing?
honestly!
she's made her feelings clear
to the topic starter, & he knows the deal.
there has been no talk of the long distance dude
& whether he knows or is cool about he situation.

to me its up to the guy.

if the long distance dude cares about her like your implying,
then he would be man enough to let her choose with her heart.
which is what she's tryna do.

&& obviously thats what the topic starter is doing because he
hasnt excactly given the girl an "either // or" scenario.

he wants this girl badly but he knows her situation.
if he was getting played,
he would've known a long time ago.
if she didnt care she wouldnt have cried.
you dont just cry to cry people.
emotions evoke tears.

well from me seeing the movie & reading the book i became to infer that it is a true story.
now counter that with some evidence & i'll will humbly bow down to the fact that i was wrong. otherwise beddy bye bye hunney!

i kind of did that with lord of the rings too, and then i couldn't find any hobbits. cried my eyes out.

http://www.encyclopedia.com/SearchResults....stan+and+isolde
knock yourself out, baby.

and if you want essays on it, just let me know.

kudos revoltaire...

i must say you did your homework.
except for it doesnt generally say that the story isnt true.
it just says that its been written over & over again as the year have passed in different texts, genres, & types.


that was good tho.
touche`


well ima go to sleep && you can finsh up in your dikey-dike way
&& i can just embarrass you at a later date!

how's that sound?

wait. whyy did i ask?
it doesnt matter.

haha!

is that right? it generally doesn't say the story isn't true?
my apologies that this isn't in mla format. hmph



http://www.encyclopedia.com/doc/1B1-381183.html

there are dozens of informational articles, literary criticisms, whatever you damn well want that say T&I was based on Celtic legend and was eventually incorporated into Arthurian legend. it is FICTION. don't try to water it down.

and because i am a hardheaded and argumentative bitch:
http://faculty.pittstate.edu/~knichols/labelle2.html
scroll down.

Love will make it through if she realizes liking someone promises what it can't deliver.

I would say if it is real though, if you guys are like 13 or something and in these immature relationships then I think anything can happen.

ROFLLLL! WHAT THE HELL?

I am close minded? Because I don't approve of someone being unfaithful I am close minded? Is it close minded to think that when you are with someone regardless of how far away they are that they have given you a part of themselves and it is unfair to betray that by giving yourself to someone else? I think this is a good way to think before getting married, that's a life long promise to never betray my honeys trust, and because I feel this way, I know i wont.

I have dated a few other guys, I am no whore, but I have experienced other relationships. They weren't terrible, but I knew they weren't what I wanted for the rest of my life. I have been cheated on, and I can honestly say that is one of the most f**ked up things you can do to someone on an emotional level. Every one has been hurt in relationships, I have never been in love before John so no I have never been hurt by love. I did know that John was the one for me, and if she knew one of these guys was the one for her she wouldn't have a problem choosing.

Yes, I am very dedicated to my relationship. I think, and my pre marital counselor agrees, that it is something necessary in a relationship. What's the point in being with someone if you aren't dedicated to them?

I don't get what your saying when you say "for you to think that that one person is that one person at that time.". That sentence makes no sense at all. If you wanna clear that up, maybe grab a dictionary or something, you are more than welcome to.

I don't see how any of my relationships have anything to do with his problem.
I am saying if she does it to her boyfriend now, what will stop her from doing it to this guy? He needs to tell her that until she can devote herself to him that a relationship is not going to work, because it's the truth. It's not fair to him to be the "other man". I am not saying she should force herself into loving her boyfriend, but she shouldn't be a back stabbing tramp.
Being indecisive is okay, but dragging two other people along is just cruel.

Why are there 79 replies to this?

How did this get so twistedly corrupted?

Who cares about the girl? She'll figure it out eventually.

Regardless of all the defensive replies she's receiving from "jayybee" there's still "snoppdogg" to consider. He started this post because of his feelings. He wanted outside advice on what to do. I don't recall him askin' anyone to step up on her behalf to explain her actions.

This turned into like a love vs like trial. :-) kinda funny.

okay i wanna thank jayybee
thanks =D
um woah im lyk really confused i just read
2 more pages of what i actually saw yesterday
am i ganna be more popular than tila tequila??
well anyways i have decided that imma tell her
that well i dont wanna do this crap no more
and that for her sakkke and my emotional sakke
i somtimes understood jayybee
it was kinda cool of jayybee to anwser why she kissed me
i was so lost i thought she lyked me anndddd other stuff
buh it made me realzie some things so thanks jayybee
im just not sure of what to tell her
im not so good with words
when it comes down when im talking to her
if you want to ask more questions plz
dont hesitate to ask
this is really hellping me

snoopdoggie shizzle nizzle,
haha..
ok well i know both of yall in person..
if sam really likes you like you oo so say,
then sooner or later..some conflict will happen
with jeff..seriously haha he's a loser..
& he looks like a monkey haha.
you said it yourself..look what ever you do
DONT regret it..as long as its for a good
cause..then you will always get what you deserve..
in this case


SAM!



-cruelty

This is ridiculous! I agree with everyone else... this girl is bad news even if she seems like she is being sincere. STAY AWAY.

It's so hard for me to decipher your posts, guys.

?
=/

here, i'll translate.

itz rilly hard 2 understan u guyzz
cuz u all type funnie n itz
jus rilly hard 2 read
i men sumtimez itz btter not 2
space thingz owt so muchh
n usualy
Spelling things correctly while typing in coherent, flowing sentences helps.

revoltaire, I love you.

o lolz
well i thinkz
dat i haves
texting hands
cuz tats how i text on ma phone =D

This isn't a phone! Keyboard > Keypad

OMFG snooppdooggie sizzle nizzle
your going to be like more famous
than Jefree star/Tila tequila

o0o0
& about sam..

she was with Josh
& josh was trying to find your bus
cause he wanted to flick you off HAHAHA!

oh yea
i remember
that sam doesnt hug me when joshs around
so we got in an arguement
i was lyk u should hug me no matter what
even if whats his slut face is there
and sum other stuff
since that i havnt really really talked to her =/

Look
Josh is..stupid haha!

& Sam is really cool, but shes a follower especially
to people shes met longer..if you havent notice
she does what Josh tells her to do.

I think these two are the same people.

ha no were not
we know each other
and we both mett the same girl this year
except maurico is gayy
no lie check out his myspace and check out mine
diffrent =D

wow.
you really are something diego.
how can you even say all that shit?
and everyone else too.
your calling her a hoe when you havent even met the girl.
just becuz she doesnt see her bf, doesnt mean that they dont like each other.
its called emotional love.
it means they dont like each other for just physical stuff.
and if you knew her like the way i do.
you'd understand,
and to begin with.
shes tried to tell you a hell of alot that she doesnt like you.
you asked her out ALOT.
and what'd she say?
no.
why?
becuz she DOES know what she wants and thats why she didnt go out with you.
shes getting fed up with all the bullshit your putting her through, even yourself.
so now shes just whatever about this.
she tried to tell you and you know it.
and now your starting blogs about her and your letting other people call her a hoe and immature.
if any of you even met her,
you'd know that "topic starter" is switching a bunch of words around.
she didnt kiss you.
you kissed her and it offended her becuz you are treating like she is a hoe.
she told me she wished you moved on.
its not love vs. like becuz she doesnt like you that way.
has she even said she likes you?
or have you just 'heard' from other people that she does?
cuz if you have...
get the real story.

and mauricio.
wow...
guess your on diegos side...

IM NOT
in anybody side

i have different
opinions & different sides of view.

sometimes i agree with things & sometimes i dont.

Diego or "f**kkyou39"
yall arent suppose to make
me choose sides!

wow...
you guys...
are so....
FUNNY!!!

Because this isn't group therapy.

We give advice/suggestions based on the original poster and his/her words. We are not on here to look at everyone's story and analyze them. Take it to an AIM chatroom, not here.