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expoised

Jun 22 2004, 09:20 AM

i was talking to my friend and he sent me an email i wrote to him about a year ago when we were going out. (i put a fake name in). it made me realize that in most of the relationships i've been in ... i wasn't looking for someone to cuddle or to have around as a sex toy. i've been looking for... a friend.

(i left a lot of personal stuff out)

QUOTE

dear *billybob*,
remember back a few months ago when you were having problems with your parents and you came over to my house, then we walked to the park and at the end of the day, you were laughing like crazy? we had fun back then, didn't we? we could talk to each other, couldn't we? i just want you to understand that you are first and foremost my friend. i don't want our relationship to put an end to that. you can always talk to me and i'll always be there to listen. because i love you like that.
love, melissa

hybrid

Jun 22 2004, 09:26 AM

Awww, that's so sweet, Melissa.

expoised

Jun 22 2004, 09:36 AM

^^ i hear i can be sweet. =] i amaze myself sometimes

onenonly101

Jun 22 2004, 10:34 AM

That is nice...I was just about to make a topic like this...I realized the idea of having a boyfriend is more appealing than having one. Then i relaized i don't want a boyfriend i want a friend. But the problem is guys now never approach you just wanting to be friends. And the ones who do just want to be friends don't approach you because they already knwo that you would think they were looking for more. Right now i just want friends in my life. Good guy friends

LiNHy POO

Jun 22 2004, 11:59 AM

aaaww very sweet!! are yall still talking or friends?

expoised

Jun 22 2004, 12:05 PM

^^ yeah, we're still friends. almost best of friends.

DoOdOox3

Jun 22 2004, 12:26 PM

awww... almost best freidns... thatz good! =]
your post made me wonderr...
hmmm am i lookin for a friend??
hmmmmmmmmmm
nah.
lolll
i guess im lookin 4 both.

tWinKliEmE

Jun 22 2004, 03:53 PM

its good that a boyfriend is a friend.. well yeah .. i dont really want a boyfriend.. just a friend. a boyfriend is a friend.. so yeah ... i think im makin myself confused..

dani41790

Jun 23 2004, 04:46 AM

aww thats sooo sweet. that must have made him feel happi

mai_z

Jun 23 2004, 10:10 AM

aww, that's so sweet and so tru.....i think that's why it's called a boyfriend.... it's a boy..but more importantly he's a friend

islandkiss

Jun 23 2004, 07:39 PM

awww. that's nice. did he respond?

expoised

Jun 24 2004, 12:37 AM

QUOTE(x3_kelly @ Jun 23 2004, 7:39 PM)

awww. that's nice. did he respond?

yeah.. it took a while. a month or so after i wrote that, we decided it'd be better to be friends.

sandra

Jun 24 2004, 02:59 AM

that was very nice of u writing that to him. yep, usually friends last longer than relationships, so its good to stay best friends.

crazeegirl411

Jun 24 2004, 03:11 AM

Yeah...I've been thinking a lot (of course, there's not many subjects I have not thought about) about that. Sometimes...I would get along with them so good, I would have so much fun. But then...I realize that if we really got to the next level, it wouldn't be the same. I know I wouldn't want that.

Guess that's a little similar?

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