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Jthotlipz
so girls help me out here.. i mean i really really adore him and want to say I love you.. but rejection i hate rejection and i would feel better if he said it first.. Do u really think it matters if who says "I LOVE YOU" first?????
StandardEdition
I think if you really adore him you should tell him. Or hint at it [you know cuz of the whole rejection thing]. And I don't think it matters who says it first as long as you both feel the same way.
Jthotlipz
I GUESS. i just get soo nervous and i dont want to scare him off.. but i have been hinting about it.. LOL but he asks me wierd Q's too... but no L word :(
TheBigHouse
LMFAO scare him off I bet you will moo-re I bet you will.
StandardEdition
You should probably say it.
Just to get it out there.
This is rly hard to give you advice about cuz rejection sux but yeah I say go for it.
Its not hte end of the world if he doesn't feel the same way.
[sorry if that seems heartless]
TheBigHouse
QUOTE(pureimaginationx23 @ Nov 30 2007, 02:04 PM) *
You should probably say it.
Just to get it out there.
This is rly hard to give you advice about cuz rejection sux but yeah I say go for it.
Its not hte end of the world if he doesn't feel the same way.
[sorry if that seems heartless]

Not at alll heartless you have to tell her how it is or she will never move past it.
jeanna
yes it does matter who says "i love you" first.
in your profile it says youre 19 and in a relationship. by the sounds of it i thought you meant you were just crushing on him.

how long have you been going out though
Jthotlipz
LOl no no it makes sense.. a lot of sense but if i keep worrying about it then i cant have fun with him like i would love too... thanks chick_a_dee
Jthotlipz
see iv known him a year and from the first time everything i said he took it to heart.. and i told him he had to change for me... you know his bad habbits.. and a year later he called a changed man and we have been dating 3 months now.. and see the first time we dated a year ago he told me loved me.. and i told him when he got to know me better come back and tell me he loves me... but i have fallen head over heels in love with him!! and i dont know if he thinks he tells me he loves me that it will scare me off again.. but it soo wont...
TheBigHouse
Chick thread got boreing I will be in my game forum see ya.
Jthotlipz
thankx soo much.. i have been thinking about this a while a lot of good advice.. but chicks i have to go now but i shall return later .. bye now
StandardEdition
QUOTE(Jthotlipz @ Nov 30 2007, 02:09 PM) *
see iv known him a year and from the first time everything i said he took it to heart.. and i told him he had to change for me... you know his bad habbits.. and a year later he called a changed man and we have been dating 3 months now.. and see the first time we dated a year ago he told me loved me.. and i told him when he got to know me better come back and tell me he loves me... but i have fallen head over heels in love with him!! and i dont know if he thinks he tells me he loves me that it will scare me off again.. but it soo wont...

no double posting.
And since thats the case I think he wont mind.
so go for it.
deplorable
she didnt even talk yet i feel like my ears are ringing...
shoryuken
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icecreamisyummy
play HANGMAN with him lol he HAS to say it then or wheel of fortune hahahahaha
minot
go hang with him first
tokyo-rose
You can't make someone say that they love you. They'll say it when they're ready, when they really mean it.
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