SuPerSoPow1025
Jun 21 2004, 08:24 PM
did you ever feel like giving up on love (if you no what i mean). Like stop having relationships and stuff,stop liking ppl b/c its to much. Sometime it hurts like emotionaly, might sound cheezeeee and stuff but I feel this way

advice any1?
LiNHy POO
Jun 21 2004, 08:28 PM
aaw im sorry!! yehh sumtimes i feel like that too!! like after when my very first bf broke up with me... i felt very worthless and stuff.. but yehh i try not to feel like that anymore!!
XxKrNqTcUiTyxX
Jun 21 2004, 08:28 PM
i do, i wanna give up...the last relationship almost broke me, made me think about commiting suicide a lot....
SuPerSoPow1025
Jun 21 2004, 08:31 PM
QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ Jun 21 2004, 8:28 PM)
i do, i wanna give up...the last relationship almost broke me, made me think about commiting suicide a lot....
samehere but not like im gunna do it and some1 had to stop me, i just thought if I like commited suicide, would any1 notice and be sad that i was gone
tWinKliEmE
Jun 21 2004, 08:48 PM
QUOTE(SuPerSoPow1025 @ Jun 21 2004, 8:31 PM)
samehere but not like im gunna do it and some1 had to stop me, i just thought if I like commited suicide, would any1 notice and be sad that i was gone
same here... i hate love.. it hurts so much.. i thought about ... me being dead.. and if anyone would ever miss me.. would they notice that i was gone? would they cry? would they wish i was here??
islandkiss
Jun 21 2004, 08:56 PM
I used to feel that way. that feeling comes and goes. you just have to decide yourself on what you want to do.
SuPerSoPow1025
Jun 21 2004, 09:04 PM
oOo
i hope it comes and goes
ComradeRed
Jun 21 2004, 09:28 PM
Death penalty for attempted suicide!!
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
Jun 21 2004, 09:51 PM
love isn't easy and that's something you have to realize .. sometimes you'll want to give up .. but when the right person comes along trust me you'll feel differently .. i'm still very much in love and there's nothing that could make me give him up .. unless he chooses to leave .. love makes you feel and do a lot of crazy things ..
dani41790
Jun 21 2004, 10:33 PM
aww im soo srry u feel that way

. but umm i neva ever felt that way b4. but dont worry. u wont that way forever
Winter
Jun 22 2004, 02:59 AM
I feel like that a lot. Sometimes I think it's just not worth it. The pain, the hurt, the anxiety, it's all not worth it. And yet I still get into relationships. Meh
shortie09
Jun 22 2004, 03:12 AM
i feel like resisting liking anyone all the time. i feel better alone, and basically, once you like//love someone, your life and everything revolves around him//her. so if you break up, get rejected, etc., you're of course depressed, sad, and torn up. that effects how you react and do your daily tasks and such. i don't think i'm up for that. heh. yeah, it's a retarded reason. poohh.
poisonedxivy
Jun 22 2004, 03:49 AM
advice? uhmmmmm don't date anyone ... didn't you just answer the qestion?
x0143637x0
Jun 22 2004, 12:23 PM
i did. i was about to give up on love like a month ago but then theres this other guy who was sweet and all and hes realli caring and honest so i went with him but after a week his ex came back to his life so i let him go... so now i dunno if i wanna love again..
dukesoccer07
Jun 22 2004, 12:24 PM
Thats the point I am at now...
ComradeRed
Jun 22 2004, 12:55 PM
Surrender your arms and you will not be harmed.
brokenskys
Jun 22 2004, 05:38 PM
felt like that once upon a time... 1st time i got dumped. i told myself i'd go and be a nun and never love again. but then
he came along...
mouse_3k
Jun 23 2004, 12:58 PM
i almost gave up love...It almost took my life too -_- idk, i wasnt really in love with this other guy but i mean i REALLY liked him...he was my first kiss (need i say the worse lol) but i say stick in there, u will find someone WAY better. someone will treat u like gold and u will be glad u stuck in there for tht special someone...
it happened to me, im sure it can happen to u.
sugarcult86
Jun 23 2004, 01:32 PM
i think a lot of people feel like that, especially after being in numerous heartbreaking relatoinships. i know for myself, after my last boyfriend, i just didn't feel as if searching for "the one" was even worth all the suffering and pain. however, not every person that comes across your path is the same. you sholdn't give up according to what a few or just 1 person has left you feeling after the break up.
it is all about moving on and doing what you have t]o do. if the time is right, your person will come and save you :)
ppl_love_me
Jun 23 2004, 01:41 PM
I feel that way, but the sad part is that I've never had a BF and I've had friend problems.

So I don't know how it feels to be dumped, and I'm starting to think I'll never get a BF.
geekLy
Jun 23 2004, 05:39 PM
guys can be really selfish and unexplainable.
skeptical_dreamer
Jun 23 2004, 07:49 PM
QUOTE(SuPerSoPow1025 @ Jun 21 2004, 8:24 PM)
did you ever feel like giving up on love (if you no what i mean). Like stop having relationships and stuff,stop liking ppl b/c its to much. Sometime it hurts like emotionaly, might sound cheezeeee and stuff but I feel this way

advice any1?
I feel like that right now too, I'm just tired of all the things that I have to go through after a break up...It doesn't seem worth it sometimes? I don't know, sometimes I just wanna give up on guys...But I don't wanna become no man hater now...LOL Hmm, well I think you should just let everything flow...Don't think too much about it. The right time will come, when you'll feel all brand new again...Don't worry too much on it, I guess...Even though that's hard not to do...
mai_z
Jun 23 2004, 08:27 PM
life isn't easy....nothing worth getting is... in love, everyone gets hurt, yet they still keep going back for more... life has it's ups and downs... like a roller coaster..... u get freaked out, you get hurt, itz exciting and never the same twice.... u just keep living your life, and hope that this time won't hurt as much as the last
ThePrincessofTKD
Jun 23 2004, 10:42 PM
QUOTE(poisonedxivy @ Jun 22 2004, 3:49 AM)
advice? uhmmmmm don't date anyone ... didn't you just answer the qestion?
yup yup. STOP dating.
i`m smart. i haven`t started a relationship yet. i`m still single and happy. no guy has touched my heart yet.
i just pity those who had their hearts broken countless times. it`s their fault. not their boyfriend/girlfriend that their heart got broken. they chose to be in a relationship. ending a relationship is a risk to take along with starting one.
skeptical_dreamer
Jun 24 2004, 12:00 AM
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jun 23 2004, 10:42 PM)
yup yup. STOP dating.
i`m smart. i haven`t started a relationship yet. i`m still single and happy. no guy has touched my heart yet.
i just pity those who had their hearts broken countless times. it`s their fault. not their boyfriend/girlfriend that their heart got broken. they chose to be in a relationship. ending a relationship is a risk to take along with starting one.

Yeah, love is basically a risk...If you're willing then you risk getting hurt...I guess it's a consequence...that we all have to face when we get in to a relationship.
ComradeRed
Jun 24 2004, 09:07 AM
It's the people who take risks who get what they want in this world ... or are locked in a Cambodian Jail and beaten with a bamboo cane for ten years each day ... but uh ... you get the point.
someflipguy
Jun 24 2004, 09:25 AM
QUOTE(geekLy @ Jun 23 2004, 5:39 PM)
guys can be really selfish and unexplainable.
Some of us guys can be selfish and unexplainable...but don't judge every guy that way..also, girls can be a hassle and annoying sometimes..when they say you aren't thinking about there feelings and you really are..How can girls think they know what you are thinking? I try not to give up..but its so hard not too...
ppl_love_me
Jun 24 2004, 09:38 AM
QUOTE(mai_z @ Jun 23 2004, 8:27 PM)
life isn't easy....nothing worth getting is... in love, everyone gets hurt, yet they still keep going back for more... life has it's ups and downs... like a roller coaster..... u get freaked out, you get hurt, itz exciting and never the same twice.... u just keep living your life, and hope that this time won't hurt as much as the last
After I read that, I was like "But I'm afraid of rollercoasters, Ill just switch it with sumthing like a scary movie" lol
srry I just found that funny. If love is really like a rolarcostar, than I threw in the towel a looooooong time ago. lolz
ComradeRed
Jun 24 2004, 10:01 AM
Come into the light, Winston. You know you want to.
hatefulxlove
Jun 24 2004, 09:42 PM
QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ Jun 21 2004, 8:28 PM)
i do, i wanna give up...the last relationship almost broke me, made me think about commiting suicide a lot....
i`ve been there.. Well, how I got over it is I just did nothing. I let whatever feeling flow through me..and then eventually you find someone new, and it seems like the lights have been turned on again and your hopes suddenly rose back up.
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