Uronacid
Nov 14 2007, 06:55 PM
So, I'm reading this book, and they say it's a good practice to get to know yourself by asking yourself some questions. I don't usually write things down, but I'll just copy the paragraph directly from the book, and you guys can participate with me:
QUOTE
Take the time to sit down with a
piece of paper INTERNET and write the following headings. In case you think this sounds silly, bear in mind that therapists use exactly the same technique with their clients - but they charge by the hour! This therapeutic technique is called "listing".
- Ten things that love means to me
- Ten things that sex means to me
Be has honest and truthful as possible. Pretend this list is for your eyes only, so don't hold back - write what you really feel. When you've written your lists, read them over carefully and think about what you've written - especially if you find that you're a little surprised by some of the answers.
So lets do this.
Uronacid
Nov 14 2007, 06:59 PM
I'll go first as an example, but I'll be real about it:
Ten things that love means to me:- Hugs
- Talking
- Careing
- Being together
- Spending time with eachother
- Crying
- Laughing
- Taking long rides in the car together
- Saying you're sorry
- Forgiving
Ten things that sex means to me:- Lots of Kisses
- Little Nibbles
- Surprises
- Touching
- Breathing
- Fucking
- Playful
- Foreplay
- Wet
- Condom... -_-
*says it out loud* I feel so fu
cking free right now (Aside from that condom).
Insurmountable
Nov 14 2007, 09:09 PM
What Loves means to me:- Caring
- Honesty
- listening & talking
- Spending time with each other
- kisses
- hugs
- Open Hearts/Open Minds
- Respect
- Passion
- Sharing
What sex means to me:- love
- Comfortableness
- Trust
- Kisses
- Playfulness
- Closeness
- nurturing of a relationship O_o that sounds odd
- freedom
- breathing
- foreplay
MissFits
Nov 14 2007, 09:28 PM
What love means to me
-Honesty
-Compromise
-Sharing
-Passion
-Trust
-Respect
-Maturity
-FOREVER
-Open hearts
-Open minds
What Sex Means to me
-LOVE
-passion
-Freedom
-comfort with yourself
-comfort with your partner
-Trust
-Beauty
-Closeness (I don't know if that's a word or not)
-lust
-Mutual attraction
My marriage counselor actually asked us this, but it was only 5 things to list.
I have the big packet somewhere around here.
Uronacid
Nov 14 2007, 09:33 PM
QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 14 2007, 09:28 PM)
What love means to me
-Honesty
-Compromise
-Sharing
-Passion
-Trust
-Respect
-Maturity
-FOREVER
-Open hearts
-Open minds
What Sex Means to me
-LOVE
-passion
-Freedom
-comfort with yourself
-comfort with your partner
-Trust
-Beauty
-Closeness (I don't know if that's a word or not)
-lust
-Mutual attraction
My marriage counselor actually asked us this, but it was only 5 things to list.
I have the big packet somewhere around here.
Damn, you put my list to shame. LOL, I guess I just thought of mine really fast.
MissFits
Nov 14 2007, 09:35 PM
I didn't mean to show anyone up.
Uronacid
Nov 14 2007, 09:40 PM
QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 14 2007, 09:35 PM)
I didn't mean to show anyone up.
Lol, I think you did a very good job. You put me to shame, I'm jealous.
*wink* Lucky man you have there.
MissFits
Nov 14 2007, 09:47 PM
I really excel at list making.
Thanks, though, I am a really lucky gal. He is a straight up hep cat.
Uronacid
Nov 14 2007, 09:53 PM
QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 14 2007, 09:47 PM)
I really excel at list making.
Thanks, though, I am a really lucky gal. He is a straight up hep cat.
Nice!
MissFits
Nov 14 2007, 09:55 PM
I think more people should start saying hep. And cat while they are at it.
I am going to start the revolution. When you guys see it on MTV, you know where it started
icecreamisyummy
Nov 14 2007, 10:00 PM
Sex
>attraction
>lust
>satisfaction
>spontanious
>daring
>comfort
>playful
>hott
>no commitment
>desiring
Love
>caring
>trust
>giving
>honest
>accepting
>longing
>commitment
>true
>understanding
>being there for each other
jeanna
Nov 14 2007, 11:15 PM
Ten things that love means to me:
1. connection
2. social life
3. money
4. gifts
5. compliments
6. -
7. -
8. -
9.-
10. -
Ten things that sex means to me:
1. laying there dead waiting
2. pregnancy tests from freaking out
3. gossiping
4. -
5. -
6. -
7. -
8. -
9. -
10. Condom
yeah, that's why im not in a relationship and love being single lol.
maybe in like 5 years
Uronacid
Nov 15 2007, 08:51 AM
Remember to say them out loud guys!
MissFits
Nov 15 2007, 02:00 PM
I read mine to John, does that count? Or do I have to say them to myself?
Uronacid
Nov 15 2007, 02:03 PM
QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 15 2007, 02:00 PM)
I read mine to John, does that count? Or do I have to say them to myself?
Of course that counts. ;]
Sandraaa
Nov 15 2007, 04:24 PM
In all honesty. NOTE: this is the first time I'm admitting to somethings.
Love
1) Laughter
2) Passion
3) Happiness
4) Friendship
5) Compromise
6) Faithfulness
7) Honesty
8) Maturity
9) Understanding
10) Growth
Sex
1) Closeness
2) Love
3) Respect
4) Desire
5) Warmth
6) Fufilling
7) Sharing
8) Togetherness
9) Openess
10) Fun
Uronacid
Nov 15 2007, 08:06 PM
^That's really cool.
ersatz
Nov 16 2007, 02:42 PM
LOVE
Understanding a person
Knowing a person
Excitement
Favorite person
Sharing
Comfort
Elation
Liberation
Acceptance
Not expecting anything
SEX
Passion
Lust
Satisfaction
Intertwining, physically and mentally
Selflessness
Awkwardness
Loss of control
Honesty
Attraction
Intimacy
That was dumb.
sheridan_whiteside
Nov 16 2007, 02:50 PM
LOVE
<3
</3
wahhhh
ooh!
<3
</3
noooooo
<3<3
:0
:(
SEX
Bacon
Sausage
Gravy
Biscuits
Pancakes
Syrup
Butter
Toast
Jam
Breakfast I don't have to make
RyanWasHere
Nov 16 2007, 03:00 PM
QUOTE(sheridan_whiteside @ Nov 16 2007, 02:50 PM)
LOVE
<3
</3
wahhhh
ooh!
<3
</3
noooooo
<3<3
:0
:(
SEX
Bacon
Sausage
Gravy
Biscuits
Pancakes
Syrup
Butter
Toast
Jam
Breakfast I don't have to make
Ditto
shoryuken
Nov 18 2007, 05:11 PM
1
ayreezh
Nov 18 2007, 09:42 PM
LOVE:
1. trust
2. passion
3. caring
4. kisses
5. hugs
6. best friend
7. relationship
8. pain
9. talks
10. you and me.. lolz
SEX
1. lust
2. amazing
3. love
4. passion
5. intimacy
6. tiring
7. commitment
8. maturity
9. trust
10. giving
stephinika
Nov 19 2007, 04:35 AM
Hm, interesting topic. I like it.
Love
1. Being completely open
2. Freedom
3. Honesty
4. Loyalty
5. Sacrifice
6. Comfort
7. Trusting
8. Everlasting
9. Reliability
10. Respect
Sex
1. Passion
2. Love
3. Intimacy - physically & emotionally
4. Sensuality
5. Raw emotion
6. Freedom
7. Attraction
8. Foreplay
9. Open-ness with your partner
10. Being comfortable with each other and yourself
datass
Nov 19 2007, 08:52 AM
love
1. trust and being open
2. conversations
3. loyalty
4. comfort
5. laugh
6. cry
7. kisses
8. compromise
9. understanding
10. respect
sex
1. love
2. intimacy
3. breathing
4. comfort
5. orgasm
6. foreplay
7. lust
8. selflessness
9. queeeeef
10. sex
Prophet
Nov 19 2007, 08:32 PM
What love means to me:
1. My girlfriend, she means the world to me every second that passes by makes our love stronger.
What Sex means to me:
1. With her it doesn't matter if we do it or don't its up to her.
MissFits
Nov 19 2007, 09:14 PM
QUOTE(Prophet @ Nov 19 2007, 10:32 PM)
1. With her it doesn't matter if we do it or don't its up to her.
That's nice of you!
Prophet
Nov 19 2007, 09:43 PM
QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 19 2007, 09:14 PM)
That's nice of you!
Thanks, I love her so much. I never asked a girl out in my life and it was so hard I had 3 girlfriends long relationships though. But I asked this girl that I'm going out with now and I never felt like this in my life feels so good, its like a good drug lol.
MissFits
Nov 19 2007, 09:46 PM
AW!
How sweet!
Congratulations!!
Prophet
Nov 20 2007, 12:07 AM
QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 19 2007, 09:46 PM)
AW!
How sweet!
Congratulations!!
Thanks
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