Do they bother you?
Are you disgusted by them?
Have you been called one?
How do you DEFINE the word slut?


Yes, I am sexual active. And no, I do not call myself a slut. And yeah, I don't a boyfriend. And yeah, it bothers me whenever girls call each other slut.. the terminology 'slut' has been defined like, over and over again.. mainly for the purpose of keeping the damn fundamentals on how women should be.

Well basically, I want to point out using the terminology 'slut' downgrades women, you don't have to be a boy to downgrade women because if you believe so I would slap the fck out of you. And it bothers the hell out of me a girl can be called a slut if sexual active when she doesn't have a boyfriend, but it's ok for a boy to be so because he's a boy. I've three girl friends who have gone pregnant, and don't you even dare call them sluts, and they have been because of that.

Now here's the real question:

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?
Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

DISCUSS!

This topic's purpose is to widen girls AND boys knowledge about women, and to stop sexism AND generalizations. I hope it works..

nah no one expects me to be a slut because i'm not overly tanned, wear clothes too small for me, have bleached hair or can be contacted by checking out your local penis.

nah generalizations aren't going to stop, ever [by first glance]. it's like, are you going to say someone isn't gangster who are wearing over sized clothes and a tilted hat? every genre of person is going to show.

I can't say thatI am disgusted by them but they do bother me alittle. I mean its fine with me to be sexually active but theres a fine line that and bein a hoe. How I define slut: I feel that slut is a teenage HS kinda thing so I define it by being the one gets passed around from boy to boy in hs. Or possibly a girly who a new bf every two seconds [it depends on this one tho.].

One of my friends said: In order to figure out who are the real gangsters, they're the ones who don't really sag like a bitch just so they can run away from the cops if ever.

Ahhaa.

ANYWAY.

No, I don't judge anyone by how they dress at all. And I can say I am a dynamic person because I've been and can be with different kinds of people -one reason why I got open minded.\

And it just PISSES the f**k out of me a girl looses respect by wearing supposedly skimpy clothes. Not all women dress to be f**ked! Some of them think they're clothes are beautiful or whatnot.

you shouldn't let it get to you. If someone calls you a slut just b like you don't no me biyotch!
lol.

Hmmm.
Yep, and it bothers other people that girls can be 'players' therefore call them sluts because they feel those girls aren't into serious terms when they're CHICKS.

I never let it go. I'm just one of those people who hates I mean HATE sexism.

ok my best friend said its not how many guys youve f**ked but how often . for example, i f**k one guy today and then 2 weeks later a different guy and then a week later back to the guy from today and then 2 weeks later a completely idfferent one. did that make sense?

Well that just gives us every reason to call guys sluts

I don't mind the word "slut" but an actual "slut" kind of disgusts me a little.

I call people whores all the time, jokingly of course.

Yes, so, you would call her that term slut or a sexual active person?

Don't double post.

no

the only reason i'd call somebody a slut is if they ARE kinda...slutty. like...i know some who do sleep around A LOT...i know a few who got prego. i call my friends sluts jokingly, but other than that, i wont say it unless i know the facts.

okay basically he said youre a slut if you f*ck a certain number or guys in a short period of time.

I wish you guys would discuss the other questions I prompted >.<

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
Well people shouldn't but people do, they have eyes and see what they want to see. They don't wanna know the details and they'll just write you off immediately from a glance.

Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?

Well I'm not a guy but yeah in a sort metaphorical way.

Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

No. Why would I do that?

i have never been called a slut.
they dont bother me if i dont know about it
and people are giving you their def. of a slut, so i dont see the prob

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
see above answer.


Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?
well i'm a girl but if i was lez, no.

Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?
...i don't get how this question ties in with this.

Do they bother you?
the few real ones i know, yes.

Are you disgusted by them?
honestly, yes. >_<

Have you been called one?
jokingly

How do you DEFINE the word slut?
somebody who sleeps around...whether they have a boyfriend or not. i'm not saying screws a couple of guys a year...i mean full out doing different people every week.

No. They don't bother me. I'm not disgusted by them. Why should I be? Who am I to sit on a pedestal and turn up my nose at you because you get around a bit?
Yes. I have been called one because...Hell, I may be slighty out there.
I try not to use the word slut, therefore I have no definition to offer you. I guess it's just a girl who's promiscuous.
The girls at my school use the word slut when they're jealous of some girl for getting too friendly with a certain guy. "ZOMFG Did you see the way she touched him? She's such a slutttt."

AHAHAHAH!

my bestie ashlee is like that.
its just hilarious wehn I go the mall with her and shes just like, SLUT!!

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well i know theres a certain 14 yr old here at cB that is already sexually active. that scares me.

I feel that is just a term for very immature/ insecure people. I still get f**king pissed when i hear guys call a girl that...
Girls are very emotional. if a girl choses to be active with guy 2 thing must happen 1st....attraction, and feeling of connection/rapport.
She wants to take it to another level. SO, you f**king insecure nuts stop calling girl a slut or ill come slap you crazy

^x2 Lol. I try not to judge people just cause I know I'm not perfect and it pisses me off when people call me a slut for the tiniest reasons. There are a lot of sexually active 14 year olds in the world.

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i odn thtink middle schoolers should be sexually active.

i'll admit, i lost ym virginity the summer between 9th and 10th grade (a month after my birthday). i didnt have sex again until this year ( i am now in college)

at the time i didnt see anythign wrong with it, but now when i hear about these kids having sex im like damn. im glad i wasnt sexually active in high school.

even now that i am , i wish i wasnt. its like a drug (not sayign im having sex with all the guys in my neighborhood lol just 1 guy)



AMEN TO THAT

all i care is if they had sex or is having sex with my guy lol.

otherwise go on doing your whore game

well said

A slut, to me, is a girl that sleeps around. If a girl is with a guy and cheats on him that's a slutty action.
I do believe there is a double standard between girl and guys, but what can you do about it? It just means more is expected out of girls, if you a feminist that should be good enough. Women are strong, we can handle it.

There is a 14 year old girl that is sleeping around with a bunch of guys I know. She is a slut. She just turned 14 and is trying to bump uglies with every guy in town. She would, if half of them didn't turn her down. There are sluts out there, if you don't like the term don't use it, but some girls are slutty.

Looking at it from a psychological way, the girls who are mostly called sluts usually aren't the ones deserving of it and are usually broken inside. Most girls who are "slutty" have gone emotionally numb and just think of sex as a drug. Another way to get a good feeling.
but, it still doesn't mean you should use the term slut.

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lol i hate to say but they are.
theyll have sex just to be kool.
its like fine, go have sex and get herpes,
see whos kool then.
[despite that comment im not against sex]

so are these girls under 20??

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heyy *throw rock back but misses*
DAMMIT!

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AHHH MY EYES! *goes blind*

if they are under 20 that means theyre stupid according to you, but hey that means theyre stupid for f8cking you.

poor girls

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ok enough of that * * stuff.

you only go after virgins? you don't see that as hypocritical at all?..

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*smiles* thanx dood.

THANK YOU! what i was trying to say

well some guys only go after blondes.
and some girls only go after guys who are tall & ripped.

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