a "good friend" of mine slept with a guy i liked even if i told her to not to do anything with him because she has a background of that.
she has worked in truck stations, corners, you name it. (no i'm not joking)
she is a year younger than me (18) and lives a bad life. she moved out to las vegas and sometimes comes back here.
thing is, i'm still mad as hell that she did sleep with him and betrayed my trust. she im's me about once a week even though i don't respond.
i'm over that guy but not the fact she did that stuff.
should i forgive her?

If you put good friend in quotes, I think you know what to do.

she's a nice person but i can't get over that she screwed me over!
idk.

dump her on her skanky ass.

Screwing you over isnt a nice thing to do.

A true friend would never do that whatsoever.

yeah and with her lifestyle who think she wouldn't do it again? i guess she wants me to visit her down in las vegas but no thanks.

it's just weird because she's really sweet and kind but has this streak of being a whore and sleeping with any guy. she using a guy right now for money and she even knows.

oh well.

i repeat:
dump her on her skanky ass.

it's her fault, NOT yours! don't let her get to you!

I don't think you should lose her just because she slept with some guy you like.

I think you should lose her cuz she's an overall whore? I mean she's probably nice just as an act, you can't be both and angel and a bitch.

dude what did you think
the guy was f**kin
YOUR PROPERTY?
you had the chance to make a move,
maybe its just her thing to get a taste of a lot of different dicks.

Ignore him.

Ditch that Bitch. Has she even apologized to you?

So her redeeming feature is that she's "nice"?!

Not worth your time, mate.

uh yeah lol. he was my property. you don't know the rules of girls



i have ignored him since the start of this year and that's how i found out all the stuff he did behind my back.

but yeah, she wouldnt be exactly a good influence on me. especially if i visted her where i think she strips for money.
i'll just block her and it'll be done.

I meant Eddie. But, I am glad you are ignoring that guy too.

No one deserves to be treated like that by their "friends".

If my friend did that to me, especially one of my good friends, I would ditch her in a second. Just because I wouldn't do that, ever. Especially if someone would tell me not to do it.

Don’t judge your good friend by her sweet little attitude. Girls are dramatic. They can act nice, but does ridiculous things behind people's back.

How can you forgive her? She doesn’t care about your crush. She doesn’t even respect your decision. She simply cares less about your thing. She doesn’t even think about you're in pain and anger. She has no heart for you... but act “nice” to you, girl.

What can you do now? You’re just going to forgive her whatever she does to you? If she slaps you, you're going to forgive her? if she sleeps some more guys you like, you'll forgive her? If she takes your money and lie to you, you'll forgive her? Think about it. She’s going against your value, trust, and personality. You’re a weak person. How are you going to live your OWN life when she's always around digging your opportunity?

You’re going to be independent women. You need to grow up, and trash that bitch. You don’t need people who put you down. You need people that respect you and don’t put you down. Live your life, be smart, and don’t take wrongful shit from others. You know much better than that.

a true friend would have respected your feelings, you only talk to her once a week, and don't even see her that often,
dont hold a grudge, or you will feel bad, so just tell her how what she did made you feel, then let her go.

poopoo in her orange juice when she isn't looking

I honestly don't think you even had a right to be mad. I mean sure, you liked him, but it's not like he was your boyfriend? Forgive her, but let her know she is a skanky whore.

I don't know... that's wicked lame. Like Elba said, tear her down and build her back up. If you're going to forgive her then teach her a lesson.

I think you should forgive her but make a distance. She isn't a true friend. She isn't even worth getting angry over. I'd feel sorry for her if I were in your shoes.

yeah don't waste your time with her

so true. our friendship is more of me tip toeing around her.



yeah, he wasn't my boyfriend so i shouldn't be that mad. she was saying how she was peeing blood and thinks it might be an STD. so, he might get a present. hopefully she doesn't have one though...



but yeah this could be closed lol. i'm done. thanks everyone :)

i had once a best friend go after my man and, she acted like nothing when she took him. than i'm souppoused to be happy go lucky and still be friends with her like nothing ohh hell to the naw. it's like everything i want or have she wants and always goes after it. i know she's jealous of me, and even if she has to lie and scheme to use people to get me jealous she does it. now it's like she's even trying to be me whatever it's so funny i dont let herphaze me anymore. i cut all ties after the fact. than i tried to do the friends thing once in a blue moon but it pained me so much to even be around her. and she always go out her way to parade herself to hurt me. friends like that ain't true or real friends if you always have to watch your back 24/7 and look over your shoulders thinking what they going to do to hurt you next i learned my lesson. she still im's me and i never answer. now i just blocked her and everyone else tied to her. after she took my man and was done with him she going act like we still cool, things ain't the same and they aint ever going to be. she needa realize that she just a skanky hoe that uses sex and lies to get what she want and she'd never be better than me. cause i never stoop so damn low to do shit like that and im a true friend.

I would shank her in the back.. and cut off his penis. :[

naw too rash...

hmmm.. I would tell her how you feel and if she get's in your face.. call her a slut and walk away.

Like the majority said, just forgive her and keep your distance.




I'm going to have to issue a:

VERBAL WARNING CODE 777:
This is a verbal warning for being so bluntly honest that it's offensive, somewhat truthful, and a bit funny. No-one deserves this verbal warning. In fact, this type of verbal warning is so pointless that it's similar to an "un-safe start". You are only receiving it because we have quotas backstage. You will still receive 3 points on your license because it is a moving violation. Next time you will be more careful, I'm sorry.

I agree. It'd be totally different if you and the guy were formally involved with each other.