QUOTE(31miracles @ Nov 28 2007, 07:37 PM)

So thanks to god I can have hardships? um thanks? If my family didn't go through the hardships, I will tell you what I would be today. If my parents could have started college right after high school, today, we would be millionaires.
You say that hardships could make me a successful young man. Growing up poor, I know that there were many people in worse of conditions than I was in, and that directly hits my heart. I have decided that I will try to improve the world the best I can through my charity work. Now if you say that is what god meant for me to do, that's bull, because that's what I choose to do. For everything, you can make up a crap reason of what god meant. This is a favorite one I heard, "oh I broke a leg, god is telling me to spend more time at home with my family".
sorry but you are completely wrong.
our family "poverty" did not come from bad money management, laziness, or gamboling.
in fact, all my family has been the COMPLETE opposite.
one side of my family were countryside farmers and the other fishermen... in China.
so that's the problem, the society and environment.
This is true, any Chinese person with parents from the countryside can back me, our parents work harder than 99.99% of American. The stories I hear of hardships are scary.
if you are gonna argue that the actions of my pervious ancestors affect the like god had for me, then I should have a great life. My family has done, what you would call "gods work" for many people.
Back on topic.. I just don't understand how some people can believe in god. I fully agree with an idea that sprouted in the 1920's that god is the best advertiser. I see religion as too political and a means to control people.
That brings me to another question: missionaires.
Do Christians seriously believe it's right to change what other people believe? Imagine if I tried to convert you. Why, trough out history, were so many groups of people FORCED to convert?
In Chinua Achebe's famous novel, Things Fall Apart, he wrote exactly what religion/missionaries are about:
"The white man is very clever. He came quietly and peaceably with his religion. We were amused at his foolishness and allowed him to stay. Now he has won our brothers, and our clan can no longer act like one. He has put a knife on the things that held us together and we have fallen apart.”
The Boxer Rebellion that put China back was caused by the diaspora of religion.
Religion kills, go flood the world again god, go plague the Egyptians.
I seen very negative, because it's the easiest way to get my point out. However, I do respect people who believe in their religion, as long as they don't preach it. Religion is good for the morals and ethics.
The way I see it, I'm not a bad person, if there is a god and if god is the fair person that he is, I should be fine. You die, I die, We all die.
Just because you're a Christian doesn't mean you're going to have a happy life. In fact, we're taught that we're going to have a shitty life. Life is going to be horrible, and especially more since we're followers of Christ. The Bible teaches the world is unfair.
God doesn't have bad things happen to you, but he allows them to happen. If God intervened at every person's misfailings and mishaps, then he wouldn't be God. He would be our personal slave. God only intervenes at times where his Glory would have been upheld. If all those bad things didn't happen, you probably wouldn't have honestly thanked God. You would have probably thanked luck, perhaps.
Also, we don't force anyone to believe our religion. We talk to people about them, but that's no different than when me trying to get you to see my side of the fence. If you don't want me to preach my religion, then we might as well not have this discussion, because I am preaching to you. Right now.
We don't force indegenious people. We give them food, shelter, education. Their acceptance of Christ is completly voluntary.
Anyways, I'm technically banned. I'll be back in a month or so.
BTW, Just by going to college doesn't ensure an education. Look at Bill Gates, he dropped out of college.