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icecreamisyummy
Just wondering whats the biggest age difference there has been between you and someone you were dating or maybe jsut hooking up with (yes, even one night stands lol). also if you would date someone 3+ years older or younger.

I'm currently 18 and im sorta talking to a guy that is 25. would you think tahts too much of an age difference. we're both really into each other.

and yes i know someof you are gonna say "age is nothign but a number" but put your self in that position. would u be too worry that your parents would disagree or your friends would make fun of you for dating someone that much younger or older?

well i just want everyones thought on it.
1angel3
I would date someone older, but I haven't. My friend is the same age as me and she's dating a 20 year old.

Between 18 and 25 isn't a big age gap. You're legal, so there's no problem.
Steven
17 months 21 days
Sandraaa
13 years.
krnxswat
5 years.
superstitious
9 and that will NEVER happen again.
Smarmosaur
4 years.
it honestly really doesn't matter as long as it's legal...
and as you said, age is just a number, and the age difference between you two isn't like pathetically huge or anything, it's actually quit normal-i wouldn't worry about it. thumbsup.gif
xFaith
My bf is 3 years older than me. Doesnt matter at all =)
LadiieKay-Mamii
Age don't matter at all
misoshiru
the biggest age diff I would go would be 4 years older. just because cristiano ronaldo is 4 years older. lol. the most i would go for someone younger than me though...would be half a year. i generally can't stand guys younger than me. :X but who knows...



oh, but on the other hand, i would totally do george clooney. whistling.gif
kimmytree
My boyfriend is 11 months younger. I'm 18 and he's 17.
Elba
I wouldn't date someone younger than me. I need a mature MAN. My boyfriend is 4 to 5 years older than me... 4 years and 3 months, I guess. No biggie. At first it seemed like a big difference, but now it's nothing, really.
aeyungg xd
just really depends on the people. but sometimes parents can be a real bother with age differences. bah. mellow.gif
Jennifer
18 and 25, I think that's okay? When you say it as "7 years difference" though, it kinda sounds large _unsure.gif But IMO it's not that out of the ordinary, at least you're legal.

I'd say the biggest difference I'd ever go for is 4 years. But that's just me
kayla0790x
My biggest age gap was 5 years.. i was 16 he was 21.
Legal though so that ok
Im currently liking someone who is 2 year and 4 month older than me
I prefer older guys
Younger guys are immature sometimes
&& i dont think there is anything wrong with an 18 year old being with a 25 year old :)
icecreamisyummy
thanks everyone
LadiieKay-Mamii
my boyfriend is 1 year and 22 days younger than me and he seems more mature than i am... eek!
Jinny
He's one year older than me..
xtwitchyx
My boyfriend is almost 5 years older than me. I'm 19 and he is now 24. I'll be 20 next month though. Anyway, I think he's the oldest guy I have ever dated.

My parents were 11 years apart in age. Yet they still had a strict rule on how much older than me the guy I dated could be. Which was fine. I never wanted to date anyone that was more than 5 years odler than me.
Naomitron
I was dating someone 15 years older than me. There's this huge stigma that if an older man is dating a younger girl all he wants is the sex. Well, it might be true, but it wasn't like that for me. He just got to be too needy and too clingy/possessive. It didn't work for me. I've still got so much growing to do. I'm not ready to settle down yet.
Insurmountable
5, and with the relationship I'm in now.. I'm 16 and hes 21. _smile.gif
Luna5
The guy was 28 yrs older than me. I'm never doing that again! He was a jerk. verymad.gif
BANANATUNG
Julia (sugar_street)- 15
Bryan (six) - 28

Is this acceptable?
Steven
QUOTE(BANANATUNG @ Oct 30 2007, 05:45 PM) *
Julia (sugar_street)- 15
Bryan (six) - 28

Is this acceptable?

Double or nothing, imo.
krnxswat
QUOTE(xtwitchyx @ Oct 29 2007, 07:34 PM) *
My boyfriend is almost 5 years older than me. I'm 19 and he is now 24. I'll be 20 next month though. Anyway, I think he's the oldest guy I have ever dated.

My parents were 11 years apart in age. Yet they still had a strict rule on how much older than me the guy I dated could be. Which was fine. I never wanted to date anyone that was more than 5 years odler than me.



'Cause they lived in a f ucking time where that was deemed okay you f ucking dip shit.
Trinity54
I ussaly stick to 20 and 21 year old guys but I have also dated guys around my age.

So I must say my age gap is 3 years.
jeanna
i plain on getting with a much older guy.
i'll be turning 20 soon.
LOL. everyone thinks i'm gross. _smile.gif which is kinda true but i'd rather have a little bit more mature guy than someone who chugs beer every night and swears he is the beer pong champ.
EddieV
3 years for me, but it wasn't a relationship, we were just dating.
shoryuken
woo
EmoEyelinerx
Well as of now im 14, and turning 15 in december and im dating a guy whos 17 and is turning 18 in august. We have a two year age difference, thats the biggest I have ever had with anyone so far.
livwho
Three years.

It wasn't a huge deal. We got along really well.
icecreamisyummy
QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 10 2007, 11:36 PM) *
Three years.

It wasn't a huge deal. We got along really well.

how old were you...?? cuz i see youre kinnda young right now
livwho
Fourteen.

It was about eight months ago. He had just turned seventeen. So really we were... Two years and four months. Sorry, I over estimated.
Laughsalot
i like older guys. even a day younger i wouldn't like. i was never in a relationship with a guy. i'm 15 now. and there was this one dude that was 21 that i liked. shifty.gif i'm pretty sure too that he was attracted to me also. so what do you guys think of a 15 yr old chick and a 21 yr old. what about 15yr old chick with a 19yr old guy? does a 19 yr old guy think the girl is too immature?
icecreamisyummy
QUOTE(Laughsalot @ Nov 11 2007, 02:15 AM) *
i like older guys. even a day younger i wouldn't like. i was never in a relationship with a guy. i'm 15 now. and there was this one dude that was 21 that i liked. shifty.gif i'm pretty sure too that he was attracted to me also. so what do you guys think of a 15 yr old chick and a 21 yr old. what about 15yr old chick with a 19yr old guy? does a 19 yr old guy think the girl is too immature?

well, i think a 21 year old doesnt have time for a 15 year old. theres college, work, football etc. theres also a lot of things 15 yr olds wouldnt understand. oh and a 15 yr old wouldnt be able to do most of the stuff a 21 yr can, clubs drinking, sex, etc. and thhen theres also the stuff that a 15 yr old wants to do but a 21 yr most def. wouldnt want to. idk if that makes sense? can anyone back me up here?
babecakes
right now i wouldn't date anyone older then seventeen. i would never date anyone older then me by six years.
Insurmountable
QUOTE(Laughsalot @ Nov 11 2007, 02:15 AM) *
i like older guys. even a day younger i wouldn't like. i was never in a relationship with a guy. i'm 15 now. and there was this one dude that was 21 that i liked. shifty.gif i'm pretty sure too that he was attracted to me also. so what do you guys think of a 15 yr old chick and a 21 yr old. what about 15yr old chick with a 19yr old guy? does a 19 yr old guy think the girl is too immature?


I'm 16 and I'm dating a 21 yr old. And were doing great.

shrug.gif It depends on the people.
icecreamisyummy
yes depends a lot on the level of maturity, to me at least
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