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porcelain-00
Ok so this guy use to like me , but was waaay to shy to make a move , now i like him and i dont know what to do! everytime i talk to him he just turns red and looks away , and im scared to try and have a real conversation with him because i dont want him to think im annoying? haha
so my question is , do you think he likes me?
I asked him if it was english next today and he just muttered " yes" and looked away and wouldn't look at me in the eyes! i dont know anymore...
babecakes
having a real conversation with a boy doesn't make you annoying. he's probably not talking to you because he's embarrassed or shy that you rejected him. make a move :).
EddieV
Grab him and ask him if he'd like a good f**k.
Steven
He probably is a good person and doesn't want to tell you something he hates about you, be it looks or behavior. I would seriously stop trying to annoy him. He'll probably be much happier not having to deal with you.
Etab
QUOTE(Steven @ Oct 24 2007, 08:27 PM) *
He probably is a good person and doesn't want to tell you something he hates about you, be it looks or behavior. I would seriously stop trying to annoy him. He'll probably be much happier not having to deal with you.


Yikes.

I can relate to the person you mentioned (I think); I've been there before. Just wondering, how do you know he liked you? If I were you, I'd try to initiate conversation with him. If he's that quiet, much like I am personally, he'll appreciate you going out of your way to talk to him.
Amaranthus
Maybe if you ignore him he'll start talking to you.
porcelain-00
Ok answering the person who asked me how i knew he liked me , his bestfreind told me lol , and i have never really talked to him before becaus he is shy hahaha
rorhinna
QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Oct 26 2007, 06:43 PM) *
Maybe if you ignore him he'll start talking to you.


mm, no, shy guys wouldn't do anything if you just ignored him. but if his best friend told you that he liked you, then i'm sure he does. how long ago did his friend tell you? you should start talking to him tho and start more convo, see if he opens up. cuz if he doesn't then you prolly don't wanna waste too much time on him,cuz it'd be an awkward relationship
porcelain-00
His freind told me a couple of monthes ago and he liked me for about 7 months . i dont know what to do , i guess im going to try being freindly with him like waving saying hi and stuff and see how he reacts , i would rather find out if there is still somthing there rather than never knowing haha...
SLACK3R
Well if you KNOW he likes you then don't even trip. Just talk to him more & I'm pretty sure that some good will come out of that.
porcelain-00
Lol if only i had guts ^ bahaha that would be hilarious! all i did was ask him what class was next and he looked like i slapped him in the face....
topsyturvy
As a shy person myself, i can understand why he is acting scared of you. If he's the type of person i think he is, then the more scared he acts, the more he likes you. Trust me wink.gif

Go up to him and talk to him more, even if its all asking about the schedule. If after 20 casual conversations he is still like that, then fine maybe i'm wrong..
porcelain-00
Gah today he talked to a girl and he just looked her right in the eyes and talked normally! why can't he do this with me WHY! sad.gif lol
shoryuken
suubuu
porcelain-00
Lol yah he is pretty shy , we are sixteen , he is in the same grade as me.
porcelain-00
Do you think it would be creepy to say " hey" to him? or
do you think he would find it creepy?
shoryuken
chiawa chiacaawa
gr00vyswordsman
QUOTE(Sulfur-in-K @ Oct 24 2007, 07:57 PM) *
Grab him and ask him if he'd like a good f**k.

hhahahahaah. rofl
.... he's proly a bit insecure somewhat or shy at first. Usually it should be him opening up then you in conversation...but yea open conversation to him. Ya know, i can see you being the man in the relationship tongue.gif but yea more comfortable around him you are, he'll follow...
porcelain-00
lol awww ^ im told he is a sweet heart
vehvih
1. Make him comfortable
2. Talk to him more often
3. Flirt while talking.. make him flirt back.
4. Hang out with him
5. Bang that bitch real hard <3

Kidding after you hang out with him, I think you'll know what to do next.
TaintedSakura
start to talk to him more, get his number and tell him! If i can, you can!
LoveToMySilas
I doubt he'd find you annoying. I think its cause he's just a shy person. you needa break the shell and go for it!
porcelain-00
hmm ok I guess ill try saying hey and hope for the best!
its just sooo nerve racking lol. but yah thanx for the advice!
rawr78
If he liked you once , Im sure he can like you again.
Just start out slow by saying hi and stuff and see where
it goes , he doesn't sound mean so whats the worst that can
happen? atleast you will know once and for all if anything could
have happened... happy.gif
RyanWasHere
QUOTE(Sulfur-in-K @ Oct 24 2007, 06:57 PM) *
Grab him and ask him if he'd like a good f**k.


Sounds fool proof to me.
icecreamisyummy
awww something similar like this happened to me my junior year in high school. i still have a crush on the kid :-D

sucks that we liked each other and never did anythign abotu it.

i think i f*cked it up by pretending iw as goign out with this ugly nasty kid to make my ex that cheated on me mad.

oh man stupid mistakes ppl make in high school
porcelain-00
Yah I dont want to regret not attempting to talk to him , its so weird
I had no problem talking to guys until last christmas when somthing happened that totally ruined my self esteem. any way , I look alot better this year , last year I wore alot of black and had dark hair in front of my face and stuff lol , people called me " goth" and "emo" and he still liked me which I thought was kinda sweet , esspecially cause he is probibly the furthest person from goth or emo lol.
any way yah , im totally going to say hi to him on monday! its just , whenever im about to im always thinking "omg i hope i look ok" which is kinda funny cause I never really cared what I looked like around him before. wow this is a long reply lol
RyanWasHere
QUOTE(porcelain-00 @ Nov 18 2007, 01:57 AM) *
Yah I dont want to regret not attempting to talk to him , its so weird
I had no problem talking to guys until last christmas when somthing happened that totally ruined my self esteem. any way , I look alot better this year , last year I wore alot of black and had dark hair in front of my face and stuff lol , people called me " goth" and "emo" and he still liked me which I thought was kinda sweet , esspecially cause he is probibly the furthest person from goth or emo lol.
any way yah , im totally going to say hi to him on monday! its just , whenever im about to im always thinking "omg i hope i look ok" which is kinda funny cause I never really cared what I looked like around him before. wow this is a long reply lol


Best of luck, from the information I've read...if you follow through with the first encounter, it'll work out the way you want it to thumbsup.gif
porcelain-00
Thanks I will do that and hope it works out ^
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