hey guys i was just thinking from a different topic i just saw... and i have a question..

i think im scared of either a relationship or a commitment. anyone else have this problem? i just had such a bad experience and a horrible falling-out of the relationship that im so scared that if i try to get into another one, it'll just depress me again.

what do u all think?

i dont think i have the ability to think that far.. and so bad relationships dont really bother me. lol .. maybe its cause im a guy.. or something is wrong with me lol..

yea... commitment is scary for me... i dont wanna make any commitment or promise i cant guarantee i can keep.. but i guess before u or ur partner in a relationship get too deep into the relationship, first tell them that u dont hope to see commitment?? so the other one would kno wut ur thinking..? i dontknow lol thats wut i did

go with the flow...pain and happiness will all go through people's lives once in a while.....like for me, im grounded right now O.o

i totally know how you feel...even though this might soudn to redundant..but time will ease ur pain my dear...seriously...but as for now..u can read up on relationship stuff at my xanga site..lol...that's pretty much all i write about...and as for knowing if you're ready or not...go clubbin..talk to guys..if you feel uneasy about taking a next step then you're not ready

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I guess I am kinda scared of a relationship right now... Mabye im just scared of being betrayed and hurt again.

there's no need to step into a relationship if there exist some doubt and uncertainty... you're probably better of beign single then to step into a relationship too soon...u'll just prob. end up hurting both the guy and yourself... so hand out with friends...go on dates and stuff..but don't take anything to seriously unless you're sure

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I definatly think I have commitment problems...I know this might sound snooty, but after a while, I get tired of the guys that I date...

So I'm happiy single right now

I'm scared of commitment too... And the thought of getting pregnant at a very young age. That horrifies me.

It's not bad to be afraid of committment. You may not be actually afraid of it. It could just be a common missconseption. (sp?). You probably just dont want to commit to anyone right now

hm... if ur scared, that gives you the more need to get more experience. if you just hide from it and keep being scared, that aint gunna take you nowheree. if you feel that its going to depress you again you just gotta find the right person its all good! just try it owt again. think of it as... you peeed on the floor... so now you gots to try peeeing in the toilet.

whoa... i never thought of that.... well, im too young anyway.... ill just be here and stuff.... so... i never thought of this...

oh wow ive been thinking about that a lot too... its like you're scared cause you wouldn't know what you would be doing if you're in a realtionship or something, and you would do something a normal relationship wouldn't have...

nah that stuff doesnt scare me

i don't think anything is wrong with u...well, on second thought. you're probably brain damaged because you are a guy. lol. anything's possible. And i hope i'm not offending u.

Stay out of them. Work on making money, hobbies, get into the gym, get into reading philosophies or somethin to preoccupy your mind.

You don't need relationships, especially if at the moment you're not in the mood to commit to anyone.

I hope you all know this topic is quite old.

to be honest, i don't know what's wrong with me. i think the longest relationship i have ever been in was 3 months...and i was seven then. now that i'm 16 i have relationships, but they only last about a week. not even two. and it's not that i'm not committed or i'm just unfit, it's just that things keep coming up. either he falls in love with me and i don't love him back and we break up. or he moves and we deceid to split because i don't like long distanced relationships. or he's too old and his parents don't approve...it just never works out. the best relationships that i have ever had were the ones that were un official. like, i like u and u like me, but i'm not going to ask u out. we just kinda claim each other. so techinally i was with one guy for 11 months and 29 days and with the other for seven months, some days, and counting. hey it's complicated, i know. but who said life wasn't?

STOP BUMPING THIS SHIT GODDAMNIT.

Guys... why don't you close old threads, say like a thread that's older than 1 month in terms of posts?

do u have a problem with everybody? ( i bet u understood that) and if you didn't... then you're mentally afflicted.

Don't mind her... she's most likely on the rag or upset about somethin weird

i wonder about this sometimes too. but then i usually find a good old one and i post it in, lol.

My girlfriend has that same issue..she has a hard time with commitments because she is scared that she will get hurt again, or something like that.

screw commitments and relationships..just go to parties/clubs and hook up with a bunch of guys/girls for the night and find a different person each night, that way you won't feel any pressure :).

^^that's what I do now, since I broke up with my gf