my friend got knocked up at 16/17 but she secretly wanted a kid because she was sleeping with any guy and NEVER using a condom. she wanted a crutch in life. pissed me off.
i'm turning 20 and i'm still not all the way normal with talking about it to my dad. i think he knows so, idk

My parents don't know, I think. I hope they don't. It's not something I'm prepared to talk about, especially since I was always asked to wait.
That's what really weighs on my conscience.

well im sure most parents werent virgins till they were married anyways

^ Mine were. They waited. I'm honouring that and doing the same.

That's what my mom told me.

Not really a good thing to tell teens.

Nah she didn't mean it like "GO HAVE LOTS OF SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED" but more like "Once youre older and think youve found the person you want to be with, it's okay to have sex because it's an important part of a relationship and if you don't, and you find out too late that your husband totally sucks, you're not going to be happy and will most likely end up cheating on him."

haha yeah so I'm waiting til I'm older, just not til marriage.

Eh well...technically I'm not, but I still consider myself a virgin because the way it was lost was kind of...not quite right and I don't even remember it.

exactly lol. how do people go a year+ without having sex? idk who can hold out for that long. a month long relationship and you sleep with them, sure that's not good.

That would be me.

I've been seeing my other half now for over 18 months and we've never had sex.

I intend to marry this guy, and he I. I know he's with me for all the right reasons and even if he did suck - so what? We have the rest of our lives to have a giggle and try different things together. In essence, we'd help each other learn the art of lovemaking.

I would never ditch someone who loves me so much, when alls it takes is practise to make perfect.

There seems to be a lot of talk about dumping a guy if he 'sucks', but isn't sex a, ahem, 'team effort'?

im 15 and still a virgin.
me and my best friend plan to lose it to eachother. xD

I was 15

I hope that's a contingency plan!

thing is, not many people are as smart as you

When I was 7 years old, lets just say my friend and I were really bored.

yea some gift, giving unexpierience smex to your husband, who he in turn might not be a virgin and might have had ahhhmazing smex some previous girlfreinds.

Yeah, right. I don't want your experiences.

I'm still confused as to the perception that all virgins will be crap in bed forever and after. It's a learning curve; there is absolutely no rush to become sexually active just for the sheer hell of saying you're better than someone else is or will be. We are all going to become sexually active adults at some point in our lives; a head start makes no difference and I'm sure it will be good fun catching up with the rest of you.

As to my husband, I hope he will be my boyfriend. We're both virgins and we're both agreed - we'll lose it to each other on our wedding night. How is that going to be any worse than a sexually precocious couple that have lost it to different partners? It's not, it's far better in my eyes.

I havent yet but im going to lose it pretty soon (hopefully on my 15th birthday with my boyfriend, before its illegl lol) :)

I'm waiting until I'm married or until a really wonderful guy comes around and we've been seeing a each other for a while. Just don't think I'd be up for it (or ready) while I'm still in high school.

Hmm, this is something really strange for me. I'm still a virgin, and I plan to keep my virginity for quite a while now. It throws me off how a lot of you have lost it at such a young age (in my opinion-- I'm not here as a critic for when you should lose it)

I'm really curious about when to have it. Haha,I mean, I KNOW I was a mistake (:

I am proud to say I still am a virgin.
:)

and what I love about it is that no matter how many people at my school think I'm a whore, I can just laugh in their face because I'm not... I haven't done shit with anyoneee!
So I'm good.
:D

^i'v been called a whore too. hate it but i just ignore them.
i'm 17 n i'm still a virgin.

you can lose your innocence without having sex

ha ha... anyways... im a proud 17 yr old virgin. I dont plan to have sex til im married...

damn. I haven't even had my first kiss... or my first boyfriend I'm so lonely.

Unless you count online boyfriends... Tehe.. I was a very interesting 10 year old.

Not yet. Waiting for the right time

I lost mine just a couple months ago, I'm 17. I was planning on waiting until marriage but sometimes things don't go as planned. I don't regret anything with life so I dealt with having it stolen from me. At first I was so upset, but now as it's been a couple months, I'm fine. I wish it didn't happen that way, but I'm okay with it now.

Possibly. Sex is the ultimate popper though.

then you must have some kind of whore personality for them to think that if you don't sleep around..

^ hmm yea idk about that one, rumors tend to follow you for a long time in high school, I know some girls that people think are sluts or have been around and that's not the case at all.

As for me, I lost it when I was 14 to a 16 year old girl, and I've been pretty steadily sexually active with girlfriends since than, I've never had a one night stand.
Don't regret it, and contrary to popular belief, I didn't turn into a slut.

you're a guy. it is praised

Yea if your an a-hole and you boast about it, most people think that's how all guys are...and it's sad because that's not usually how it is.

I don't think the girls that I've had sex with are sluts now either or anything like that, we meant and still mean a lot to each other and we decided to have a physical relationship to further that love and get to know each other on a more intimate level, I see nothing wrong with it.

17

I've decided to save myself for when I get married. AND considering i haven't even had a boyfriend yet, i dont expect that to be for a long time. But im willing to wait. :D

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Nvm, didn't see that I posted in here.

17

I feel, age is just a number. It's all about maturity and understanding.

But yeah, 15 for me.

17.
I don't regret losing it, just who took it.

Don't be daft. If she were jealous she'd be out there trying to lose it. The girl's got some sense, makes it harder for you guys. Ha.

Maybe you're just scared? Sex is great.. especially when you're in love =) Nothing wrong with that.

I was with my guy for a year and a half, and we waited for 7 months before having sex. I don't understand those people jumping on the first guy that comes to them.

i lost mine when i was 13:) and im still 13 i don't regret it but whatever

I was 16.

i lost it when I was 14. I don't regret losing it. i just regret who i lost it to.

i'm 17
& still a virgin
:D

same here, oh sooo tempting!

I'm still a virgin :D

I'll wait `till after marriage. (If I even get married XD)

...But hey, whatever happens, happens. :]

I lost it less than a month ago. I wish we would have waited a little longer til we had sex but oh well. I don't regret it. Sex is awesome and I love him with all of my heart

I was 17 at the time. And we're still together ^.^

^ a few other people here said the same thing. so i guess that makes them sluts too o_O