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micron
So, I am mulling over whether or not to legally go after Suzzette and / or her parents for her actions three days ago. Before I do, I'd like to know as much background information on this matter, from the events leading up to her dumping out everything on the forums, to her motives behind her actions. If you have any information, please post here. If you have chat logs with her leading up to this event, posts them here as well.

This is not a bashing thread, so please refrain from bashing her. I am doing this so that I can present my case to a lawyer with as much information as possible.

PS. If you know Suzzette's contact information and mailing address, please PM me. If you attend or have a friend who attends Lassiter High School, please try to find out her address for me. Thank you for your time and efforts. =)

PPS. I will consider hearing out Suzzette's side of the story. If you are her friend, tell her to contact me either by pm or phone (pm me for it).
IVIike
I believe Holly talked to her as it was happening I don't know if you already talked to her or not.
Insurmountable
^Well yea I called him when she was still deleting her posts laugh.gif

I mean if I need to explain more about it and stuff I can. I think it was that google pages that I was telling Jusun about (if he remembers) that set her to the edge. She wanted to go out in style.

I have logs all from that day though if you would like em' Although I do not have any from talking to her that she was saying she was going to do something like this. No one talked to her after the Suzy Q's went out.
hi-C
Just wondering, what would you sue her for (like, the legal heading, i.e. destruction of property, etc) and what type of losses would you seek?
missnh
I have information, and I'll tell you my side of the story as well. I'll IM you later, or you can contact me: missnonhuman
rnicron
I say Steven, Michelle, Kara, Holly, Josh, and myself start a chat with Jusun.
missnh
Well, if we start a chatroom, we should include less biased members such as Holly or Toya, although I will try to be as objective as possible.
freeflow
I'm down if you guys want me too/need me too.
micron
we can start a chatroom tonight, when theres more members online.
Insurmountable
Sounds fine to me, me and toya and steven I think were the only ones that talked to her that morning anyway, right?
rnicron
I think so, but all of us seemed to be the "leading up to" factor.

Someone pick a time and a name and PM everyone. Make it later on, though.
Insurmountable
Alright, well I don't know how to make a chat room but I will add everyone tonight when they make it if needed
arcanum
Yeah, well. I'm up for a chat whenever. _smile.gif Though, including Toya sounds about right and maybe Mona, if she is on?
micron
QUOTE(hi-C @ Oct 16 2007, 04:45 PM) *
Just wondering, what would you sue her for (like, the legal heading, i.e. destruction of property, etc) and what type of losses would you seek?

im not sure, i will have to talk to a lawyer about that. but if i decide to go after her, i do intend to pursue her with the fullest extent permitted by law.
Elba
QUOTE(micron @ Oct 16 2007, 01:59 PM) *
im not sure, i will have to talk to a lawyer about that. but if i decide to go after her, i do intend to pursue her with the fullest extent permitted by law.

Milk her for all she's worth! Make her pay your attorney fees, also.
misoshiru
i'm not sure, but aren't 'internet crimes' usually harder to pursue?
Steven
It depends. Jusun, did you write a TOS or a user agreement saying that she can't do that? It could be very hard to do anything to her if you didn't make her agree or at least read it and hit "I've read" or w/e. I don't know though. I assume you would pursue her with the case of destruction of intellectual property.


Anyways. I believe I, amongst others, were catalysts in the "explosion", if you will. We did not like at all the way staff was handling things, especially Suzzette. I won't bring in our feelings towards her in this, but basically we all left staff and "exposed" her including aim logs and the whole nine yards. She started spending less and less time on createBlog which she attributed to a job and real life activities. No one slowed down in the bashing of her (at least the primary aggressors). One morning, I logged on, and about 30 minutes later I was banned and the previous page had Suzzette on the front of the most recently active and then before you know it everything was gone.
missnh
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 16 2007, 04:09 PM) *
i'm not sure, but aren't 'internet crimes' usually harder to pursue?



Yeah, I thought so, too :/
ersatz
Oh man...I had a bunch of PMs of her saying like, "They better calm down" or like, "I could do so much" and stuff like that...like whole conversations, but all my PMs are gone now. sad.gif
missnh
So, is this chat going down?
clarity
Well since this effected many of us, can't the public get to know what went down as well?

T-T

I mean I heard Suzette went all koo-koo, But I'd still like an explanation/reason or what you infer may have caused this situation and what may have led her to take these actions.
arcanum
^ Well, the chat would be easier if it were less people, because... it just is. Less chatting, etc.
You can just ask someone what happened. _smile.gif A lot of people already know.
QUOTE(Michelle @ Oct 16 2007, 11:12 PM) *
So, is this chat going down?

That is what I was wondering.
missnh
Sure, I don't mind. I just wanted to know if Jusun really wanted to chat about it or not o_0

I agree with Kara. Having a chat to discuss the details (rather than informing everyone the summary) is better. If you really want / need an explanation, then leaving it on the site is fine.
clarity
Okay - So maybe we could save people who do not know of the situation
the trouble of asking someone else by just clearly typing a well manured summary of what happened. I'd really like to be informed, and I'm sure others would as well. If you get what I mean.
Steven
I really think there should be a sticky at the top of every forum saying what happened. I don't know how many times I've typed a summary of what's happened, but it's been a lot.

Actually, I responded in this thread. Go read.
kryogenix
Wow. Internet: Serious Business.

As much as I disliked her tenure here, I think there should be some mercy here. It's almost funny that it's come down to this considering my "persona" against her was based on a lawyer. Poetic Justice (no pun intended).

On one hand, she definitely has it coming to her. On the other hand, I'd hate to see someone's life potentially ruined because of some internet drama.

If you do intend to pursue legal action, at least offer some sort of settlement, maybe equal to the wage hours you lost restoring the site?

Other than that, I have nothing really to contribute.
missnh
I'll give my side of the story, if that's what you want... But please, after I type this, refer to it if anyone else asks >_<
arcanum
Jusun and Steven are both online, but where's Spenc and Michelle?
clarity
QUOTE(Steven @ Oct 16 2007, 11:47 PM) *
I really think there should be a sticky at the top of every forum saying what happened. I don't know how many times I've typed a summary of what's happened, but it's been a lot.

Actually, I responded in this thread. Go read.


I read your response and honestly it did not answer my question. You speak of the staff stepping down etc, you speak of AIM logs, but what has that had to do anything? Did someone do anything particular to her? I'm sorry I missed this catastrophe but I was affected by it and I'd like to know what went down.
missnh
QUOTE(alovesopure @ Oct 16 2007, 10:53 PM) *
Jusun and Steven are both online, but where's Spenc and Michelle?


Oops! I forgot I was invisible keke!
arcanum
Holly & Toya are both on as well.
SPENCER! GET ON AIM!
Insurmountable
Steven whats your aim name?

missnh
hamren330
babecakes
QUOTE(kryogenix @ Oct 16 2007, 08:47 PM) *
On one hand, she definitely has it coming to her. On the other hand, I'd hate to see someone's life potentially ruined because of some internet drama.
:)
misoshiru
well, I think that Jusun would want to keep the chat to only the people that had contact with Suzzette during/before she went on her closing/banning/deleting spree.

But, perhaps a general summary to the members should be posted so we can all gain an understanding of the situation.
kryogenix
Agreed, the last thing we want is for rumors to circulate.
missnh
here, I'll just post up what I said.

Miss Nonhuman (11:05:28 PM): okay, it all started when the information about Anna being on James' account was finally leaked
Miss Nonhuman (11:05:45 PM): I told Suzzette, because I knew her the most out of all the people on staff (besides Arjuna)
Miss Nonhuman (11:06:02 PM): but, she was the only person to approach me that I felt comfortable enough with to tell
Miss Nonhuman (11:06:10 PM): and then it all began
Miss Nonhuman (11:06:12 PM): the chatrooms
Miss Nonhuman (11:06:17 PM): and the witch hunts
Miss Nonhuman (11:06:35 PM): They mostly consisted of me, Steven, Suzzette, and Arjuna
Miss Nonhuman (11:06:45 PM): sometimes Spencer and Diana would be in them, but only once or twice
Miss Nonhuman (11:07:20 PM): so, yeah, James gave his cB password to Anna so she could lurk in Backstage, etc
Miss Nonhuman (11:07:38 PM): and Suzzette sucked me into the little "revolution" or whatever it was called at that time
Miss Nonhuman (11:07:58 PM): there were a list of people that she wanted off staff, but I still can't find that log today
Miss Nonhuman (11:08:11 PM): I know that Dani was on there, so we all did try to get Dani off staff, which I am ashamed to admit
hamren330 (11:08:24 PM): I might have it
Miss Nonhuman (11:08:28 PM): SHH!
Miss Nonhuman (11:08:30 PM): jk
Miss Nonhuman (11:08:56 PM): after things died down, and Kaycee admitted to leaking a small amt of information from Backstage, things were okay again
Miss Nonhuman (11:09:30 PM): until I slowly began to realize the hypocrisy within the staff and the way Suzzette (mostly) treated regular members
Miss Nonhuman (11:09:41 PM): there were MANY incidents of her contradicting herself
Miss Nonhuman (11:10:03 PM): and a lot of the arguments we had backstage were just ridiculous
Miss Nonhuman (11:10:26 PM): all the small things built up inside of me
Miss Nonhuman (11:10:31 PM): (and the few others who stepped down)
Miss Nonhuman (11:10:43 PM): the two I really remember are "tact" and the hiring of Josh
Miss Nonhuman (11:11:14 PM): and I also felt the community was being treated wrong
Miss Nonhuman (11:11:24 PM): and that there were many ways in which the staff could become less separated from the community
Miss Nonhuman (11:11:33 PM): but of course, many of my ideas and thoughts were shot down
Miss Nonhuman (11:12:00 PM): it just finally got to the point where I was willing to give up my staff position so I could tell everyone what was going on
Miss Nonhuman (11:12:09 PM): I never intended a "ganging up" on Suzzette, as some may call it
Miss Nonhuman (11:12:28 PM): many surprises also came out of this
Miss Nonhuman (11:12:37 PM): such as Dani standing up for herself against what Suzzette did
Miss Nonhuman (11:12:51 PM): and the realization that a lot of the trolls themselves were nice people, but they were sick of how the staff was being run
Miss Nonhuman (11:12:57 PM): I never wanted her to delete the forums
Miss Nonhuman (11:13:04 PM): I never wanted her to go crazy
Miss Nonhuman (11:13:27 PM): my intentions were to get the community to know what was going on within the staff, and hopefully get a better relationship
Miss Nonhuman (11:13:30 PM): The end.


Sorry if my grammar is terrible! >_<
Steven
The entire chat will be posted when it's done
krnxswat
QUOTE(Steven @ Oct 17 2007, 12:19 AM) *
The entire chat will be posted when it's done


Is that necessary?
The sole purpose of this thread to inform Ju-sun what's going on, and he is included in the chat, so I don't see why the chat should be posted to the public?
missnh
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 17 2007, 12:12 AM) *
Is that necessary?
The sole purpose of this thread to inform Ju-sun what's going on, and he is included in the chat, so I don't see why the chat should be posted to the public?


Miss Nonhuman (11:15:56 PM): do you all mind if I post what I said in here?
Miss Nonhuman (11:15:59 PM): for everyone in the thread?
micron2k (11:16:04 PM): could you?
Miss Nonhuman (11:16:05 PM): b/c they all want a summary, and I really don't wanna retype it
hamren330 (11:16:07 PM): Go for it, I'll post a summary by myself too
micron2k (11:16:11 PM): yes that would help
micron2k (11:16:12 PM): or rather
hamren330 (11:16:13 PM): I was going to summarize one
hamren330 (11:16:17 PM): objectively too lol
micron2k (11:16:22 PM): we can just post this chat log there
krnxswat
Got it. Must've been before I came to the chatroom. Thanks.
kryogenix
Awww, must have missed it.
arcanum
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 17 2007, 01:19 AM) *
Got it. Must've been before I came to the chatroom. Thanks.

Yeah, it was right after Michelle posted her side and before Steven got to say what he wanted to say.

That was a looonggg freakin chat. yawn.gif

edit: Elba, me too! [I didn't want to post again and 'spam']
Elba
I learned a lot about Suzzette tonight _smile.gif
Insurmountable
I didn't.


But uh

Who is posting the chat?
Steven
If no one has, I will tomorrow morning
arcanum
shrug.gif Should we post all of it? some of it isn't important...

Letting Jusun post it sounds like a great idea. haha
shadowfax
Just post anything that is relevant. I'd do it but I don't have the beginning and I'm kind of drifting off to sleep. XD
pandora
we should let jusun post it himself, guys.
Insurmountable
yea I was just about to come in and say what Trish said.

I think we should let Ju-sun post the stuff he feels needs to be put in here. He has the best judgment _smile.gif
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