i wanna do thingsz withh this guy..but i havent exactly developed ontop yet.. nd im embarassedd.. whut shuldd i do?

do things? don't u have a vagina?


anyways, maybe that means your not mentally developed for this yet....

ehh and you shouldn't be in a relationship just for sex or w/e u ant boobs for

yeahh but i dont necesarrily wanna go that far!

how old are you?

13.. 14 in october

i think you should be in a relationship...because you like them....you wnat him to like touch you? ehh well I say stick with kissing for a while...

You're 13?
Stuff cantalopes in your bras.
That way your chest isn't as flat as a board.
I mean, do you want that guy to be using it as a coffee table after s3><?
Didn't think so.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

lol not necessarily but .. things happenn

So you mean, that guy uses your chest as a Coffee table already?


- Chinkieeyedpnoi

no i whuzz answeringg to that.. thingszz happenn sometimesz

well maybe puberty hasnt reached you yet... either you forget doing stuff with him... or be paient and let them grow out!!!

yeah its all up 2 u, if u want to thats your choice but u should wait till ur truly ready

lols...dont ya think your a wee bit young to go fer all that touchy feelie stuffz?? lols...i agree with iheartsimba...maybe you should stick to kissing fer a while

x33 QuyEnNiEe

exactly maybe you should stick to kissing

13 is so .. young .. slow it down

Kissing is your best bet for right now..Starting early can lead to a lot of emotional pain..So Just pucker up and swap spit for a while..

uhm.. i think u should stick to kissing..

i think at 13 u should just stay home. I would not let my 13 yr old sister go out alone with some boy. But in your case i'm not your sister. SOoo yea.. do what ever. But u should just still to holding hands

Steven doesn't understand.

You haven't hit puberty(as in developing breasts) yet you wanna start messing around with someone.

Pssst, nature is telling you to slow down.

If your worried bout that ..then maybe your not comfortable with him
cause when your comfortable with a guy like a lot then it shouldnt matter , you know

lol.. yep.

uhmm.. i dont know why all u people assume im gunna have sex.. calm down.. im not gunna and thats not whut i was talkingg about.. s0o uhmm.. maybb this wasnt a good idea s0o stop gettinn ur pantiesz in a bunchh

didnt you alreadi post this thread in girl's locker??? nywaiz, dont rush into things, move @ your own pace, besides you;re WAAAAAAAAY too young to be having sex

guysz .. dont u read whuut i post ?! im n0t planning on havingg sex s0o calm d0wnn!

so.. you're planning on taking your shirt off? by not developed... do you mean you're flat?

if he's seen you already.. and he knows your upstairs size... don't be embarrased

you`re the same person?? with tinkerbell16??

LISTEN. WE ASSUMED YOU WANTED TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU SAID YOU WANTED TO DO "THINGS" WITH A GUY. WE DON`T KNOW WHAT KIND OF THINGS YOU WANT TO DO WITH THAT GUY, SO WE ASSUMED IT WAS SEX.

did i get your attention..? maybe you need to do that to get other people`s attention.

well..things...hmm...i`m thinking...since you`re 13-14...you want to hold hands..? hug..? cuddle..? kiss..? i mean...the guy could just lead you on. or just make the first move yourself. make sure you both have the same feelings for each other. and don`t be in a rush. YOU GOT ALL YOUR LIFE. and there`s plenty of guys. are you nervous or something..? is it about....uhhh...those womenly things..? hehe..how you`re not developed..? that doesn`t really matter ya know? i mean..if the guy WANTS "some" then dump him. he`s not worth it. well...i could say more...but i don`t really know what you want..?

yep. ditto that. dont rush things!



so what do you mean?

I thought you were only allowed to have ONE acc?

Anyways, I dont care wether you're planning on having sex or just messin around.

13 is too young. Stick with HUGGING and MAYBE some kissing.

I just turned 14 and a few of my friend haveint developed yet either. Its fine, sum ppl go in differnt order and other take longer.

Ru in alot of sports or phyisical activitys? That can slow down the process and, If u are very active, u may end up having smaller brests that most others, and will have longer intervalts in your period.

I went threw alot of health, 4 babysitting, idk what this has to do with watching kids, but w/e.

If you're not sure, then you'd prob. not ready. Besides, if you think the guy would care if you're developed or not, he's prob. not the right guy to do this stuff with.

yeah just stick to kissing. if the guy cares about you he will not care about your boob size.

i agree!!!

you're kind of...young. yeah. you might regret it later; if word gets around to other people, they might label you as 'easy' or a 'slut' if you want to go further than kissing and hugging. they don't make a good relationship anyway. learn from others.

hmmmm... just wondering... but aren't you around 13 too? Just asking. It just seems like you're telling her she can't have sex. And, unless you are her mother or guardian... you have no control over that... just reminding you.

anyways...

I, myself, would only stick to hugging, kissing and holding hands... because if a guy can't wait for the appropriate age and time to have sex... he isn't worth my time... but that's just me. It's your decision... go with it!! <33

What are you planning to do exactly? Whatever it is, you shouldn't do it.

umm yoohs kindas young wait til yoohs older...wat if da guy is onliee playing yoohs?

whatever you're planning JUST DONT DO IT!!!!! 13 IS SOOO YOUNG! lol but yea. just stick with like holding hands or whatever and kissing

13 is way too young. Unless you want to be known as a slut all your life and get STDS and be pregnant by 15..just don't k thanks.

woah man ur like super young. just wait man. your time will come. just be patient.

if your worried about that it isnt time yet. and if hes seen you before he already knows ur boob size, unless you stuff...and if u do I suggest not letting him know that.

yeah, 13 is kind of young.. i'm planning to get a bf when i'm a junior [hs]

First off, I thought no boys were allowed and Jose and Steven both posted in here

Second, I don't think you're too young to start exploring. I mean me, I never did that at age 13. But since you're 14 soon, and you seem to like this guy, give it a try. Don't do too many things though, and don't just let him do stuff you aren't comfortable with. Just be relaxed and do what feels right.

i think 13-14 is a bit young. but the only way to tell if you're ready to "explore" is if you feel comfortable with the idea. since you're unsure about what he would think about your physical appearance, maybe you should slow it down a little. he should like you for your inner beauty and not what's on the outside.