Eh... Underage as in under 18 or like pedifile jailbait sex im confused..... EXPLAIN. :erm:

As in having sex with anyone when you're under 18 (or whatever the legal age of consent is in your area).

Why don't you start reading threads? Then, questions like that would be answered.

Well, I guess it's your life and you should do what you want with it. I mean, it is a big risk and teenagers are pressured these days to do more than just sex. But i believe that it's best to do it after marriage. I'm a catholic and technically, you're supposed to "do it" to have children, but eh. Ho hum.

personally think about it this way
u cant put an age on maturity
and if u think u are mature enough to have sex then do it
but if u arent then no dont

Err. . .Age is just a number, I suppose.

I find nothing against it. Just know what you're getting into. If they're ready then I guess go for it.

i dont think its right....i dont hate ppl that do have underage sex. but i think its better to wait and actually do it with someone you really love...since thats what its meant for

What's it's meant for varies for each person. For some, it's meant for marriage only, and for having children. For others, it's simply about sexual pleasure.

It could be, since most teens have sex while they claim they're "in love", while it's only infatuation. It's much more special to have it with someone truly love.. Besides, you don't want to get pregnat at such an age.

Taylor``

well underage sex like sex wit sooo many guys which is being a ho lets put it daht way..hm that's wrong but if it's like a one time thing i guess it's okay jst dont' do it so many times hehe

i think its wrong if ur under 18 because you want to be sure your body is fully matured because if its not and if its still maturing, its a higher risk of pregnancy or stds.

its whatever. if you're going to be able to deal with the consequences/risks and stuff, go for it.

yea its sad. but in this day in age, anything can happen. u can just hope for the best in society.

That's...not at all true. You are equally at risk at any age.

I believe stastics have shown that a large percentage of STDs are acquired in highschool/college years.

Also, I think it's not unreasonable to believe that a more mature person who is commited to fidelity is less likely to contract an STD.

sex used to be a spiritual ritual. we learned about it in ap history and i guess it depends on how u look at it. if your like 12 then its like dude chill but if your around maybe 15 -17 or when u think u are mature enough then its not for me to say.

Before you debate, I think you need to do this first:

What is 'wrong'?

AND

What is 'right'?

If you dont even have a definition for this how can you define something as 'wrong'?

true^

Completely wrong.
some teens forget the outcome of sex [without a condom] -- pregenacy.
and some teens think "I am tottaly mature enough to have a baby!"
...not the case when they have to live in the real world.


even i know better then that and i'm only 14

the problem with age limits is that sometimes people over the legal age limit still are unable to handle and accept the consequences of their actions. I personally don't believe in age limits on anything, because it depends on maturity level, not age. i've met loads of people who aren't legal to have sex, but they want to and fully understand everything associated. I've also met several people who became parents at the age of 18, 19, 20 who are completely unprepared to have a child.

I also disagree with the idea of stuatory rape. some people happen to fall in love with someone else much older then themselves, and if they decide to safely and maturely have sex, then i don't think it should be illegal.

I really had no idea that there were actually age limits. Of course, it's illegal when an adult has sex with a minor {Even though I believe it's no one's business}, but I had no clue it was illegal for, let's say, two fifteen year olds to have sex.

That's just stupid. The government can't tell you whether or not to have sex. Along with a lot of other things. It makes me realize how LITTLE freedom we do have, when it comes down to it. Like not being able to use drugs. {Lol, don't misunderstand me, I'm not condoning the use of drugs. } But when you can't put substances into your OWN body because the government says you can't, then this is not a free country.

But that's another debate.

There are a few problems with complete freedom. But I'll leave it to you to figure out.

Man, the irony slaps right in the face.

Taylor``

if your not going to take the responsibiliies of your actions afterwards then yes i find it wrong.
easpecially when people turn to abortion if they get pregant
because it shows that they weren't really ready for sex in the first place.

So yes in some ways.



really shows you how many people now a days follow the rules.

O_o... thinking about all the questions you ask me.... O_o

Underage sex is wrong. I've said this to some of my friends. All the people I know that have had sex outside of marriage have screwed up lives. Might not be right away, it might down the road, but it will get screwed up. So, no to underage sex.

It's disgusting.

What?

Well, obviously, but that's all personal responsibility.

It's undoubtedly safer to wait, not be cause of physical risk caused by age, but rather high schoolers' tendency to be reckless and irresponsible.

Also, to the person who posted at the top of the page, do you not have anything more useful to say?

Sex before marriage and underage sex are two different things. And take out the hyperbole. It doesn't "screw up" everyone's life. My mom had sex before marriage. And I can tell you, her life is not f**ked up.

I hate it when people exaggerate.

Taylor``

^--- Right On

what is underaged sex.... O_o... do you mean sex before marraige. If so, then i would say that sex before marraige is wrong, but i do not look down on people for having sex before they are married. Not having sex before marraige is very difficult to do, and very few and accoplish the task.

here:
Sex isn't just some fun thing. Sex is a powerful way to show your expresson towards someone in a relationship. Sex leads to strong feelings and attachment. The reason you shouldn't have underaged sex is becuase you don't have the binding agreement that marraige offers. The person you are willingly having sex with that you are not married to may or may not be able to spend the rest of their life with you. Why give away such a precious gift to someone you are unsure about. Hopefully you will love your future husband or wife. Why not be faithful to them even though you don't know who they are...

Underage Sex my Opinion.......ITS WRONG...

Why bother having sex with a random or a close person that your prob never gonna see
or be with for the rest of your life!!

people should wait until the meet someone they can trust and who they have known for a while
before taking part in sex....it doesn't make you a better person

You should wait until your old enough before having sex!!

I think that you should really know the person before you have sex with them. Not like you've known them a year only, you have to know them a really long time. You need to trust them, they need to trust you. You have to be there for each other through anything. In case of STD's or pregnancy. I think most young, underage people are not ready because they aren't mature enough or aren’t in a relationship like that. Some adults aren’t either. My opinion on underage sex is well I agree with both sides.I have more of an in depth opinion on sex like you should only have sex with one person. And I myself feel that getting married would make me feel old and then that... well okay lets not get into that. This is about underage sex. Okay you have to know the person for a long time and really well, you have to trust them with your life (almost at least) if your like me you trust no one with your life LOL but anyway.You need to be there for each other, you need to be mature as well and I don't thing your age determines how mature you are exactly. It all depends. It depends on you. Being pressured into it is not a reason to do it. Do it because your ready, you can handle things, you want to, you know the person. And of course I think if your younger then 10 it’s completely wrong. Your parents just got done tying your shoes (get what I mean).

Anyway it all depends. If your ready, if your partner is ready, if you trust each other…

But my opinion is if you know the person, trust them and everything else I said and are at an okay age above 15 is what I think would be better its not the worst thing in the world. But I do have to say I think 15 is still not a right age because you are just getting started with high school (about) and everything else. It will only make things hard for you. I guess another big thing is you are comfortable in your own skin and are not going to be afraid of talking about it and all.

I’m beginning to think it was easier if I said it all just depends LOL. I think I rambled enough and I'm not making sence anymore. I tend to explain things bad. But it all depends on you, Not necessarily your age. And it also depends on your parents belifs (if they matter to you) and you don't want them to go crazy on you when they find out. You need to be okay with them knowing and ect... (everything else I mentioned earlier) So most underage people arn't ready. Gosh I think I should just have said that LOL.

I shut up and went on again .

P.S. I hope I didn't repeat myself to much I tend to do that :(.