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someflipguy
With my past experiences, I say it could work out both ways, but most of the time I get my feelings hurt..lol..oh well! tongue.gif
xquizit
I wouldn't do it. Thats risky business.
Yemmerz
No. That's way to risky for most people. Plus the friendship becomes twisted after that.
franceass
like you said so yourself ... you get your feelings hurt .... so why do it? I personally wouldn't ...
someflipguy
Yes..yes...sigh...just can't help it I kind of get drawn into these kind of situations.. seems that the girl likes me but, comes to find out she just used me! Its not like I do it on purpose...
thedilenquent
i wouldnt do it feelings can get in the wayh and like Roxanne said there is too much at risk you and your friend could end up havin an argument and thats the end of the friendship
Kathleen
Hmm I wouldn't do it. My friends have done it. Hmm...perhaps that's because I don't have a friend to have benefits with. sad.gif Oh well. I probably wouldn't do it because, as they said, it's risky. You don't want to become too attached, or if you're with someone then...heh.
LiNHy POO
eer too risky for me... cuz feelings could get involed and one person would get jealous of another... and then all this drama!!! nahh wouldnt work out for me.
leeeza702
i say no.. because i think ultimately one person wil start to have feelings for the other.. and then they will end up getting hurt... sad.gif
ryfitaDF
i have one and it's great!
mouse_3k
friends w/ benefits is bad. I been in one and it sucks. One person always gets hurt in those things. Sadly I was the one who got hurt but he was a d!ck and now im w/ the best guy ever
islandkiss
QUOTE(xquizit @ Jun 17 2004, 8:13 AM)
I wouldn't do it. Thats risky business.

yep. I think it's kinda creepy. friends with benefits... pshh.
dani41790
i say no cuz thats kinda risky for some
JlIaTMK
thats just straight up bad for everyone

ur feelings get hurt, so do theirs

u lose friends sometimes, so do they
orionpax
i had one and it was great. sigh. but it ended up getting complicated and the only reason we're still friends is coz we love each other so much. we just dont want to threaten our friendship and that always comes first.

i say 'yes' if ure not too close with the person, 'no' if u are.
pinkkittie18
ah, I can't have friends with benefits.. It wouldn't feel right to have sex with someone I'm not going with. When I do it, its with someone I love.. not with someone who wants meaningless sex..
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