i dont want to sound like a total loser, but the truth is, ive never had a relationship with a guy. i really like this one dude, but i dont know how to approach him. im bad with 'flirting'. i dont know how to do it. anyone want to give me pointers? i want him to like me, not think im a weirdo or anything. please help!! thanks!

how come no one ever replies to me? =[ please. i really need feedback.

you could just tell him you like him. That way you'll find out if he has any of those feelings towards you.

well there is no way of *flirting*... try to talk to him juss like you would a good friend... soon you might start flirting... juss be yourself!! if he doesnt like you for who you are... this guy is not good enough for you anyways!!

How old are you? You think you're a loser because you never had a relationship with a guy? Do you think that girls who date lots of guys are cool then?

If you're bad at flirting, then don't even try it, it'll make you look like.. you're trying to hard. Let things flow...

Just bunch up some courage and go talk to him. Dunno, if he's in a sports team, ask him how they did, or if you both like the same... lets say, baseball team, you can just alwyas go up to him and say "How 'bout them Yankees?"

Just talk to him or something.
B/c once you do... I think it's easy after that!!
And then maybe, instead of you going up to him, he'll come up to you!

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Get to know him first =] Always works.

It's fine to not have had relationships with guys before. Don't worry- that doesn't make you uncool. =] Actually, I gotta say, flirting won't help you here. Girls flirt all the time, and some are "better" than others. If you just flirt with him, you'll end up becoming another one of the crowd, undistiguishable to him. Instead try to get to know him first. The best conversation starter is simply, "*smile* hey, my name is..." Don't gab away, let him get some talking in, though. Guys like girls who are interested in what they're saying (and possibily themselves) so listen to him, smile, comment, and just let the conversation flow... Once you get to know him, you'll probably start to "flirt" naturally. It's simply how comfortable you are around him. And to be comfortable- be yourself! If he doesn't like you for who you are, he isn't worth your time. And if things don't work out romantically, hey, you've got yourself a new guyfriend, right? ^_^

Good luck, be yourself, and go for it!

therez nothing* wrong with never had any relationship b4. and you r not a loser. dont say that.

if you wanna get with this guy. tlak 2 him more often. and be yourself. if you are not so good at flirting. just let it flow. dont push it.

raise up your confidence if possible. pretend if necessary. i have no confidence. but lots people say i look conceited. [like.. wow!]

right attitude and be confident in youself. thatz really the way to get a guy to notice you.

Just be yourself because if he doesn't like you for you then he isn't worth it at all. It's ok if this would be your first time to come on to a guy, there's always a first time for everything! Just act how you do with anyone else.

when you're around him just try to stay calm and remember, be yourself!. just talk to him and keep on smiling. he'll flirt back.

mayb u could like get to noe him more so u guys become closer friends nd c wut happens

Hey, no worries! I've never had a relationship with a guy before, one that I'd count anyway. I had this problem a while back, how to approach him. Everytime I saw him, I would be SO scared. Btw, how well do you know him? I think it sorta depends on how well ya know him. Does he send you any "signals?" Like do you catch him staring at you all the time or always wanting to talk to you and help you and stuff? I think, the most important thing, is to think before you act. Think before you act and to follow your heart. I've got more ideas, but I've gotta jet now, my bro's kicking me off the computer. Urgh. Good luck!

hehe dont worry! i never had a relationship with a guy in that way before either. but when i did like this one guy. i acted myself and talked to him about sports too we were both interested in hockey and then i dont' call it flirting but we started to tease each other a lot and then he liked me back too! but unfortunately by that time i liked someone else

just be who u are, u cant make him like u if u guys jus dont click rite? if u guys click then u jus do... its ok if he doesnt like u back theres more guys... but be who u are thats the best cuz then... wen ur urself.. ur comfortable

You know, you really don't need to flirt with him to talk to him.
Just thought you'd like to know that.

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strike a conversation with him,and then just go on from there. flirting is just something u do to "interact" with someone, there is really no "right" way to flirt.

flirting isnt something really written in a book. its just being around someone and talking, playing around, letting them see what a great person you are.......this may sound so corny but just be yourself.....and if you're shy....try to be a little more outspoken........but dont change who you are....smiling always helps too

I've never had a boyfriend either, but I'm not a loser... at least I don't think I am.

Just be yourself, and talk to him. Smile, laugh, and all the stuff that may turn him on.

Like others said, just be yourself.
Maybe start talking to him online first, then talk to him.
Just show that you're happy you're talking to him and smile.

no point of flirting if ur gonna do it badly....but if u really want to flirt ya gotta jus loosen up...and laugh at his jokes...but don't overdo it...be nice and sweet....but not TOO much....either he'll make a move or u will ur choice