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kimmytree
There's this guy that I've been talking to almost every single day for hours at a time with on aim. He's in two of my classes at school, but we started talking over the summer before we even met.

I'm having a hard time figuring out if he really likes me or not. We dont sit near each other in class, but after class we walk out talking to each other most of the time. And he's always smiling at me. But the weird thing is, he's not shy at all. Would he still be talking to me online the way he is even after meeting me, if he didnt really like me?
seonho
SHUT THE F UCK UP.
kimmytree
Eeeek, someone needs to be banned. mellow.gif
Kontroll
HAHAHHAHA I THINK I AGREE WITH SEAN HO. This really isn't something that needs advice, but time. You're wasting our lives with these types of questions.
kimmytree
Wth, its a serious question! I searched and I couldnt find a similar topic.
tokyo-rose
It's harder to be romantic in real life than it is to be that way online. From the sound of it he does like you. To put what Jake said more delicately, just give it more time and see if he starts to act more flirtatious in real life. If not, he might just be playing with you and you should move on.
queen
he's probably just taking it as it is - friendship. i mean unless he downright drops clear hints or is extremely flirty, and even then, a lot of people are just naturally flirty. or he could just be a really nice guy. they do exist ;o.

it could go one way or the other.
ReggieM
he prolly is just being nice, i mean i talk to this guy over aim that was gay just to make him feel good and not be a jerk, and i wouldnt really want to be caught dead with him in college. MY REP, or he could like you and something are easier to say online.
omgomgKATHY
agreed. You should give it a bit more time to figure out whether he likes you or not.
Kontroll
QUOTE(synkro @ Aug 27 2007, 09:29 AM) *
it could go one way or the other.


That's probably the most useful piece of information in this topic. DURH! YA THINK?!

Wow.


ReggieM
calm down jake leave the little children alone. lol
kimmytree
He's already admitted to liking me. Would he say that if he didnt really mean it? I'm wondering if he's just taking advantage.
xKatt
Omg, you sound so insecure. He flirts with you, smiles at you a lot, admits to liking you; he probably likes you, lmao.

I went through the same thing. I knew this guy for about 2 years via AIM, and now I'm finally in his highschool ('cause he's 2 years ahead of me) and we talk and flirt A LOT in real life since we actually see each other.

Last night, he told me he liked me and I told him I liked him too, blah blah this topic is about you, so anyway!

Just give it time, like the people above me said, don't listen to Seon Ho, and keep on friendly terms with this guy until he asks you out. Flirt to show him you like him back.
kimmytree
QUOTE(xKatt @ Aug 28 2007, 07:18 AM) *
Omg, you sound so insecure. He flirts with you, smiles at you a lot, admits to liking you; he probably likes you, lmao.

I went through the same thing. I knew this guy for about 2 years via AIM, and now I'm finally in his highschool ('cause he's 2 years ahead of me) and we talk and flirt A LOT in real life since we actually see each other.

Last night, he told me he liked me and I told him I liked him too, blah blah this topic is about you, so anyway!

Just give it time, like the people above me said, don't listen to Seon Ho, and keep on friendly terms with this guy until he asks you out. Flirt to show him you like him back.


Aww, thanks for taking the time to respond. hug.gif

I'm just worried because he hasnt made a move or anything. Should I give him a little more time, or should I make a move? We've been talking for about 3 weeks, and we've known each other in person for a week and a half. But we talk on aim every single day, and we walk out of our last class to the front of the school together almost every day. We're very flirty with each other online, but we're really not flirty around each other in person.
Uronacid
OMG, if he said he likes you then you need to shut the fuck up and accept it. Stop being an over-sensitive little fagot (pile o' fuckin sticks).
kimmytree
Well excuse me for being sensitive then. I've never been in a relationship before. stubborn.gif
seonho
You should go out with me then. I'll f uck your tight, and wet, vagina real nice. Don't worry about your vagina not getting wet, it'll be flooding.
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