so ive been trying to get over this guy
somehow i cant
my friends know my situation with him.
yet they ALWAYS bring him up in our conversations.
and i tell them not to talk about him.
because it makes me think and all that crap.
everyone tells me he's weird and i'm supposebly to good for him.
and now since we're back to school.
i totally try to ignore him.
but since school has started i see him EVERYWHERE

i know he doesnt give a f**k

but i cant stop thinking of him.
i tried talking to an ex to keep my mind off of him. doesnt work.
and i hate having this feeling towards him
i want to dislike HIM
i know i should get over him
but HOW!?@#@#

Well, I have a friend who just can't get over this guy. And the way she tries to resolve to forget about him is that she does like a girls night out or whatever the hell they do. But they did it a lot of times and eventually she got over him. lol.

Go have a lot of fun with you're girls and it will take you're mind off of "him". When you're having fun, you eventually think about having a great time and not about the guy.
Just keep avoiding him?

I don't give very good advices (espicially if it's like a girl's situation), but that's all I know because that's what my friend did.

Piss him off SO MUCH that he says something bad about you. When he does, get completely pissed off at him.

There. You dislike him.

lol hmm well i have a friend that kinda have the same situation as you, she would usually call us up to have like a girl night out you know? so she could get her mind off him yeah we sometime talk about her ex to like help her move on and stuff, it kinda did work but it kinda didnt cuz now she misses him so much now >< but why dont you try to call up your girlfriends like to hang out or shop with you *n.n* im sure it would work?? lol just helping thats all *n.n*

I had your problem.
I was sad and moped around for about two months. I couldn't stop thinking about him. The girls night out things didn't help me at all because my friends kept bringing him up in convorsation.
Then I met a new guy who was 10 times better in every way. Ta-da I'm over the old guy :]
Sure I think about him every now and then but it doesn't upset me anymore when he ignores me at school. I'm happy.

So my advice is find someone new if you can. :]

I had that problem a while ago, too.

I HAD to get over this guy, because he started dating my best friend.
It was soo hard, but eventually I managed to get him out of my head.

I just avoided him, thought about all his bad traits..
I turned my thoughts to someone else and just like that he was gone.

soo true

my freinds brought him up like ten times today
and he's a tutor in a class of mine. ARGH

and i see him everyday at school
he's also best freinds with my cousin
soo he's practically eveywhere.

i say to myself i HATE him.

i hate feeling this way.
cause he's i guess effed up

and i totally ignore him at school.

i just want to tell him how feel then get it over with!!!

i am talking to this other who is SOOOOO much better. but the other guy is still in my head.

There ya go^. Excelent advice, it works to.

Just keep telling yourself all the bad things about him and adventually you will have no reason to like him.