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datass
as the topic title says.
Steven
Not necessarily. I would say that girls appear to be closer because girls, by social norms, are allowed to be more touchy/friendly with others. For guys, that's just not manly, and I know a lot of guys who don't want to be accused of being "girly".
Sandraaa
No. Girls seem closer to bisexuality because it's much more socially accepted. You're more to find an open female bisexual than an open male bisexual.
Claudel
And girls have the priviledge to touch themselves all day long :))) does that mean they are BI ?:))
Sandraaa
^ No. It makes them girls. shrug.gif
demolished
well. when i look around, girls seem to be that.
Uronacid
Oh yeah!!! SEXY!!
Uronacid
I know many girls who have tried anal sex.
cyb3r0ptik
don't forget the fact that... well... basically it's "trendy" for women to be bisexual.
It gets them more attention from guys. Face it, if two girls are holding hands, or kissing, the guys around will be paying attention to that. Not to girlfriends or cute outfits.

Not to mention if you're old enough to go to a club, and see two drunk chicks on the dance floor making out, that's gonna appeal to a guy more than your $200 outfit that shows your cleavage.

Because more and more women are coming out as bisexual, it's becoming more and more of a social standard. It's quickly become a bonding agent between two teens.
If you're a girl and mention "I'm bi" to 4 different girls, guaranteed at least one of them will say "OMG ME TOO!!!". Where as in todays age, it's becoming just as casual and recurring as say... Passion Pink nail polish.

Guys can't be as open about it. In a world of sexuality that's overrun with the appeal towards the general male population, and the egos that men carry... you rarely see men give more than a hand grip and semi-hug. In fact, the only time you'll see men publicly display any man-on-man action is at functions where you're "allowed" to show emotion.
Weddings, Funerals, Births.

Some will argue they don't want to see any acts of gay-ness. But even the most dignified of Christian men will think about, or at least not WANT to turn away from two beautiful women locking lips together.

It's not just girls are closer to being bisexual than guys, it's more that girls are more accepted as bisexual than guys.
RAWRstephishere
QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Aug 11 2007, 07:15 PM) *
^ No. It makes them girls. shrug.gif


Haha.

Girls are more touchy feely. Guys are like, get the heck away from me.

But thats just normal for girls.
Steven
QUOTE(cyb3r0ptik @ Aug 20 2007, 09:04 PM) *
don't forget the fact that... well... basically it's "trendy" for women to be bisexual.
It gets them more attention from guys. Face it, if two girls are holding hands, or kissing, the guys around will be paying attention to that. Not to girlfriends or cute outfits.

Not to mention if you're old enough to go to a club, and see two drunk chicks on the dance floor making out, that's gonna appeal to a guy more than your $200 outfit that shows your cleavage.

Nuh uh. Drunk people don't appeal to me at all. I know they do to some guys because they can be taken advantage of, but when girls get drunk at clubs all the time, it's kind of a turn off.
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Because more and more women are coming out as bisexual, it's becoming more and more of a social standard. It's quickly become a bonding agent between two teens.
If you're a girl and mention "I'm bi" to 4 different girls, guaranteed at least one of them will say "OMG ME TOO!!!". Where as in todays age, it's becoming just as casual and recurring as say... Passion Pink nail polish.

But who goes around saying "I'm bi" to people they don't know?
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Guys can't be as open about it. In a world of sexuality that's overrun with the appeal towards the general male population, and the egos that men carry... you rarely see men give more than a hand grip and semi-hug. In fact, the only time you'll see men publicly display any man-on-man action is at functions where you're "allowed" to show emotion.
Weddings, Funerals, Births.

It's not because of social norms, it's because a lot of guys just don't like to show emotion. Even when I'm at my happiest, I don't like to do anything more than shake hands. This includes at weddings etc.
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Some will argue they don't want to see any acts of gay-ness. But even the most dignified of Christian men will think about, or at least not WANT to turn away from two beautiful women locking lips together.
Not if they're drunk...
RAWRstephishere
QUOTE(Steven @ Aug 21 2007, 08:24 AM) *
But who goes around saying "I'm bi" to people they don't know?


Some girls do.
Steven
Sounds like they're just seeking attention.
cyb3r0ptik
QUOTE(Steven @ Aug 21 2007, 10:58 AM) *
Sounds like they're just seeking attention.


which backs up my saying that it's trendy for girls to be bisexual.


and believe me... lots of people say they're bi to people they don't know.
Moderator
I doubt it. It probably just looks that way because society doesn't approve of guys acting in such a way. But girls get cut some slack because nobody really complains about it. Men are supposed to be these strong minded manly men. But to me; lately a lot of people are going bi as a trend.
ernestprongs
Not to mention a good amount of people say they are "bi" and then suddenly become "straight" in about a week.



cyb3r0ptik
Girls are only bisexual if they're dating a guy.
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