if ur exs kame crawling back to you and wants you to take them back would you?

Depends on the circumstances of the breakup. I mean, if your ex cheated on you or something like that, I personally don't think it's worth going back for. Who knows if he/she would be cheating again? But if it were something like, he/she needed space, or if you did, and nothing was actually wrong then...yeah I guess so. I guess it just depends...

yea i aree with tainted_angel.. it all depends.. i mean if you guys broke up because he was a total jerk.. or he left you for someone else or something.. then i wouldnt take them back. no matter how much i want them back. to me, it would be a matter of principal.. i dont know.. just my opinion on it..

-emma!!

yess depends really.. i would only take one back.. which was my first love!! but the others nahh.

depends.

if they f*cked up the first time by doing sumfin dumb, then no. i have gave a seccond chance for that, and thats the only time i will ever do that again.

depends...lols...if they really love you...then sure why tha not...but if you know that they're juz gonna use you then...how bout no....

well no not rite now cuz im taken, but if i waznt it would depend. if tha guy cheated on me then no, i would neva go bac with him.

It depends if you still like/love the person.

It depends on why we broke up in the first place and what I feel for him now.

i think it would depend on how much damage he did to your heart.

well, it depends on the matter of how we broke up, and what i feel for him now. like, if my ex came back to me, i'd probably go back with him because i still like him, and we split up amicabl. but if he cheated on me, no way.

if you feel the person truly learned and deserves that second chance there's no reason why it's wrong ..

I think I probably would would, but I alrerady know that would be a stupid mistake

Took the words right out of my mouth

exactly!

i said yes because i dunno thats just how i am...

yes..

and 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 9th, 10th... ETC. chances..

i forgive easily.. thats just how i am..

It depends on the situation and how bad or good it was.

no. the past is the past, and i like to keep it that way. seems kind of..cruel, especially if the guy didn't do anything, and it was my fault. the good part//there will be no chances for me. so, yay, justice served. kind of.


yes, i'm retarded.

yea i believe in second chances, not like girls give me that option though

There is no way I would take my Ex back...That punk ask me to marry him then 3months later left me, after I had already picked out my wedding dress....Yah aint that some BS...Guys suck. Luckly I have an awesome guy now but its only been two months so we will see :o)

We will bury you.

that would depend on why you split up in the first place... i know i would want a 2nd chance. wouldnt u?

I usually do .. but it depends what dey did

i did give someone a second change.. they still didnt treasure that.. so.. it really depends how u feel toward him/her and if u believe u guys can work things out

i think it depends.. it depends on how long its been since the break up.. depends how he/she is.. if he/she is the same person u first fell in love with.. did he/she change.. for better or worst? lol

^ exactly what i was thinking.

Yeah second chacnes depends. I guess there is a fine line between the chances that you get and the chances you want. OFten times I wish I could get another chance with my ex. I think if you really like someone a second chance always exists...

it definitely depends on what they did. be careful, once a cheater...always a cheater.

it all depends on what the guy did to you

Yeah, I believe in second chances.

With the boyfriend I'm with now, we went out last year before school started for about 2 weeks. The next year, about the same time, we started going out again. I didn't think it would last long, but its been going strong for over 10 months now.

I never thought that me and him would of gone out again. Hes used to be one of the people who liked a lot of girls, but didn't really go out with them or keep up a relationship. Heck, his longest relationship before me was for 29 days, and he didn't even really like them.

Me and him are eachothers longest, and pretty much eachothers first "real" love. He means the world to me and vice versa.

Sometimes, second chances can happen unexpectably, and you might not think it'll work out, but it does. And I'm glad it did.

Sorry if I sound so sappy. lolo.

- L i Z

(Happily in love with Randy )

Yes, but their's a difference between being tolerable and being a pushover. You need to know where to draw the line. Sounds so cute with miss tragedy and her boyfriend though..good example of second chances working out

-Teressa

it depends on if i could trust him again or not....

it depends

Awwww, thanks.

- L i Z

if the person really loved u then u shouldnt have broke up in thje first place, unless its they tell u they made a mistake ..... i guess u should give it another shot.... other wise NO!

Yeah I do believe in second chances.. all the time.
i guess thats just how I am. everyone makes mistakes & stuff so yeah. but if the guy dosent give me a chance to give him another chance then its over

Depends on the situation.

If the guy cheated on you, nope. Sorry, but I'm not attracted to jerks. If it's because you fighted and broke it off just like that, then I guess I would. Especially if I still liked him.

Depends on what really happened to make us break up. But overall, I believe in second chances..

depends wht they did

well, do you still like him? if u guys broke up because of sth stupid, sure why not. if he did something unfaithful to you then its really up to you. if you bother thinking "if there are second chances" then 70% of your heart feels that you want to get back with him. but.. couples break up for a REASON, unless the reason is really lame, most of the time, if you get back with him, the reason will come back again and you guys might break up again .

like my situation, i was with my ex for 9 months on and off going? we were together for 4 straight months and then.. it was just on and off. the reason was that we didnt see each other and we just had lame excuses. back then i didnt care because i really liked her . and yes i do believe in 2nd chances. however, i gave her my 2nd chance, even my 3rd, even my 4th, and at the end, she cheated on me while i was gone . hmm yeah. ask you friends.. see how they feel about it.

Usualy its a no.But some occasions ill give another chance.

Depends on the situation really...with my current boyfriend, if we were to break up, and if he were to ask for a second chance I'd give it to him because I know him well enough to know that he wouldn't do things on purpose to hurt me.

But for stuff like cheating...nah. I doubt I can forgive him if he were to do that.

Yeah, I do. Everyone makes mistakes and can change their ways especially if they put their heart into it. Just be certain that they do deserve another shot and won't just waste your time by not even compromising. Some people will never change, not even for themselves.

It may not make sense to my friends, but I would take him back in a second.

Depends. But if you broke up with them once for some reason, would it ever really work again?

Yes and no.

If my trust were utterly betrayed, then absolutely not.

Probably not. I don't really do second chances, especially if someone completely screws me over.

Not anymore.