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hopefulx3
I've had a boyfriend now for about 4 months, and yes, i know that's hardly any time, but we're very serious about things. [we're both 15.]

there's this guy who is 19 and he has a girlfriend, and he knows i have a boyfriend and he knows about my age. at first, things were on a very business-like relationship. we talked during work and that's that.

lately, he's been saying hi to me around campus now, and waving to me, and bringing up small talk around the campus if he walks past me. today i needed a ride home because my ride unexpectidly cancelled on me, so he asked me for my cell number and he picked me up and gave me a ride home. i told him how bad i felt, because the weather was REALLY shitty today, and he said: "don't feel bad, if i didn't want to do this, i wouldn't have offered."

i don't know, my friend thinks he likes me.. but i'm not sure because of the scenario i explained. i'm not saying i like him back, i'm just trying to figure out if he likes me... blink.gif any help would be appreciated? _smile.gif
Beunique
campus? where exactly is this? lol sounds interesting .. and as for the guy i think he may like you.. but if you dont like him then let him know.
nosylilme
Hm...well, I think he's just being nice. I've got a guy friend who'd do that for me and he has a girlfriend he's completely head-over-heels for. He's probably just being a good friend. _smile.gif
hopefulx3
lmao, it's at work. and thanks for telling me about my interesting life?

i don't know, i just want to figure this out. _unsure.gif

i mean, we're usually always laughing and smiling when we talk. and he starts the conversations. but we can also talk about serious things, too. we talk about everything from resturants, to opinions on underaged sex, to genres of music we like, to cutting oneself, to weekend plans, etc.
nosylilme
Oops, I forgot I replied to this already. Sorry.
fanny562
UMM WELL I THINK HE LIKES U
BUT IF U DON'T LIKE HIM BACK THEN
LET HIM KNOW..
BUT IF U DO [LIKE HIM] THEN
I THINK U GUYS SHOULD WORK SOMETHING OUT

OK WELL I HAVE LIKE ALOT
OF WAYS I GUY COULD LIKE
SOMEONE..I READ THEM IN THIS ONE
MAGAZINE
I THINK IT WAS 17
IF NOT IT WAS COSMO GIRL
Michelle
Sounds like just a regular ol' friend to me. ^_^
Steven
Sounds peachy to me :) It's not unnatural for a guy to want to be friends with girls (even if he has a girlfriend) and be willing to do things for them, regardless if he's in a serious relationship or not. Also, it doesn't mean he likes you or that he wants to cheat on his girlfriend.
weed
Considering his age and he has not done anything out of the ordinary im guessing he just wants to be tightt like spandexx biggrin.gif
Sandraaa
I think he's just trying to be friendly? Actually, I can't give a straight answer because your story isn't complete yet. It's very ... bleh. I'll say friendship though.
ersatz
I have a coworker who's ten years older than me who I talk to a lot and took me home once. It doesn't mean he likes me. We just get along, as friends.
hopefulx3
okay guys, thanks for the opinions wink.gif
Elba
From what you've said, it just seems like he's a nice guy.
animalinside
why is it that because a guy is nice to you that he automatically likes you? I hate it when chicks think im leading them on because im not being an a-hole to them..
wishforhelsinki
Aw, keep your panties intact, he sounds like a chill guy. Nothing more. I bet he's just a sweetheart like that.
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