i've never received, considering that i think it would be pretty gross for my boyfriend. i'm not that mean. haha.

i've given, though. what can i say? i like making my boyfriend happy. (i do have to be in the mood to do it, though.)

oral sex [both ways] is absolutely the best. 'nough said.

I wouldn't say you're being mean - giving oral sex to a girl is meant to be very good from a guys' perspective so he might even enjoy it!

A lot of women are turned off the thought by the notion that they smell, taste or look "bad" downstairs - but as long as you've washed recently, the guy is getting your true flavour, as it were!

It's also meant to be an aphrodisiac; which is why most people like to give as well as to recieve.

Same here.

after my friend told me about how gross it can be down there, i never looked at the same way.

That's exactly why I don't eat out my partner's pussy. I also respect the girl, so I don't let her give me a blow job, even though it would feel so good, but I have respect and dignity.

haha. yeah, im reconsidering the whole thing. if it comes up again, shower!

Oh, we all have to deal with those gross, slimy things that Mother Nature gave us. When I'm in the mood, I tend to forget and let go of all the reservations I have about receiving oral because, otherwise, I know that if I were a guy, I would not want to touch that thing.

I have no problems giving oral sex, but it depends on how much I like the guy.

Receiving is always fun but giving is always the best part.

for me, it depends on how much money.
jk..

How would you know? You're only 15.

so true...;)

Be wary of insulting Liana's lifestyle.

those responses are so freakin annoying...just becase someone has a question doesn't mean there too immature for it. how would you have the answer to your own question? if you have the answer than you probably dont have a question now do you..

anyways i don't really get the poll..so im not gonna vote. but i love giving and recieving.

f**k this shit! Everybody should know by now that I love to get head, but there is one thing I love more than that...giving it. Theres nothing to me like a girl slapping your head or squeezing your head in between her legs because it is so good!

I'd rather give than receive, oral sex never does much for me, so I'd rather start off giving my partner oral sex and than just moving onto the actual sex.

You won't feel that way after you stop being shy about your "area"

Couldn't have seen it better myself. I hate how a guy goes down on you then tries so much crap but it's boring and not that enjoyable but you don't want to interrupt their work. I mean what...

i dunno
i've never given or received
ehh

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Try getting one of those pointy sticks that the weather girls have sometimes and show him where he's meant to be.

I am giving some head tonight!

i`de rather give than recieve.. just seems dirty to do it to a girl.. since so much has gone on down there

I'd rather give then recieve anyday. It's just a really awkward feeling and that makes it hard to enjoy it.

i like to do both :P
however, i've never orgasmed...are u suppposed to? it just feels wet lol

head?? no no. never in my life.

Yeah. I would never give head. It's degrading and I think it's gross.

I'm a girl, and I LOVE oral sex, it's like my favorite thing to do and it's the only way to make me orgasm. it's freaking amazing.

I anm a dude and like I said before in this thread, I love to get it, but I love pleasuring a girl more.

i think if you truly love someone and they truly love you, you'd want to do anything possible to make them or yourself happy :)

that is, if you're comfortable with it, of course

how does it taste for you straight guys anyway?

But saying how does it taste like for you straight guys? Are you stupid? Gay guys can have oral sex too. Ever heard of a guy giving another guy a blow job?

Anyways, girls have different taste when it comes to their vagina. I learn in my Human Sexuality class that "you are what you eat", that meaning you taste like whatever you eaten. Ever wonder why Indian people smell so bad? That's because they eat alot of curry.

No i am not stupid. I said the specific word "straight" cuz if i didn't and just threw out the word guys in general people would ask if i meant what does dick or what does vagina taste like and it would take more time to post out that i meant vagina.

Anyways, yea i heard a significant percent of the thing you eat is released out of your skin. I guess that's why there's that saying.

may i ask whats the difference between the real sex and oral??

isn't it the exact samethinga anyways? putting our organs into each other mouth and having fun? i think it's the same.. but thats just my opinion.. well yeah, i don't understand this real thing and oral..

Uhmmm no....

Intercourse involves penis in vagina, penetration. If it's just mouths, that would be oral. Obviously what you don't understand is sex.

well sorry, if i don't understand. that's why i was asking. but thanks for the attitude, i guess.

No problem, it's complimentary.

I'm just disturbed that you're 15 (or am I making that up?) and know so little about sex. It's just another example of what a failure our education system is when it comes to any matter that could be construed as remotely controversial; abstinence only, what a joke.

I give my boyfriend head, and I don't really mind it, since he seems to be really happy about it. But I like it even more when its me receiving, but he usually doesn't want to do that unless we 69 it. I just don't like it when he wants me to swallow after he orgasms. Blegh.

Or the fact she's not a typical American. Most likely has been brought up properly by caring/intelligent parents.

^caring parents don't teach their kids about sex?

DUDE! This is the last topic I wrote my essay over for English last semester. 98%, baby.

My girlfriend would rather give and then receive the real thing, btw.

Morally speaking... and I dunno how well you know your history but a parent teaching about sexual conduct wasn't done til' AFTER their 12 year of school (what we consider; graduating highschool). This is because back in history, kids had better things to do with their lives than sit there and wonder about sex and wantin to experience sex.

But we're no longer in history, so what you find "beneficial" in teaching a young child about sex may actually be one of the worst things you could ever do...

The reason why sex education was introduced into the general education system was because of the HIV epidemic that started in the 80's, the abortion rate, the school drop out rate (we assumed that people were droppin out because they were too busy having a child) during this time sex was a lil more common for teens. Sex education is supposed to prevent you from having sex, and if and when you decide to have sex, be prepared for the repercussions.

i prefer to give than receive

Man I wished more girls were like you.

That's not caring parenting, and that's certainly not intelligent parenting. That's promoting ignorance.


Morals are subjective. I don't think it can really be said at what age parents taught their children things, because it's going to have varied by family, by culture, and by point in history.


Um, no, not if an ignorant girl gets talked into sleeping with her boyfriend because she doesn't understand, and then suffers harsher ramifications than the rest of us would who understand how to use protection, or the emotional side of things, etc.

This is so bothersome. You're always so "history informs us," but you really have no idea what the hell you're talking about.

You have to know, young girls were marrying and having children as early as their bodies would allow... with a lower life-expectancy, you couldn't afford to wait till you were comfortable if you wanted kids. Society adjusted accordingly, and, it was common for very young girls to have children.

And, of course, such an observation is only applicable to a specific point in history - a place, a time, and a people. Societies take on different practices, mores, and norms all over the world and all across time.

I'm curious as to where you get your information and what makes you think that it's okay for you to take on such a superior attitude when it comes to an idea that you seem to just generalize for the purpose of your argument.

How about the days when girls would get married and have their first child at the age of 14? How far back in history are you going? And what specific culture are you speaking of? There are many different cultures (back in the day and now) that are very open about the idea of hetero and homosexual sex and exploring it. There are also a lot of cultures that like to keep themselves shielded from sexual and taboo ideas. Who are you to say what is better and what isn't?

You can't control the direction society moves. Sex Education is essential in today's society because many people are having sex at an earlier age. If your point is that people shouldn't be having sex until they're out of high school, that's fine, but it's really nothing you can control unless you plan on sheltering your own child from sex (which, I assure you, will be very hard to do).

i don't think i'd ever give or receive. i prefer not to.

I like giving & receiving simultaneously, nuff said

I agree. I wouldn't want to give. Recieve? It all depends if he wants to do that to me. AND if i'm comfortable with it.



True. I know most girls that have told me "I will NEVER give head." And then later on they change their mind. There's few girls out there that say that and stick to not doing it. I won't say never, but I won't do it. It's not who I am and it's not what I would feel comfortable doing.

ditto