can some of u list some stuff u do to ur boyfriend while kissing? i mean like where do u caress him and stuff? im rly inexperienced and i dont know what a girl should or shouldnt do while kissing so advice please??? thanks :)

Tell him to tell you what he wants.

Or read the 30 other posts exactly like this.

Or watch this video: http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-s...ne-passionately

Hah, that video should be the reply to all the kissing topics

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hmm well first off don't psych yourself out! just go for it and just let yourself be caught up in the moment. hold the back of his head, put your hands on his back, run your fingers through his hair, touch his face. just do anything that feels right in the moment. or you could squeeze his shoulders/biceps, that'll make him feel really great! lol. just go with it and have fun!

Don't worry about this, and don't think about it.
Do what comes naturally in the moment, and as long as your not grasping in possibly insulting or uncomforitable places lol. Keep it as age and experience appropriate as you can, or as need be.

I touch his face.. his back...

I kinda take off his close and work my way down..

Jack him off.

i laughed a lot and opened my eyes. i didn't realize i was doing that. although i closed my eyes when i did

so yeah.. don't do what i did. cause she didn't seem to laugh back.

oh that was my first.

Run your fingers through his hair; put your arms around his shoulders/ neck; rest your hands on his chest; wrap your arms around his face







Rub his bulge.

lmdao

yea that will be a great first expierience!

when you start dreaming about him at night/day, what do you see your self doing ? Just answer htat and there ya go, what ever comes naturally to you...and keep it age appropriate :)

Come on! You don't need this. Just do not think, let it be natural and you'll be fine.

Try to finger his ass or tickle his nuts keke. I luv dat

You could start off by holding his face. Not like a vice grip either.

Nibble and tease.

Lol I watched that it was pretty funny..teaches ya alot though.
Try running your fingers through his hair, rest your arms on his sholders, touch his chest and when you get more experienced rub his bulge.

any man would love a girl to put her hands down his jeans while kissing passionately...although if ur inexperienced, you may be too young for what that would most likely lead to....

WTF? Are you saying that you should simultaneously make out with him and give him a handjob?

Well typically when I'm making out with my boyfriend, one of my hands instinctively goes to his face or his neck and my other hand grips his back and sometimes I sort of gently dig my nails in. Not like .. ripping off chunks of flesh grip, just a soft grip.

Fact: pulling hair, scratching, nibbling, etc make nerves more sensitive thus easier to turn on!

I've met a guy who likes it when girls bite him. And another that goes crazy when girls touch his face. Umm just a few things. Every guy's different.

Things NOT to do:
- try to nibble his bottom lip; it may seem cute at the time but it will result in bloodshed
- grab his ass unless he's specifically told you that's ok, normally that's just weird
- get intimate in public
- kiss with food in your or your partner's mouth
- kiss when you have bad breath

It's pretty easy to make out while jacking a guy off.

Nibbling is different than biting. Biting could possibly lead to blood, but nibbles no; plus a lot of guys love it.

A light grab of the ass is also a bit of a turn on for guys.

Small kisses, and light making out is acceptable in public. Reaching down his pants and start jacking him off, NOT allright.



And I agree with Sandra, don't base your kissing on what others tell you to do. Do whats natural and just feels right. Ask your boyfriend what he likes and just practice. In time, you will get down what you're most comfortable with.

I wouldnt want her to jack me off in public while we were making out...i wouldnt wanna go in my pants...

Now if we were at the mall or the movies then that would be a different story...

Isn't the mall a public place..?

^Nonsense. He just goes into the stores no one goes to.

Whoops, I meant to say it's NOT allright. Oh wellllll

If we're in a public place..usually we're hugging when we're kissing...so I'd have my hands on his back...or his ass. Not grabbing it...just resting on it. Sometimes' I'd rub his back while we're kissing.

If we're in a private place...use your imagination =P

So no one here likes the thrill of getting dirty in public? I would think that the chance of getting caught or being seen would be exhilirating

And when i say mall i mean like dressing rooms

^Ohh, mall dressing rooms are fun! And I like getting feisty in public, I just like to save the main event for elsewhere. It's fun getting riled up in the car as well, especially while he's driving and can't do much to stop me...

^Why would he want to stop you?

I think its real sweet when they touch your face gently with their hands when you kiss.

Tjat Video was awesome lol Thanx

Nice.

Over here,you can get arrested for messing around in dressing rooms..

that video was awesome :) thanx!

um idk if im a good kisser.. if no one told me that i was then that must mean that im not.. o well more time to practice.. lol

I'm pretty sure I walked into a restroom last night and two people where having sex. Mostly because I was hearing, you know, sex noises. I peed and then got the f**k out of there. lol

First off warner...

Lean in really close. So close you can smell his fresh-minty breath fragrance, and feel his hot moist breath on your eyeballs.

Then lean in even more, running your hand expertly over his long, solid nose.

Stay this way until one of you overbalances, then kick him in the crotch and run.

I just open my eyes when I'm kissing to see what facial expression he is making.

LOL. It is so hilarious.

Apparantly, when I do that [eyes wide open] it's too disconcerting for my boyfriend.

So I have to go in blind.

Oh, usually, the other person never know unless they happen to open their eyes right after.

So I get away with it.

Teach me the ways of Open Kissing, Master Yoda. I must learn the ways of this Force-Kiss!

In actuality...I bet the sneaky sod watches me!

HAHAHAHA, he probably does.

You never know.

It's so funny because once, when I was kissing this guy, he and I both opened our eyes at the same time.


That was so freaky. Don't ever do that.



No wonder people close their eyes.


Seeing another person's eyes in close range is quite an awkward sight.

Actually, I think that if you're close enough - the two eyes merge into one and suddenly you're kissing a cyclops!

But I still would very much like to know where my tongue's going, y'know? Could be that he's moved at the very last moment and you're french-kissing a telegraph pole.

That is SO TRUE. Ugh, how unattractive.



That's why we have arms. So we can MAKE sure they don't go anywhere.

Latch onto the neck! The NECK!

You really have one of three choices with arms (for the benefit of the original poster).

1) Stand still and grab the object of your affections in a vice-like grip and don't move a muscle as you proceed to stick your tongue down their throat. Ignore any squirming and/or pleas for oxygen.

2) Octopuss your digits all over their body and give them the screaming itchies.

3) Somewhere in between the throttling and LSD hand/arm options listed above.

From my experience, I would go with option 3.

The other two is highly unadvised.