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Jayembe
Do u think that internet relationships last and are they just games of cheating?
xquizit
I guess it can work for some people if they're really committed to that sort of relationship. I mean, some people have even married people they've met on the internet. I guess for it to work, there also needs to be a lot of trust.
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
roxanne is right .. a lot of trust has to be involved in an on line relationship .. some have worked so far .. and some have gotten together and even married later on ..

but i dunno .. i'm really iffy about the internet relationships because some people don't know what they're getting themselves into .. the person may turn out to be nothing as they make themselves appear through the internet and it's very dangerous ..

be careful if you get into an internet relationship and make sure you know who you're talking to before you decide to meet up with them ..

i personally wouldn't want an internet relationship because of the risks involved .. =/
mai_z
i don't really trust internet relationships cuz u can never tell if the person on the other side is really who he/she says they really are u kno? u gotta b really careful
177emories
how do you have a relationship online? when you don't know what that person is doing in real life... example at shcool or whatever...

like meeting a guy first from the internet and then having a person to person relationship from there on is okay, cause you actually get to see that person now...
LiNHy POO
i guess its ok... like i say if you make it work its gonna work!! biggrin.gif but then again.. do you really feel the chemistry between the two people? sure you can talk when you're online... but how about over the phone? or even in person? the chemistry has to be there!!
Jayembe
I think i like havin internet relationships it's just that i would neva consider meeting the person in person becus it's to risky.I believe that internet realtionships are not really serious becus u can have many relationships just for fun or for socializing.
omonkey5
i think online relationships are for the people who dont want a real commited realationship at first but you never know what you will get yourself into
gasolinekisses
i met someone on vacation 2 years ago and we spent the week together hanging out and getting to know each other and stuff, so we kept things going online for a while... but then school started back and he was going to a co-ed public school for the first time and i didn't want to him to be tied down to someone far away and i myself didn't want to be taken by someone online... so we kinda went our separate ways, but he's still my friend, so in our situation it *kinda* worked... but a word of warning: sometimes people are really different and uninhibited online... but in real life, they're just not the person you got to know online. so yeah, best of luck to everyone considering an online friendship/romantic endeavor.
conster
i dont believe in online relationships, if i had one ill jus play around cuz i believe that u know how the person is wen u see them or hear them, i can say "i dont know" in a normal way where i really dont know teh answer .. or "i dont knowwwwwwww" and change the tone of it and it'll mean something different, of course u can only see that in person, but online if i said i dont kno the other person wouldnt kno what kinda attitude i said it in
mglbaby
they last but usually they're not really serious bcuz who knows if they're cheatin on u? huh.gif
SarahxJoy
Personally, I'm not all that into an online relationship, because you just never know. But I guess one good part about it is that it's not based on looks or social status. More on what the person has to say and how they think. So there's no harsh judgement there. But then again, even if what they say or how they may appear to think and such, may not be real.
You just never know. _unsure.gif
jahama1240
yea. to me, internet relationships seems shady. because you never know who exactly the person is, how old they are, what they look like, etc. but, im all for internet friends. talking about your interests with a person far away can be will therapeutic.
islandkiss
depends. but I don't think that internet relationships never work.
177emories
what if that person doesn't come online for a few days? what would you think? where is that person? hmmm on a date with soemone else? yeshhh most likely...
Winter
I personally think internet relationships can work as long as you both trust each other and put in some effort. But also make sure you talk on the phone and view webcam with him so that you're certain he's not a horny 54 year old grandfather.
whomps
My uncle's brother.. (the in-law uncle) is married to a woman he met online..

They're relationship seems to be doing good happy.gif and she's HELLLLLLLLLLLLLA preeeetty
WildGriffin
Eh.

Online relationships can work assuming you eventually met the person face to face on a fairly-regular basies.

Pssh, I come off as a immature jerk-off online; but in real life i'm shy and meek...and a tad cynical.

Go figure.
topsyturvy
online relationships seem like a tricky one there.. you never know who's on the other end of the chatline. it can be the gorgeous guy he talks about, or, i quote, "a horny 54 year old grandfather". laugh.gif on the other hand, an online penpal where you remain anonymous would be a good idea, like a friend that gives you advice and stuff without judging you - or having any reason to judge you, since she/he hasn't really seen u in person. happy.gif i've been lookin for one.. _unsure.gif
x0143637x0
i think internet relationships dont work cuz u onli get to talk to that person but u dont get to see them real relationships isnt like that.

well thats my point of view but others mite not think so
NgocQuyen
lols...i guess they could werk...i tried...lols...it werked at a point...but i guess he thought i didn't like him no more...so without telling me....he started doohickying with this other chikk....and yea....xD
abercrombiekid
it doesn't work. don't waste your time trying. just go out and look for one. easy as that.
dani41790
well they do last if the pplz wanna realli make their relatioship work.
Violent K
Bad, bad idea. Most people lie about everything.

Plus, I have friends that go in there and get fake ass pics and shit just to fool people and have a few laughs. I mean, I have a friend that's a girl that got this pic of this guy, who was so obviously a model, and she's been fooling this online chick for a year now that her name is Fabian and she's a male.

I mean, I think it's pretty funny. But still, I wouldn't fall for shit like that.

MMFCL
lisaaaaaaa
sometimes they work. but sometimes they don't. i think it's a bad idea to meet the person in real life because even though they seem like the most NICEST person in the whole world they could totally turn around and do something to you. i don't think giving any information besides ur first name is a good idea either.....
twitchyfeets
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tWinKliEmE
hmm.. i think that internet relationships are okay only if u've met the person at least once ..so that you kno that they arent some weerf freak
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