Ok, I heard that a lot of people after prom "Do it."
Thinking to do it or not.

What do you think?
Have you done it after prom?

you're thinking of having sex after prom just because you heard that a lot of people do it after prom?

why don't you base whether or not to do it on whether or not you feel ready to have sex? having sex just because its prom night is the stupidest thing to do.

Eh heh.


Wasn't my prom...

I think it's cute if the couple has been dating for a long time, and they make it into a romantic fest. haha

It's not so bad to lose your virginity at prom to your high-school sweetheart. ^_^

Prom is overrated

Make sure you're ready to have sex... and just see how it goes.
And if you do it, don't regret it.

Truth.

I left prom early to jacuzzi with my lover. But we didn't sex ;D

Haha prom :)

We stayed the entire thing because we were in a group and we had taken a limo so we couldn't just leave early haha. We had a lot of fun though. They coulda picked some better songs, but a lot of them were good to dance to.

DON'T DO IT, idk it's a stupid reason.

No, I would't do it.

No I wouldn't do it thanks

Agreed.


Idk I might do it but what do I know im a freshman..

agreed.

i didnt go to prom with my bf. even if i did, i wouldnt have sex afterwards. what a stupid reason to do so. just because "it was prom".

Oh for Christs sake.

If you say, "I might" it means your not ready. I don't know why all these kids, and people, want to rush into having sex when oral can be just as kinky, just as long lasting, and helps you prepare yourself for sex by teaching you how to talk about your sexual needs and feelings.

If you suck at oral you suck at being creative.

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^ meh. it was a thought because I have a guy in mind.
Clarifying: I'm asking if anyone had done it after prom.

If you feel you're ready then sure, don't do it just cause many make it seem as a "tradition".

sounds good to me

no i havent =l, and im glad.

Rofl haha. way to end HS right? lol jk

prom is overrated

and i know people whos parents set up the prom night for their kids... yeah, err. they get the house prepared and everything for a little tumble love.... creepy.

Haha, oh my... that actually made me giggle reading that.

But I pretty much agree with Suzzette...if it happens and you are prepared, then sure but not just because its prom...

But to answer the question, nope, definitely did not do it after prom..

laughed out loud at that, haha.

well, frankly, no.
i haven't had sex after prom, and considering that i already graduated, don't think it's going to happen.
(went with guy friends both years anyway)

although, haha, after junior prom, a friend found a tube of "personal lubricant" in her car after driving my date & one of our other friends home...and...well...it turned out to be my date's. so who knows what he was thinking, haha.

i think it would have been kind of awkward though.
(both years)

anyway, after rambling, the point of this is:
don't do it just because it's prom...if you feel ready, that's one thing...but you don't want to do just because it's prom...you may regret it later.

Exactly. Don't do something you'll regret and because you hear that "other people do it after prom"

And, I haven't done it either, and I don't regret that.

Man I feel bad for the guy who's going with you. Acording to the posts being left this guy is getting nothing more than a hug/kiss goodbye.

DO HIM!
lol

I'd do it... if I were ready and loved him/have been wanting to for a while etc.
The occasion just makes it more special

I believe in getting Married first. Prom is just an opportunity given by school board to have fun and dance. Don't be so immature.

no..only if I thought he was the "one"
wow I sound like the movies

when i was in highschool. i was thinking of doing it with my bf after prom. we were both in love with each other, but i decided not to because i wanted to wait until we were both ready.

i dont see why not. but if you want to do it, make sure you think it over well and carefully. also make sure you wont regret it or anything like that...

Wait is it because I'm ugly. haha
Anyways hmm.. maybe it's him or not.
And I was "thinking" about it. Maybe I won't....

eh. yeah I agree with that but I was "thinking" about it. Plus I do believe in waiting until marriage and I just wanted to see "who has done it" since it's such a "tradition".

sorry double post

no. i did not have sex after prom (we stayed at his friend's house with a bunch of other people and it would be the most awkward thing ever)

and i'm fine with that


my advice to you is...if it's gotten to that point..and you have the opportunity..and you really want to...and you wont get pregnant...then it's your life. i always told myself i'd wait for marriage (because of religious reasons) but then i was like..you know what? sex is so taboo in this culture and i personally dont think that god has a problem with two people expressing love (not lust!) for each other. i dont agree with casual sex as like a sport with random guys...but just like if you get married to a guy and get a divorce..it's practically the same as dating a guy for a very long time and breaking up. the whole "marriage" deal is just ritual..it doesnt add any extra love to the situation...

I don't think I would do it after prom. Besides Prom usually ends late and get all bummed out at the end of the day, lolz. Unless they are super-active after the after-party or something and get laid (if they wanted to, but I wouldn't do it). I have a couple friends who think they gonna get laid before prom or highschool but I DOUBT they can do it. There dummies and think there the shyt.

Proms over and done for me...and I'm still a virgin
99% of the people that went to prom are still virgins so no its not true that people lose their virginities after prom.

After prom was um oceanside views kinda cute huh, too bad i didn't get to hit it hmph

DOINT DISAPPOINTTTTTTTTTT DA DATE

Dunno about the stat, but that sounds about right. Mostly the people f**king after prom have already f**ked before.

its too much of a cliche.


no, i would not do it.

Nah prom is overrated.

Sure why not..

I've never had sex after my proms. My boyfriend and I did get a little cozy last year, if you will, but no sex.

hahahaha I feel like I'm the only person... that's posting to say
I'm that 1%? I don't regret it, and I guess it's "Overrated"
but it wasn't the usual hotel/beach house thing it wass like 1000 better then the movies make it hahaaahaha.

So thats like a bajillion no's and one yes? lolol.
heeeeelllo cb. haven't been on you in a while <3

I didn't go to prom. I had a competition and couldn't go, but I initially wanted to go with my boyfriend and it turned out we couldn't go with people who aren't high school students. What bullshit. So I felt better about not going. If I went with him, we would've had sex after, but not just because of the whole myth. I don't think that's so popular in Canada anyway.

That's such a cliche lol.

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how daft are you?

er...i mean the people that went to my school's prom, not 99% of the people that ever went to a prom. Sorry I didn't make that clear. And fine it might not have been 99%, but the majority of the people that went to my school's prom didn't have sex. And I went to a small school where everybody knew what everybody was up to...so...might be different for big schools.

Ah, Good ol' Proms.

Sex. Well, I agree with the responses above. MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY.

A lot more emotions and ties come along with sex.

You are crossing over to another level once sex is involoved in a relationship.

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Id be too tired to bother trying.

I genuinely want to understand why you would regret it? If I could I'd do it with 2 or 3. Maybe I'm missing something, but if you're single and the girl is fine with it .... where does regret/mistake/ready come into it? Don't slate me though lol. On the other hand I am probably not going to go prom.

Prom is such a cliche. i mean if you feel the time is right then no one should tell you otherwise. just dont do it if you know you'll regret it :)