I apologize if this there were another topic like this. I didn't see one
Sex is suppose to be relationship builder. I view sex as a commitment to the other sex. Though for those of you who had involved sex in your relationships and do not mind sharing your input here, do you think it had a - effect on the relationship? Personally it hasnt been involved with intamcy in my relationships. ....curious about your all thoughts.

Well, It is different for everyone. Some people have sex once and then stop talk to eachother and then others they have sex once and then are together for the rest of their lives. You can only hope the best for what will come with your relationship. Things change people move on sometimes.. shit happends. For me, I never had vaginal sex before but when I do I hope that he will be the one who sticks around for years to come. We do do other stuff with eachother.. oral and such. We have been together for a Year and eight months. We are still in love with eachother and hope to be when we move on to bigger steps in our lives.

I'm not into booty calls.

Sex to me is not something that has to be saved for marriage, but it is an intimate act that I would rather share with someone I love.

I agree with this.
I would not care who I have sex with as long as I am in love with them and they love me back. Is that wrong?

^Not at all :)

Sex is foul and wrong. The penis will fall off and be forever stuck in the vagina.

Hahaha. i know, huh.

PRAISE THE LORD

Oh hallelujah!

What the...

Anyways, I think that sex should be something between two people who love each other, but I also don't see anything wrong with having sex with someone who you're not committed to (as long as you aren't a womanizer or manizer, hah.)

I think its something that should be done only when you are really far along in your relationship and you really think that he/she is the one your gonna be with for a long time.

Unlike a lot of people now a days, I am going to save myself for marriage. It's one of the few things I'm gonna be able to give the guy that would be the first time for me. Oral is just kinda disgusting for me cause it's like... why would you wanna shove your face down by something that smells that strongly and I'd gag on a guys penis... Anal is also disgusting to me cause it's like... what happens if I have poo up there and... *shudders* so yeah. Vaginal only for me and not till marriage. Sex should be something between two people who love each other and don't want to hurt the other. I hate when I hear about guys going out and buying like seventeen prostitutes in one night cause it's like, either find a girl, use your hand or go buy a butter nut squash and some bananas and make a fake vagina.

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this is what my mother told me:

if i have sex with a guy, he will leave me. she thinks that once i give my virginity to a guy, i will have nothing else to give. she thinks that once a guy get what he wants, he will leave.

this is what I think (or hope):

i will have sex with the person who i truly love and who loves me back for who i am. i hope that it will not affect our relationship negatively, but will help it be stronger.

^ Hahaha, my mom said the same thing. Bitter. It makes you feel like shit and just instills fear in you instead of help you in any way. But I don't agree with you on that. There isn't any absolute answer. He might leave you, he might not.

It would hurt me more to know that I had had sex with an ex and he still left, as I view it as the ultimate show of trust and I don't expect that trust to be broken.

But I also feel that without anything sexual your relationship won't last very long. Probably because romantic love only goes so far.

i will have sex with the person who i truly love and who loves me back for who i am. i hope that it will not affect our relationship negatively, but will help it be stronger.
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Agreed.

i guess its all based on the decisions you make, for instance the person you wanna lose ur virginity to. i agree with the previous posts =) ^

OMG, that was so visual

XD

And yeah I would much rather save it till marriage, or atleast until I have found someone I want to be with for the rest of my life. Idk, i might change my opinion someday.

^ whoa. that's scary...poo? i would never have anal sex either.

i think everybody has different opinions on things. and i'm glad u feel strongly about saving it for marriage. that would make it more special for your husband.

A guy's penis isn't smelly. Who's dick have you been smelling?

Not the penis being smelly. The vagina... it's just ick...

Hahaha xD

Juicy.

But honestly, the vagina shouldn't smell too strongly, if it does, something it probably wrong.

But yeah, it has a smell. Although most guys find that smell to be awesomesauce.

omg, I cant find my penis I think its in my girlfriend!!
trav

LOL... ewwwwwwwww. awesomesauce.

This topic is just too entertaining.

awesomesauce lol! ^^agree with above statement^^. Actually, Im a bit surprised to the many who are willing to abstain from sex either till marriage, or for the who truly genuinely loves her back! ahen.....unlike a some guys these days.

For me it's not so much of religious view, but because it what makes the individual pure and glamorous. It's the highest you can offer yourself to someone and the two connect at a level beyond physical connection. So, for me it's letting the other know that 1s committing to the other.

I quess your f**ked if this happends..

haha
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Dont forget the vagina trolls.

We can't for get the vagina trolls!?!