Paladin
Jun 21 2007, 02:49 AM
pretty self explanatory, which sort of relationship do you generally look for?
myself, i look for intimacy- but that usually scares the girl away so i try and start casual or even fling like
trulyandnever
Jun 21 2007, 03:13 AM
I'd like/look for a fairly intimate relationship. I beleive thats where my BF and I stand at the moment. Eventually, it'll get more personal and intimate. Very intimate would be... mm, intrusive in my opinion. Depending on whether you like your own personal space or not
and however long its been going on for...
MeanBastard
Jun 21 2007, 03:34 AM
By intimacy, do you mean physical intimacy? Or emotional intimacy?
Paladin
Jun 21 2007, 03:47 AM
this is what wikipedia had to say: "The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship, and within a given relationship. Intimacy has more to do with shared moments than sexual interactions..." it goes on to describe the two main forms of intimacy: emotional intimacy and physical intimacy
EmoEyelinerx
Jun 21 2007, 08:56 AM
Well I would want to be in an intimate relationship but it takes a while to get there. So you have to start out at like a casual relationship.
luxuriate
Jun 21 2007, 09:00 AM
Nothing like a nice abusive B-I-T-C-H who treats me like shit
XRosesXAreXBlackXX
Jun 22 2007, 08:31 AM
I think it depends on how much I like the person.I would never just have a "fling" with someone, but I also can't see myself having a really intimate relationship with anyone either (in the near future, anywa)
I guess I would say...fairly intimate.
KayleighKins
Jun 22 2007, 09:19 AM
very intimate
But I don't go for just any guy.
sweetest-emotion
Jun 22 2007, 11:29 AM
i definitely look for intimacy. that doesn't just mean sex and stuff, like holding hands, hugging and holding each other, that feeling that you can't live without the other. just the closeness and security the other brings.
Hedonism
Jun 22 2007, 06:54 PM
Casual. I don't need to feel committed to anything, partly b/c its boring and I dont wanna feel trapped. Don't really know if its a fear though. I just wanna be very very

very good friends with that person, but bot all lovey-dovey and the like.
SimplicityGirl
Jun 23 2007, 12:10 AM
Well I'd like it to be very intimate in the long road.
Right now me and my bf are at the fairly intimate stage
SinfullySweet
Jun 24 2007, 10:45 PM
Very intimate relationship. I actually like it better, because you can be yourself, express yourself, and be more open minded in a more intimate relationship
stephinika
Jun 24 2007, 11:20 PM
^^
Agreed, but it takes time to get to that level of intimacy in a relationship of course, but I do like it once it gets there. The road there is great too of course.
chibichi15
Jun 25 2007, 12:56 PM
Casual to fairly intimate. I want the close friendship to be part of my relationships.
jeSs1cA
Jun 25 2007, 01:45 PM
i like very intimate relationships. of course, i don't go straight for the very intimate kind of relationship though. of course, it starts out and it makes it's way there. i chose "very intimate" though, because thats what i want in relationships. i don't want something that's going to end so soon.
as yobaka3 said, i don't just go for 'any guy'.
freeflow
Jun 25 2007, 02:43 PM
Fairly to very intimate, but it takes time to get there so yea.
xhidethedetails
Jun 25 2007, 02:46 PM
It really depends who I'm going out, with what there like, stuff like that. But generally I like to have an intimate relationship.
Moderator
Jun 25 2007, 02:48 PM
I'm not looking for anything serious right now but I definately don't want a fling or something on the side. I would say fairly intimate.
S-Majere
Jan 29 2008, 09:34 AM
Very intimate.
JCLore
Jan 29 2008, 09:42 AM
i like imtimacy, privacy, and "Do Not Disturb" signs
PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL
Jan 29 2008, 09:49 AM
RAWWW rellattionnshipp!!
THAT-ONE-GIRL-143
Jan 30 2008, 01:28 PM
i wont deny that i went thru a casual//fling type period in my life. but where im at now..i want a very intimate, committed relationship. ive been in a 5 year and a 2 && a half year, then i went into my casual//fling stage, now im going on a year with someone..so yeah..
Melie
Feb 3 2008, 11:54 AM
i love a relationship that makes me happy
oh! there he is---->

lol
Reidar
Feb 5 2008, 01:54 AM
I hate all relationships. Luckily, I've never been in any.
sparrows
Feb 5 2008, 02:02 AM
atm, intensely intimate. my relationship started out pretty serious anyway though.
i don't fool around with relationships at all. i'm not willing to mess with someone's trust in me.
young enough to have fun, old enough to know better...
Markster
Feb 5 2008, 02:53 AM
Fairly intimate for me.
When it gets too intimate, it just .. I dunno, starts to get superficial and fall apart?
MissHygienic
Feb 18 2008, 05:48 PM
VERY, VERY INTIMATE.
SilentLaugh
Feb 19 2008, 08:20 PM
imo, casual.
always
illmortal
Feb 19 2008, 08:49 PM
Very intimate. I don't like wasting time on relationship if they cannot be intimate at all.
SnarphBlat
Jun 22 2008, 07:35 PM
Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :)
Reconditee
Jun 23 2008, 12:28 PM
QUOTE(SnarphBlat @ Jun 22 2008, 05:35 PM)

Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :)
^Agreed. Very intimate. :)
Joss-eh-lime
Jun 23 2008, 06:50 PM
casual (at least for a while) cuz i HATE when boys start that "i love you" crap after two days.
plus i'm kind of shy with people at first.
Alternate
Jul 2 2008, 01:46 AM
It depends a lot on whether it's physical or emotional intimacy. I'm guessing you mean emotional intimacy, so I'd like a very intimate relationship. That'll have to build up from a casual relationship, though.
Kristov
Jul 3 2008, 04:24 PM
All of the above.
thatonegirl143
Jul 5 2008, 02:40 PM
very intimate..well..yeahh..haha..
shenanigans
Jul 10 2008, 03:51 AM
Fairly intimate. When people start full on make out in front of you, it feels weird just looking in their direction.
DoubleJ
Jul 10 2008, 10:23 AM
I am not too sure in what I want. I mean if this one girl wanted to be with me, I would drop everything for her, but I would just mess around with other girls. Weird eh?
9001
Jul 13 2008, 01:48 AM
Very intimate. Whats the point of going halfway?
mizzkewl06
Jul 15 2008, 11:25 AM
very very intimate and definately long term. no use in wasting time or playing kiddie games.
AnnahhbeL
Jul 22 2008, 04:09 AM
Casual..I can never seem to stay with a guy for too long.
I get bored easily...and besides, I'm still young and have my whole life ahead of me. It's not fun to be committed to someone so early in life...I want to live my life and basically party, haha.
xoxo_proud
Aug 17 2008, 09:46 PM
Right now it's casual/fling. I'm still in highschool so I don't need a serious relationship at the moment. Plus I plan on going to college that's fairly far away so I'm not dealing with the long-distance thing. I'll focus on serious relationships when I'm in college.
Insurmountable
Aug 17 2008, 11:06 PM
Intimate, very much so.
towntown2
Aug 19 2008, 03:39 PM
I picked fairly intimate.
At 16, I don't really want something that is extremely intimate.
Gryffindor-Girl
Aug 25 2008, 11:15 AM
QUOTE(Reconditee @ Jun 23 2008, 01:28 PM)

QUOTE(SnarphBlat @ Jun 22 2008, 08:35 PM)

Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :)
^Agreed. Very intimate. :)Double agree!
MissFits
Aug 26 2008, 05:22 AM
When I was younger I wanted boys just as friends, I'd date the ones I thought were cute. I could never just 'mess around', I didn't even kiss most of them.
Once I got older I wanted a little more intimacy, but still not too serious.
Then I met my boyfriend. I tried to take it slow, but he swept me off my feet.
xxstarpower
Sep 4 2008, 06:51 PM
Anything but serious.
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