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Paladin
pretty self explanatory, which sort of relationship do you generally look for?

myself, i look for intimacy- but that usually scares the girl away so i try and start casual or even fling like
trulyandnever
I'd like/look for a fairly intimate relationship. I beleive thats where my BF and I stand at the moment. Eventually, it'll get more personal and intimate. Very intimate would be... mm, intrusive in my opinion. Depending on whether you like your own personal space or not shrug.gif and however long its been going on for...
MeanBastard
By intimacy, do you mean physical intimacy? Or emotional intimacy?
Paladin
this is what wikipedia had to say: "The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship, and within a given relationship. Intimacy has more to do with shared moments than sexual interactions..." it goes on to describe the two main forms of intimacy: emotional intimacy and physical intimacy
EmoEyelinerx
Well I would want to be in an intimate relationship but it takes a while to get there. So you have to start out at like a casual relationship.
luxuriate
Nothing like a nice abusive B-I-T-C-H who treats me like shit
XRosesXAreXBlackXX
I think it depends on how much I like the person.I would never just have a "fling" with someone, but I also can't see myself having a really intimate relationship with anyone either (in the near future, anywa)
I guess I would say...fairly intimate.
KayleighKins
very intimate

But I don't go for just any guy.
sweetest-emotion
i definitely look for intimacy. that doesn't just mean sex and stuff, like holding hands, hugging and holding each other, that feeling that you can't live without the other. just the closeness and security the other brings.
Hedonism
Casual. I don't need to feel committed to anything, partly b/c its boring and I dont wanna feel trapped. Don't really know if its a fear though. I just wanna be very very console.gif very good friends with that person, but bot all lovey-dovey and the like.
SimplicityGirl
Well I'd like it to be very intimate in the long road.
Right now me and my bf are at the fairly intimate stage
SinfullySweet
Very intimate relationship. I actually like it better, because you can be yourself, express yourself, and be more open minded in a more intimate relationship rolleyes.gif
stephinika
^^
Agreed, but it takes time to get to that level of intimacy in a relationship of course, but I do like it once it gets there. The road there is great too of course.
chibichi15
Casual to fairly intimate. I want the close friendship to be part of my relationships.
jeSs1cA
i like very intimate relationships. of course, i don't go straight for the very intimate kind of relationship though. of course, it starts out and it makes it's way there. i chose "very intimate" though, because thats what i want in relationships. i don't want something that's going to end so soon.

as yobaka3 said, i don't just go for 'any guy'.
freeflow
Fairly to very intimate, but it takes time to get there so yea.
xhidethedetails
It really depends who I'm going out, with what there like, stuff like that. But generally I like to have an intimate relationship.
Moderator
I'm not looking for anything serious right now but I definately don't want a fling or something on the side. I would say fairly intimate.
S-Majere
Very intimate.
JCLore
i like imtimacy, privacy, and "Do Not Disturb" signs biggrin.gif
PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL
RAWWW rellattionnshipp!!
THAT-ONE-GIRL-143
i wont deny that i went thru a casual//fling type period in my life. but where im at now..i want a very intimate, committed relationship. ive been in a 5 year and a 2 && a half year, then i went into my casual//fling stage, now im going on a year with someone..so yeah..
Melie
i love a relationship that makes me happy

oh! there he is----> lol
Reidar
I hate all relationships. Luckily, I've never been in any.
sparrows
atm, intensely intimate. my relationship started out pretty serious anyway though.

i don't fool around with relationships at all. i'm not willing to mess with someone's trust in me.

young enough to have fun, old enough to know better...
Markster
Fairly intimate for me.

When it gets too intimate, it just .. I dunno, starts to get superficial and fall apart?
MissHygienic
VERY, VERY INTIMATE.
SilentLaugh
imo, casual.
always
illmortal
Very intimate. I don't like wasting time on relationship if they cannot be intimate at all.
SnarphBlat
Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :)
Reconditee
QUOTE(SnarphBlat @ Jun 22 2008, 05:35 PM) *
Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :)


^Agreed. Very intimate. :)
Joss-eh-lime
casual (at least for a while) cuz i HATE when boys start that "i love you" crap after two days.

plus i'm kind of shy with people at first.
Alternate
It depends a lot on whether it's physical or emotional intimacy. I'm guessing you mean emotional intimacy, so I'd like a very intimate relationship. That'll have to build up from a casual relationship, though.
Kristov
All of the above.
thatonegirl143
very intimate..well..yeahh..haha..
shenanigans
Fairly intimate. When people start full on make out in front of you, it feels weird just looking in their direction.
DoubleJ
I am not too sure in what I want. I mean if this one girl wanted to be with me, I would drop everything for her, but I would just mess around with other girls. Weird eh?
9001
Very intimate. Whats the point of going halfway?
mizzkewl06
very very intimate and definately long term. no use in wasting time or playing kiddie games.
AnnahhbeL

Casual..I can never seem to stay with a guy for too long.
I get bored easily...and besides, I'm still young and have my whole life ahead of me. It's not fun to be committed to someone so early in life...I want to live my life and basically party, haha. eyebrowes.gif ph34r.gif
xoxo_proud
Right now it's casual/fling. I'm still in highschool so I don't need a serious relationship at the moment. Plus I plan on going to college that's fairly far away so I'm not dealing with the long-distance thing. I'll focus on serious relationships when I'm in college.
Insurmountable
Intimate, very much so.
towntown2
I picked fairly intimate.
At 16, I don't really want something that is extremely intimate.
Gryffindor-Girl
QUOTE(Reconditee @ Jun 23 2008, 01:28 PM) *
QUOTE(SnarphBlat @ Jun 22 2008, 08:35 PM) *

Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :)


^Agreed. Very intimate. :)

Double agree!
MissFits
When I was younger I wanted boys just as friends, I'd date the ones I thought were cute. I could never just 'mess around', I didn't even kiss most of them.

Once I got older I wanted a little more intimacy, but still not too serious.

Then I met my boyfriend. I tried to take it slow, but he swept me off my feet.
xxstarpower
Anything but serious.
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