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JoanOfArc
I don't really know how to get into detail about this. But do you have a best friend that is both the person you can tell everyone to, yet they can be your worst enemy too?
EmoEyelinerx
Yea I do her names Bell.. not really but thats what her nickname is. I tell evertyhing to her and she will tell everyone what I said. I dont really know why im frineds with her at times but most of the time shes pretty cool.
HelloSunshine
She used to be like "my worst enemy" and best friend at the same time but, we've become so close that I can see that she's really changed. Like, what I used to take as backstabbing as just become like a joke between her and our other best friend.

There were two times when we fought about the way we acted and, you'd think it'd tear us apart but it made the three of us all closer.
trulyandnever
I used to have a friend very much like that... enemy yet, bestfriend.
Couldnt really stand the bitch side of her, so I kinda 'dumped' her, last year ermm.gif

I'm no bitch sad.gif she seriously deserved it pinch.gif
marzipan
haha yeah.
We help each other out and care about each other, but it's like we both have this hidden motive to be better than the other. pinch.gif We both get good grades and are sort of competitive about that type of thing.
sprezzatura
I think usually bf/gf are worst enemies. Those conflicts just make people to become closer. laugh.gif

My best friend and I aren't like that, we tease each other a lot but we don't treat each other like enemies.
ubeonmymind
kinda. like i have a bestfriend which i can tell everything too but yet i still git hella annoyed of her.
RyanWasHere
Your best friend could be your worst enemy in the sense that they have the most secret information you might not want everyone to know about you, but my best friend would never say anything about me even if we hated each other...because he knows I would kick his ass...lol
me1issaaaa
Well, if they know your deepest darkest secrets and something turns ugly, then... of course they would be. I don't see how my best friend could ever do anything like that, though. We've never fought or ANYTHING. I love her to death. She's just not the "cruel" type. If information slipped out, then, yeah. I'd be dead. Buuuuut I'm hoping we won't ever have to go through that.
cupcakex
This reminds me of that lifetime movie, Odd Girl Out. &She should've punched all those ho's in the face.

When I was a freshman, my best friend &I went through that stage. We're over it now, I guess we've matured past it.
KayleighKins
Naw, my best friend is a guy, which means I don't have to deal with stupid drama.

My last best friend was a girl though and she turned into my worst enemy.

Ehh theres a poem about it in writing.
voguelove
QUOTE(XxSugarKisses_TeddyHugsxX @ Jun 9 2007, 01:38 PM) *
Yea I do her names Bell.. not really but thats what her nickname is. I tell evertyhing to her and she will tell everyone what I said. I dont really know why im frineds with her at times but most of the time shes pretty cool.

thats how i feel, too!

i hate when we're comparing tests and stuff. its annoying. shes always wanting to do better than me.
EmoEyelinerx
QUOTE(voguelove @ Jun 10 2007, 09:46 AM) *

i hate when we're comparing tests and stuff. its annoying. shes always wanting to do better than me.


Yeah same here. Then, if she does do better she will like brag about it all day its sooo anoying.
xhidethedetails
Yeah my one friend. One day she loves me the next shes talking crap about me. shrug.gif
redpeony
No, my best friend is my best friend.


My boyfriend on the other hand... haha
stephinika
Not at the moment, but its happened a few times in the past to say the least.
Chicago
i wouldn't consider an enemy my best friend
MyMichelle
Of course x_x

Because best friends can stab you in your back and make it hurt, too.
Chanfleh
Well yeah. He's great but he's done some screwed up things to me in the past. I let it go, cause he's really the only person I can trust with secrets. There's still drama in the friendship though regardless he's a guy.
fagget
No, if they were my worst enemy, they wouldn't be my best friend?
MrStrife
I think in reality they are both one in the same.
popoberry
well that saying is kindaish true but i'm never enemies with my bestie.
pic
I believe that is true for anybody. You're best friend is the one who knows most about you and, if they wanted to, could hurt you the most.
My best friend and I, we've gotten into fights big and small and he has definitely screwed up but not with bad intentions. He knows everything about me and we are able to talk out anything. I can trust him with anything and everything. Being able to trust someone so much is wonderful but at he same time could have devestating consequences if there was a fall out.
imnoxonesmemory
yes definately. we've been friends for about 5 years now. we've dated twice. and he's best friend and an enemy lol
lovescream
yea we're like best friends since childhood. but at times she just bugs the f**k out of me and leaves me out of her convos and shit but then like a day later we're all good lol
lovescream
yea we're like best friends since childhood. but at times she just bugs the f**k out of me and leaves me out of her convos and shit but then like a day later we're all good lol

omg @ internet lag mellow.gif
lorrytruck;
yeah, but i guess only because we are very similar people: competitive, fun-loving, wannabe-badass AND we always check out the exact same guys. It's like we're synced or something; I guess that's kind of the base/ start of problems and also compatible friendship at the same time. Haha. I'm so contradictory, I dunno. Either you understand or you don't =)
Trinie
no my bestfriend isnt like that at all! he's awesome and i love my zeddie!!!!!!! :)
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