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lpmatt618
Ok, so here I am a guy.

I have got in a relationship with a girl I care very strongly for. Yet, I have never kissed a girl before. The most I have ever done with a girl is hug one.

So are their any tips on kissing/making out? I really need help with this....I know my first time wont be right but I just dont want it to be horrible.

matt
TBoltzbabe
just do it... and remember the lips are much more important than the tongue


and try to keep saliva to a minimum
XxKrNqTcUiTyxX
just do what comes naturally happy.gif yu'll learn with practice shifty.gif
simplysweet259
whatever you do, don't bite her! =P
TBoltzbabe
QUOTE(simplysweet259 @ Jun 14 2004, 12:06 AM)
whatever you do, don't bite her! =P

no, light biting is actually pretty damn hot if it's like on the lower lip
LilBrunette0313
Don't think about doing it before you actually do or you'll get all nervous and mess up, oh and whatever you do if y'all french kiss don't slobber (big turn off)
BurstinStarzz
QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Jun 14 2004, 12:08 AM)
no, light biting is actually pretty damn hot if it's like on the lower lip

haha yeah.....light biting is SEXY for a more experienced kisser...just start out lightly...just do what comes natural!! and try to do use tounge on the first kiss...save that for later
pimpin231
QUOTE(lpmatt618 @ Jun 13 2004, 11:52 PM)
Ok, so here I am a guy.

I have got in a relationship with a girl I care very strongly for. Yet, I have never kissed a girl before. The most I have ever done with a girl is hug one.

So are their any tips on kissing/making out? I really need help with this....I know my first time wont be right but I just dont want it to be horrible.

matt

dog dont worried just go with the flow........
177emories
QUOTE(pimpin231 @ Jun 14 2004, 2:11 AM)
dog dont worried just go with the flow........

yeah thats what i was gonna say... go with the FLOW...
soulovely
awww i remember *someone* telling me that he has never had a kiss before. he told me he wanted me to be his first... and asked me how. lol it was funny and yet sweet at the same time. he's one of those shy guys... don't worry guys we went out... i don't kiss just anyone ya know... _smile.gif
islandkiss
well, your first kiss is the most important b/c it's one of the most vivid memories that you'll ever have. Besides the fact that I had gotten my first kiss in.. febuary.. with my ex. I remember everything.
killmewith_love
just do what comes naturally. don't attack her at first, just stat kissing &then gradually open your mouth. use tongue if you feel comfortable enough. don't suffocate her with it though. keep slobber to a minimum, &dont have your lips all wet when you start. don't go on forever, either, because you will both need to breath. you can breath while you are kissing, through your nose only. DO NOT breath out through your mouth when you are making out, it is soooooooo weird for the girl. lol.

&&&good luck!
SupraS15
go watch a chick flick... hahaha tongue.gif

but yeah... just wait for the right moment to do it... then just go for it ;) and start off slow... dont just go slober mania all of a sudden. haha... good luck!
eboarder2020
hey bud,

I was once in your shoes and like I was really nervous about kissing and making out... I dont really have advice to make it any better, but all I can say is to not go for everything all at once... Go slow, then go fast, do different things. Make your kiss like a rollercoaster, High lows, and mediums. Also one big tip that might help you... Kiss the girl as if it were your last kiss... Kiss her like you love her, and kiss her with meaning and emotion... Good Luck buddy
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
it's a natural thing .. take your time -- dont rush, close your eyes, be soft and sensual =]
inn0centmarianne
remember, dont breathe with your mouth,breathe with your NOSE, and BRUSH YOUR teeth, the both of you should, dont want to be kissing something that smells like a dump truck now do u? well, just put some chapstick on, so the lips arent dry, feels nice when lips are a little moist happy.gif
ichiban
Hahahha .. making out feels a bit .. freaky to me ..

But then I'm only 12. _smile.gif
mglbaby
close ur eyes, juss start of kissin lil pecks on her lips then if u feel comfortable tongue n juzz go w/ da flow keke it isnt dat hard. happy.gif make sure ur breath isnt bad lolz good luck
infubilu
1) don't breathe in her face
2) yeah, lips ARE more important to tongue
3) make sure your lips are nice and relaxed
4) if you need to clean the spit off your face...(this might sound gross but it's slick, trust me) just take a break and start kissing her cheek, her neck, her shoulder. shhhhhhh!!!! but you get the spit off without letting her know that YOU'RE WIPING IT ON HER!!! biggrin.gif
WildGriffin
Don't get a boner.

...yet. shifty.gif

**contributing shitty comments to the CB community for a couple weeks strong now. happy.gif
Tjlynn
oh just sit back and relax cool.gif , LoL, i've kissed a guy and im like 12 years old. at school we play truth or dare. The teachers don't really care what the hell we do, so we play, and they kiss each other and do other stuff whistling.gif, and my best friend, bit a guy when kissing, she didn't feel bad bc she had nvr don't it before, if it screws up just whisper 'sry'!!


hope this helpz!!
Tjlynn
oh just sit back and relax cool.gif , LoL, i've kissed a guy and im like 12 years old. at school we play truth or dare. The teachers don't really care what the hell we do, so we play, and they kiss each other and do other stuff whistling.gif, and my best friend, bit a guy when kissing, she didn't feel bad bc she had nvr don't it before, if it screws up just whisper 'sry'!!


hope this helpz!!
gasolinekisses
QUOTE(WildGriffin @ Jun 15 2004, 3:30 AM)
Don't get a boner.

...yet.

haha yeah... not unless you're really hot and heavy because otherwise she's gonna be like um... whoa up hoss.
mai_z
don't slobber, and just go with the flow....don't kiss the girl till the time is right, and the mood is rite...first kiss is a bad thing to waste
I_feel_beautiful
theres no wrong way to kiss. well there is but as long as youre not sticking your tongue down her throat and youre not slobbering like a dog then you should do fine.

p.s: i love your name. all matts are hot biggrin.gif shifty.gif
mistahpho
umm eat like chewing gum like freshmint before that : and yea,cuz girls will like it when they're kissing u _smile.gif
tWinKliEmE
uhm.. just let it happen. close ur eyes.. make the move _smile.gif
MiszAmy04
yea like everyone is sayin..and just do it your way..just put ur tongue into action..lol i ono..but it'll end up feelin good
babixangela
Kissing is easy. Just tilt your head a little and give a peck of her lips. Making out is not really as hard as it seems. Just tilt your head, open your mouth, stick out your tongue and move it all around. tongue.gif Make sure she's okay with that first though. wink.gif
Longhorn
QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ Jun 14 2004, 12:02 AM)
just do what comes naturally happy.gif yu'll learn with practice shifty.gif

yeah. it comes natural for most ppl! but you can practice on you pillow tongue.gif jk...my first kiss was interesting because we both did not know what we were doing...it was rather funny. but...anywho...just do not worry about the tounge on your first kiss!!
phatty
practice makes perfect. every couple has their own way of kissing
Mini
okay here are the tips man.

when your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against her lips. tilt your head slightly to one side, so your noses won't get in the way. next when your in her mouth, dont use too much tongue. dont drool. use your lips. if it is a short kiss, move away. don't move away all of a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss! just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in her eyes.

MAKE SURE YOU DONT HAVE BAD BREATH!

guys dont usually practice kissing, but if its very important..use your hands. shifty.gif
sandra
take it slowly, start with a kiss on the cheek and gradually move on to a peck on the lips. remember to close ur eyes cuz its rude to kiss someone with their eyes open. hahaha after the peck, u can start kissing her for a lil longer than move on to a french. hmmm i hope this helps pinch.gif
d3v1l1ci0us
QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Jun 14 2004, 12:08 AM)
no, light biting is actually pretty damn hot if it's like on the lower lip

KINKY laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif
goodgurl312005
if she feels just ass strongly for you then i think the kiss wont matter...but remember when it does happen dont think about it just let it happen and hopefully it will all turn out good
Darkpekkle
dont let ur lips overlap hers... otherwise you'll leave more-than-wanted spit on her. hehe.
but no worries, just do what you feel. it'll come naturally, and dont worry so much about messing up. you'll get better overtime. happy.gif
faithin_felix
hmm, interesting...i had my kiss on the 12th day. or was it 11th...yea, well you'll get it soon, kissed on cheek before?
litoazndragon
QUOTE(lpmatt618 @ Jun 13 2004, 11:52 PM)
Ok, so here I am a guy.

I have got in a relationship with a girl I care very strongly for. Yet, I have never kissed a girl before. The most I have ever done with a girl is hug one.

So are their any tips on kissing/making out? I really need help with this....I know my first time wont be right but I just dont want it to be horrible.

matt

??..dude there are no tips to kissin..its like ur fingerprint..ur "physical" way of sayin "I Love You Baby"
ATLla0bo1
UmMm.....2 werdzz...Tic-Tac pinch.gif
blowpops69
dont go over board with tongue action.....

hehe i remember my first kiss.... biggrin.gif
pm3k
becareful of the use of the tongue...

it's disgusting if u have so much saliva drooping around... ignore all those animes kissing and then having to see a bridge of saliva still attached b/t the 2 lips..

i'd suggest u watch the Spiderman 2 movie when MJ kisses the space guy... the space guy on the couch and MJ kissing from above... but dont' wait for a scene in real life to happen lol.. kiss like them, except.. u both are standing or somethin...

if she's like... waiting for you and she's lying on the couch, it MAY be a signal for u to do something biggrin.gif ... choose ur decisions wisely young one tongue.gif

AND HELL YEAH use your hands tongue.gif .. obviously, you just don't want ur hands dangling around.. wrap your arms around her body.. or... do something that will get her erotically charged aka horny? wink.gif

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btw.. MINI!!! you're giving other people advices... and yet YOU STILL HAVEN'T KISSED? You liar happy.gif
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