ok so i like this guy,he likes me.


he's told me before that he's bragged to his cousin saying
'future girlfriend' and telling me 'im all his'..and even told me after last friday at a dance he'd ask me to be his girlfriend.
he didn't.

so tuesday night,
i told him..on aim.
conversation:
him: well i need to go to bed bye dear
me: wait
him: what
me: i need to tell you soemthin
him: go on
me: i know this is random but lately your always in my mind, and all i think about && I like you so much i'm just so scared of getting hurt but i wanna be with you...&& i don't know how you feel exactly, but from what i know from you, you do like me, but are you ever going to do something about it?..i cant just be your friend.
him: do somthing about what
him: ino im just rele confused now
him: .....?
him: i defentely think i like u
me: confused about?
him: ino
him: my life is confusing
me: well if u like me and i like u then there should be no confusion
him: yeah.....
me: so whats running through your mind?
him: alot of things
him like whatever
him: ewll talk thursday
him: bye
him: i HAVE TO GO
me: ok
him: mommy says so
me: okkbye.

well we'd been planning for a while [about 2 weeks] to go to the movies thursday.
which is were he got 'we'll talk thursday' from.
so thursday came,
he ended up coming to the movies.

well i let him put his hand up my skirt,and then i layed on him for a while&& we held hands && he'd lay his head on mine && put his arm around me&& everything. and then we made out.. and then held hands again and id kiss his hands..and then like 10 minutes later we made out again.. and thenn he put his hand down my shirt..and then we just held hands..and as i was laying on him, i heard his heart beating really fast,and i thought it was cute=]

so after the movie i was like yayyy
he must of likedd it considering he wanted to make out again.
and i was hoping he would ask me to be his girlfriend now,
after all that..

which now i feel REALLY REALLY stupid that i did all of that,forgetting that we werent even dating..andd im scared he's using me or something..
because he didn't call me later that night..and then lastnight i called him but he was watching somethin and said he'd call me back,which he did call me back but then like 3 minutes laterr he said he was gonna go because his mom was comin in there...

nd then he was on aim for like 5minutes and didnt say hey either..

i feel so stupid&&im scared he used me for that..
and made me believe he was gonna ask me out just so that i'd do that with him.
i feel stupid.
stupid.
stupid.
and i dont know what to do.
because we never talked about that.
and he hasnt given me a sign of asking me out
idk if its because of summer or what.
please help me
i like him a lot.

ask him what`s holding him back from dating you, since it seems like you`re going out already by the things you`re doing..

It seems like he is using you... Hmmm, he's playing you and using you for pleasure.

yeah. i definatly think he is trying to use you. i think you shouldnt waste your time with him. theres lots of other guys that are waay better.

i know you like him, but you don't need a guy that will use you.

Throw some Ds on that bitch.

Yeah...sorry, but I think he's using you.
He's either playing you, or he doesn't have the balls to ask you out.
Probably the first one.
Try to move on. I know you like him, but you don't need a guy who's not going to take you seriously.

i'm going to have to agree with everyone else. this has happened to me...8 times. yea. and everytime i think the next guy is gonna be different. you can find someone that won't use you hun! i know u like him a lot, i liked them to, but you have to be strong ok. :]

Sounds like hes using you. Sorry . If you dont believe that hes using you try asking him whats holding him back from asking you out. It seems that everytime you try to ask him something he changes the subject or says he has to go so thats a MAJOR alarm bell.

Sad to say , he's using you sweetie . Find another guy that will treat you the same way as you treat him , the Golden rule.