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heyyfrankie
it'd be like when you're eating something, and someone asks for a bite and i'm like No.

bite?




Bite?














BITE?!


omfg...EFFING NO! wacko.gif

uh, that was my analogy for the day. XD.gif
KayleighKins
Bone?







Bone?









PLEASE BONE?!
SinfullySweet
Bone?er?
Bone?er?
PLEASE BONE ME?!




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Mini
Shit, I'm gay and I have more friends than I could possibly imagine. tongue.gif

Though, honestly, I feel uncomfortable hanging out with straight guys because sometimes they're just idiots and I want to punch them in their effing faces.

Let me address some myths:

1) I WILL NOT HIT ON YOU. Okay, first of all, you're probably too ugly. Secondly, you probably have a brain of a fly. Finally, I hit on guys who like other guys thank you very much. stubborn.gif

2) Not all gay guys are flamboyant fruit cakes. Some act as normal as straight guys if not "straighter" to prove that they're not pussies.

3) I don't get why straight guys think that they have to work so hard to talk to us. Seriously, you can talk about girls to me. Although I would never bang a girl, I can still say if they're ugly as shit or not, etc. etc.

4) Homophobes, go suck a goat. biggrin.gif

That's all I can think of right now. Kthxbi.

PS: And what the f**k?

What's with gay guys hitting on straight guys these days?

QUOTE
all you'd have to say it "no".

then if they keep doing, than that's just rude.


If they keep doing it, then they're effing desperate and need to get a life.
S-Majere
Had one. Disaster.
SinfullySweet
QUOTE(ThomasC @ Jul 11 2007, 02:13 PM) *
yobaka3, SinfullySweet.

I have no idea what your posts have to do with having a gay best friend laugh.gif


LOL. Okayyy Thomas. I have handled having gay friends. Its nothing new. Some of my best friends are. And Mini is right, alot of people should throw away their stereotypical ideas that all gays are fruitcaked trannys. Its not true at all. Most of the gays I know act, look, talk, and react the same as straight boys.
heyyfrankie
i just get annoyed when girls want to be my best friend based soley on the fact that i'm gay.
like we're all just one-demensional. stubborn.gif
HTMLrulesdood
i think it shouldnt matter
let people live the way they want to live
and not having to have other people run
your life for you
xKatt
I agree with Mini (I'm not gay, but everything else).

I hate how people act as if gay people are a species and not actual people. Just because they're gay doesn't mean that they like you. It makes no sense at all to me when people think that.

So yes, I could handle a gay best friend. Afterall, they'd be my best friend, so what would it matter if they were gay?
Sandraaa
I'm pretty sure that the majority of those who are saying 'yes' can't handle it finally. My friends are like that too ... 'oh, I could so handle it, it's just their orientation' but when they come accross homosexuals, they're like 'eww, nasty people'.

Being that I'm bisexual, it isn't a problem, plus my brother is gay.
Mini
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Jul 14 2007, 07:08 PM) *
Had one. Disaster.


I can be your new gay best friend. biggrin.gif

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i just get annoyed when girls want to be my best friend based soley on the fact that i'm gay.
like we're all just one-demensional. stubborn.gif


Haha, that's weird. I never had that happen to me. laugh.gif
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 19 2007, 05:53 PM) *
Haha, that's weird. I never had that happen to me. laugh.gif

it's cuz they all think that i'm gonna tell them when they're hair looks good or bad. Or that i'm going to go shopping with them...

and i'm like, i only care about my own hair. And i only like shopping for myself...by myself. devil.gif
iGio
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 19 2007, 06:53 PM) *
I can be your new gay best friend. biggrin.gif


^:O be mine xP.

Anyway,I'm bi.My close friends know it.They love me.So yeah I can handle having one.Just don't hit on me. . . especially in front of my mom or dad. . . they will shoot you and bury you in front of train tracks and watch you get run over O.O
Mini
QUOTE(Frankie @ Jul 20 2007, 01:02 AM) *
it's cuz they all think that i'm gonna tell them when they're hair looks good or bad. Or that i'm going to go shopping with them...

and i'm like, i only care about my own hair. And i only like shopping for myself...by myself. devil.gif


Haha. You're selfish!

But no, the reason no one does that to me is because I'm really mean towards a lot of people (not cruelly but jokingly). So most of them are too intimidated unless they genuinely like me.

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ust don't hit on me. . . especially in front of my mom or dad. . . they will shoot you and bury you in front of train tracks and watch you get run over O.O


Obviously people would know better seeing how most parents are ultra traditional and conservative.



swishersweet
if he wasn't didn't look at me in that gay way than yeah.
DarkImpressions
I would be totally Ok with it!
I mean,You were their friend before,So I mean as long as they are the same person I wouldnt have a problem with that!
Crash2
It shouldn't be a problem. They are the same person, and you wouldn't be much of a friend if you stopped liking them for that reason.

I wouldn't have a problem with it.
YaGurlSukedMe2SLeep
QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Jul 8 2007, 08:14 PM) *
PLEASE BONE ME?!
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Tsk tsk, this isn't the first time you asked.
VaeVictis

I'd be fine with it.

Just because someone is gay, it doesn't mean that they're going to hit on me.

And if they do, just tell them you don't swing that way.

But people seem to think that just because someone is gay and you're a guy, that said gay person is immediately going to lust after you like a fly on some very seductive manure. (Futurama FTW)

So I'd have no problem with it. It wouldn't be fair to reject them, it's not their 'fault' that they're gay.
YaGurlSukedMe2SLeep
Yes
IVIike
QUOTE(Ma Ass is WOW @ May 28 2007, 09:44 PM) *
Gay guys are pretty good wingmen.


yeah they are laugh.gif
jue
I probably can. I wouldn't mind. I know one or two gay people and they're pretty cool to be around with.
omgomgKATHY
I think i could handle it.
georgusgal
i actually have a gay best friend
so it dosent bother me i mean they r
still human after all biggrin.gif
i jus get sick of people who protest against them
i dont see whats wrong wif it ?
they have rights jus like the rest of us
Click to view attachment i dont see notin wrong wif tat
but each 2 there own i suppose
TaintedSakura
im not a guy but yes. I hate when people say "lyke omg they will like me! ewwww" um no okay? lol thats just dumb
pedophile
My best friend is bi ^-^
goth-emo-boy
yeah. i have a lot of gay relatives, so i find it's not a big deal. i mean, unless the person tried anything on me. i wouldn't mind if a guy had a crush on me, thats flattering but still pretty weird, but if he tried anything, i'd be pretty freaked out.
CowerPointyObjects
Assumedly, if you were best friends with a person in the first place, you must have had things in common. Just because someone comes out it doesn't mean that goes away. Why should that change? What is there to handle?
ChadDevil
yes i could because i am gay and a lot of people are best friends with me so i dont think its a hard thing to do.
Joshieboi
I have a friend JOEY and he is totally gay i am cool with it and i tease him and stuff he is a good friend
toxicity584
I have one friend who is gay but most of my friends that are girls, are usually lesbians or bi. I don't know what it is but I seem to attract alot of bi girls.
livwho
One of my best female friends is Bi. I don't have a problem with it.
sheridan_whiteside
I bet my gay friend wants me to 'handle' him.
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Prophet
No.
weed
Its a lifestyle.
It wouldnt alter our friendship or anything like that.

Yea, it would be a shocker but its just not one of those things i'd freakout at all about.

_smile.gif id probably go to the extent of poking fun at it. i loove it. XD.gif
illriginal
Nope... cuz I'm ignorant and hateful like that. Though I'll admit I do have a couple female friends that are lesbians which are married with a 12 year old boy.

They're cool people, but they take everything so personal when it comes to opinions on gays. Hell even if one of us say, "that is so GAY!" one of them... at least one of them has to say something and ruin our fun =\

Damn gays... you're no fun!
Eww
I'm a girl, so it might be different from le guys, but I would love having a gay friend. They could like tell me what goes on in the locker room C:
membrthetimewthewhipcream
QUOTE(TheFegNut @ Mar 19 2008, 04:42 PM) *
I'm a girl, so it might be different from le guys, but I would love having a gay friend. They could like tell me what goes on in the locker room C:


lmaoo nice.
illriginal
QUOTE(TheFegNut @ Mar 19 2008, 05:42 PM) *
I'm a girl, so it might be different from le guys, but I would love having a gay friend. They could like tell me what goes on in the locker room C:


Nothin happens in the locker room. It's where people change in and out of clothes. And back when I was in highschool, non of the guys took showers in the locker room, we were all strongly homophobic and we'll still be :P
Eww
^
How disappointing ):
shoryuken
QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 19 2008, 05:35 PM) *
Nothin happens in the locker room. It's where people change in and out of clothes. And back when I was in highschool, non of the guys took showers in the locker room, we were all strongly homophobic and we'll still be :P

you dont look homophobic tama.. why that..?
emberfly
no
DoubleJ
I have decided that after all of this, I couldn't handle having a queen for a best friend. I mean if somebody is gay, then it is cool you know....to each his own. HOWEVA (Screaming A Voice), I couldn't handle having one of the queens around. Leave that shit at home playboy.
eeonz
Of course i could handle having a gay friend. I can't see how it would alter our friendship in the slightest.
misoshiru
one of my former best friends is gay. we drifted apart after college since we go to colleges on the different coasts. he's an amazing guy though.


and a lot of my friends are lesbians. they're wonderful and sexuality does not define friendship
Chicago
i have nothing againts gay people, but if i had a male friend that was gay i'd honestly try to keep my distance because you never know what they're going to pull.. zipped.gif
PinkDinosaur
im a girl and i always wanted a gay best friend happy.gif knowing that you can do anything and they wouldnt take advantage of you. i myself have had realy bad experiances with boys using me so a gay friend would be cool cos girls can sometimes be realy bitchy! to

hopefully my best (boy mate) turnes into a gay
lol laugh.gif
gayboydalton14
yes, I could. And if you can't read my username, than you wouldn't know that I AM GAY!!! And proud of it! Ya! So if I had a gay friend, than they would most likely be my boyfriend:) guess what else? This is my first time coming out and telling the world I'm gay! B4 I get too off subject, I will say again, YES I could have a gay friend! :):):)
eeonz
Whats with all the "nothing against gays, but they might fancy me!" type posts? I'm sure you guys have plenty of girls who manage to stay friends with you without being deeply madly attracted to you.

Being gay doesn't mean that they will fancy man on the planet, so stop flattering yourself lads tongue.gif
aaayotiffany
i would love a gay best friend. haha. whenever i talk to this one gay friend, he always makes me laugh because of the way he criticize people. and its awesome because we can talk about the same stuff too, like make-up and clothes. i find them awesome and super nice.. when you get to know them and they're not stuck-up. laugh.gif

especially when my guy friends act gay with each other, no homo though. lol. i'm pretty used to having crazy friends. a gay best friend would definitely make my friends something special, haha. but whether they're gay or not, it shouldn't affect a friendship. i've actually known this certain friend of mine when he was in denial about being gay, like in middle school. now he's fabulous. wink.gif
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