Never ever kissed in my life until today.First kiss. He kissed me unexpectedly. Umm.. I was bad at it too.
How do you kiss?
How can I improve?
[pg-13] How to kiss with the tongue?


any tips?

lol this made me lol at first when I saw YOU post this aimee Im sorry. lol
Define "kiss" was it a make out kiss or a quick peck on the lips.
Theres no real way to improve. Its based on the opposite ends oppinion of how they prefer kissing (the guy you kissed)its really hard to explain how to french kiss....


as for tips.... follow the flow of how the guy is kissing you.
watch out for his hands too. LOLOLOL

Kissing is really just..kissing I never really thought about it, I usually make a circular motion real slowly with my tongue just inside the other persons mouth, and make an upward moving motion while I move closer and farther from the person, also hand placement is a big part of kissing, I usually go for the one handed butt grab while my other hand is on her cheek, or the one handed boob grab if were in a private place and I'm ready to...yea lol, as far as hand placement on a guy, when my girl grabs my ass while were kissing it totally turns me on, but the crotch grab...amazing move to turn a guy on, but you better be ready to get it on cause if your not...your just a tease lol.

omg lol dude
shes only like... 15 haha

lol, my bad if that was to much...I didn't know how old she was, but in my defense...I'm only 16...two years older isn't a ton.

Correction:Im 16 hahaha ROFL
You know Philjay I know this is a funny topic but it was weird.

ok lol, was that to much for you? or offensive in any way?

No I like the fact you gave me in detail. That's what I wanted. Im new at this lol

Ok, just making sure I didn't make you lean back in your chair and go ,"ewww wtf, what a creeper" haha

Rofl No, I thought it was good. Now I know what to do haha. I'm "Clueless"

Ok haha, well is there anything else you have no clue about and are wondering?

In that case....
I once pinned my ex against the wall and raised her hands up with mine against the wall also.
That was sum hot kissing..
as for detail from my experiences
I used to carry my ex while kiss her =P
or sometimes hand placement by me. my hands would be placed on on her butt other holding up her chin~
my ex used to brush her hands through my hair also while we kissed
thats just if were kissing standing up.
sitting/laying down kissing is a whole new story.

Yea forgot about the hair, that's a good one.

holy crap you are?
lol damn your OLDER than me...


softly biting my ex's earlobe turned her on alot hahah

^ I'm OLDER than you?! wow. See it's my first kiss too.
Hair hmm..
Bitting is kinda scary for me haha.
When is the right time for a girl to kiss a guy?

I'm not really sure if there is a right time, than again im not really sure if there is a wrong time, when I first met my girlfriend I took her to the movie's and when we were about to part ways at the end of the night I started rambling on about something dumb because I was nervous and she just kissed me in mid-sentence, and from that moment on I knew I loved this girl, when your together, and you think he is nervous, or he just keeps rambling, kiss him.

^That's sweet! Great tips =] I'm deff. going to do that.

You can practice with me Aimee =]
LOL Jk
God I'm so bad. =[
Anyways well ocasionally its always nice to have a quick makeout for like.. 3 seconds. Public display of affection ya know?
Its mostly nice to kiss privately if you plan on going for minutes haha

And don't be worried about not being a good kisser, chances are he doesn't have some high expectations, he probably doubts his kissing ability just as much as you, if not more, you just have to be comfortable, if your comfortable, and he's comfortable the kiss itself doesn't really matter.

I need to practice it. Lol but idk who. I don't want to do it with this guy because he is experienced and I'm well no.

It was awkward, Let's just say. I felt so embarrassed all day today.

dont worry you'll gain confidence once you get used to the feeling of kissing.

easier said than done my friend lol

I expected more.

Expected more as in, more from the kiss, or did you expect to have more emotion with the kiss?

Aimee
give us more detail.
how long was the kiss

I expected the kiss to be more and less awkward. The emotion is there it's that I'm guessing if he felt the same way.

Not long at all. probably 2-5 min. haha

Eh thats fairly long~
Well its your first kiss! what do you expect.
was it just you 2 alone?

my first kiss... was during a slow dance at a party... it was for like 30 seconds~

My first kiss was awkward as well, but with every first in a relationship you just have to go "balls out", in a sense lol, next time if your really interested in this guy and feeling like showing him you want more, gently move your tongue against his lips while you guys are kissing one another, he will slip his tongue out in return...unless he's a retard than he just may think your licking his lips lmao, im jk, im sure he's not that dumb...i could be wrong though

oh man i'd feel bad for any guy to do that...
he'd deserve to be slapped.
not notice that the girls trying to french kiss... lolol

That was the problem. I didn't know how to. hahaha. He just sticked his tongue out hahah. Plus It was so sudden. I really like this guy too. I don't want to loose him because I can't kiss.

omg lol did he literally "stick his tongue" out when we as kiss you?

Some people...just don't know how to be subtle lol

Theirs not really any way to improve on a quick kiss becides to make sure you kiss his mouth.

To make out: Start with lingering kisses and make them more and more frequent. Then when you two are like making out just kind of open your mouth a little and if he does it to he means that he want to french kiss too. When you both like have your mouths open stick your tongue in and like make circles or make your tongue go up and down. Becareful not to stick your tongue in to far or bite his tongue!

^ yes I made one of those mistakes.

Yep. I was confused what to do.

its also good while your kissing to tilt your head the other way.
for example your head it tilted to the right while your kissing him
and then slowly tilt your head to the left while kissing.

you could always tease him to by giving him short kisses and pull back like 1 inch away from his lips and keeping doing it repeatedly

you bit his tongue!?

^ugh don't remind me! *bangs head on the wall*

You bit his tounge?!? Wow..thats embarassing..

ahh! thanks thanks alot! =/ *ready to jump off a window*

oooooooooooooooooolololol
hey. be on the bright side.
could've been worst

^ he says it could have been worse hahaaha. Like what?!

you could have bit off his tongue

your braces could have gotten in the way if you still have them.

aww. i'm sure it's not that bad.
anyways, the dudes here sound really experienced so listen to them.

When in doubt, grab him unexpectedly, bend him over and say, "baby, your the one" than proceed to give him the most over dramatic movie type make-out session imaginable.

nahhh that sounds to corny
I like "I love you so much baby" better
then again what makes us think aimee has even close to the confidence of doing any of it haha

Faith, all we need to do is believe!

for practice try kissing the back of your hand. thats what one of my friends told me to do when i used to be nervous. it gave me more confidence when i kissed the guy because i felt more experenced...i dunno if i make any sense or sound weird lol.

I've never heard of that.
I just tried it and it felt really awkward.
I felt like a cat getting ready to cough up a hair ball...

ROFL^

kissing in back of your hand? hmm... weird but it might work.

to the "i love you babe" comment. We aren't there yet. I don't want to scare him with a sudden I love you. haha. We are still trying to figure things out. Plus we are still friends but with a little benefit. lol

Gah im never a fan of friends with benifits.
I get to attached.

See I don't know I want to be more. I just don't want to push it and loose him. I often do that and scare the guy. lol
I'm not prettiest girl. =/