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ReggieM
what have you done? did u ever get denyed? how awkward was it after that.

The dealio is well theres this girl that all my acquantinces are pushing me to seek after shes a cool girl, but they sent subliminal messages about making out or w.e. "do i have to sit in between you too" during the movie and before i wanted to but i didnt know how to approach it. anyways it was my first time meeting her.
animalinside
just gauge the situation and its usually better to be a lil late than premature in your actions...try to catch a gaze from her where you can look into her eyes, then go for the kill...watch be careful of where your hands are if your friends are around though
LittleLulu
if she likes you there really isn't much to worry about. Personally i wouldn't suggest making out with someone you've only met for the first time, but oh well. there IS a trick to first kisses though..you can lean in to the kiss, and if at the last minute you feel like shes uncomfortable then just turn it to a kiss on the cheek. My ex boyfriend told me thats what he does.
ReggieM
what happens if there isnt room to put my hands on her and they "slip" go for her stomach or what.

like i accidentaly get her chest when i try? The next attempt to kiss her is at/after prom =x
animalinside
if that happens then she may think you're a pervert and that can go either way depending on the girl...

but the surefire way to get what you want is to whip out your package for her...its like catnip for girls they just cant get enough of it
EmoEyelinerx
Like LittleLuLu said: Lean in to the kiss, and if at the last minute you feel like shes uncomfortable then just turn it to a kiss on the cheek.

I dont think that you should make out with her on your first time meeting her or on your first date though because then she might think your just in it for "the goods."
ReggieM
well, i didnt but i bet she prolly wanted to with me, i was the actual "GIRL" that day.
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