alright. i met this girl at a party and shes interested in me. the thing is, shes really quiet/shy. ill do most of the talking, ill have to start all the conversations. any suggestions on how to get her to open up?

just keep on tlkaing to her. eventually when she feels more comfortable around you, she'll talk more

Make her laugh.
She'll prolly lighten up after that.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Keep talking to her.
Talk about things you know she's interested in.
Give her some time.

I was like that too, but eventually, I felt comfortable around the guy and now we have really long talks together.

some ppl are just like that, no a talkative person..

talk 2 her more. and make her comfortable.. like make her belive you are a nice guy and you are ez to talk 2.
y not try to like make fun of her... and everything will be ezier. just try once. some girls hate to be make fun of.. lmao. dont go 2 far. jus 2 berak the ice. =]
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i think u just need to keep talkin to her until she gets used to talking to u

hmm....some people are just naturally quiet. it's hard to force people to become talkative. i'm sure if you get to know her better, she'll open up a bit. =D

well ask her wat shes interested in...and wat she likes to talk about so u guys can talk easily and she can be open-minded. well there is not many ppls who cant get over that... it's like permantely(sp??)... but try and ask her wat she likes to talk about or ask her friends.

take her some place with not alot of people and start to tlak, and [things] then she might start talking more?

I think you guys should get to know each other better and start hanging out more often. She SHOULD start talking ...

u would have to show her that ur comfortable talkin to her and wen she sees it, she'll feel comfortable too make some jokes make her laugh, offer her food =D heh dotn ask too much questions or she'll feel weird lol and keep talking abuot urself to show her that ur not shy about telling urself so she shouldnt e

yehh you gotta make her feel comfy... i thin she feels kinda nervous... and doesnt want to feel embarssed or anything.. soo be goofy and crew up yourslef!!

hmm make her feel "comfortable" around you.. as if she can hang around and be herself.

keep on talkin to her she'll open up juzz give her some time...

keep talking n ask her to talk every once n awhile

If you keep talking to her and you show her that you're really interested in her then she wont be as nervous and will open up, once she does everything will be easier

Talk about something that relates to her and she would want to tell you more.

Yeah I agree. Making someone laugh can really help out in opening them up. Give her some time, learn her interests and see if you have anything in common, and have a good time. Make her smile.

the more you let her know she can trust you when you start conversations to get to know her .. the more she'll open up .. all you need is time ..

hmm, that's just like me. yeah, i was like that around my boyfriend. it got so bad that after a while, we broke up. but, just keep talking to her and make her feel comfortable. ask her some questions or something.

give it some time, eventually she'll feel more comfortable, n open up 2 u...

thanks a lot people. im going out with her now! shes really comfortable now and she talks a lot more.

Yeah, I'm sort of like that..
All you need to do is just talk to her/him, and usually it'll work itself out.

By the way, congrats, jahama!

hEY, i'm like that too, being shy. I usaully like to listen to others then be the one who talks, but once she gets to realli know u she will open up. Wat ur doing right now is good be the one to talk to always better then having an awkward silence. Tell her jokes, ask her question always helps. Good Luck!

Congratulations to you guys and good luck!! *Sniffle* They grow up so fast..

um. no. that's really rude. if i were her, i'd assume that he was making fun of me. unless if you're asking her to talk by having her give you feedback, that's different. but if you meant saying something like "talk." that would be kind of..

I'm sure that as time progresses, she'll be able to open up more to you if she feels more comfortable around you. Lots of people are just shy by nature, but just take things slow, and eventually, if you talk to her more and more, she'll start knowing you better to an extent that she'll be able to be more outgoing toward you.

make her feel comfortable nd make her laugh.