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teishya
Just wondering if anyone had this feeling or dilemma before.

Have you ever hung out with your friends and meet their other friends before, but never talk to them? Like you know the person's name, who they hang out with, and what they look like, but never talk to them although you hang out with the same crowds. I don't know if it's just me, but I'll know about my friend's friends and they'll hang out with us, but we never talk to each other even though we know who each other is. I know the names of a lot of people in my grade and like who they hang out with, but I just never talk to them. Does it happen to you too?
tokyo-rose
Yeah, that happens to me a lot. Sometimes I expect to have to talk to someone now that I know they're friends with my friends, but it usually doesn't happen. Just because we associate with the same people doesn't mean we'll associate with each other.
lalalalala12345
Yeah that happen to me all the time. It doesn't bother me much coz I know i will eventually start talking to them...
EmoEyelinerx
Yupp all the time.
Mystic Eyes
That kinda happens to me. But usually most of the time my friends introduce us to eachother and from then on we chit chat and all that jazz.
PuppyChan
Like Mystic says, my friends introduce me to their friends first. After that, there's no problems. I'll chat to them XD
alysaphobia

Yes, this happens to me.
Generally though, I'll eventually get to know this person better through my own friend and we'll have progressed to the "friends" stage.
LennonLime
yes yes yes. I eventually start talking to them though, and then we all be come friends! happy.gif
Joss-eh-lime
^wow aren't you lucky.
whenever im with my friends' friends she doesn't want me to become friends with them. she wants them for herself.

its a current problem and im kind of sad about it
for example we all got raging waters passes, and i haven't even used mine once because she keeps going without me.
mzkandi
Yeah, I dealt with that a lot when I was in high school.
MrStrife
Yeah sometimes I'm like forced to talk to them even though I don't like them and then I feel like I'm labeled a two-face. But I'm just being nice because I like her; I'm friends with her, not you.
Joss-eh-lime
^but don't you think that if your friend chose you as a friend, they would choose friends similar to you .
so you never know you could end up liking them!
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