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princess2113
do u think its OK for elementary kids to date...when i go to the mall or w/e they r alwayz there w/o parents holding hands n stuff....its weird
iheartsimba
i think it's fine...
i mean, age is nothing but a number. once again it's all on maturity. I think it's cute to see kids holding hands and i see nothing wrong with it and it is there parents choice to let them off to do things. i think its completely fine
Kathleen
Does it bother you that much? I could care less as long as they don't start having babies left and right...that would be kind of weird...and odd.
IIO__oII
i think its... ehh.
i just hope they dont start taking it too far... =/
ryfitaDF
i think that's fd up. elementry kids at malls without parents, especially on "date"s. i couldn't do that till i was in 8th grade.

live too fast, die too young.
simplysweet259
QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Jun 14 2004, 1:24 AM)
i think that's fd up. elementry kids at malls without parents, especially on "date"s. i couldn't do that till i was in 8th grade.

live too fast, die too young.

yeah same here.
ryfitaDF
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 13 2004, 7:25 PM)
Does it bother you that much? I could care less as long as they don't start having babies left and right...that would be kind of weird...and odd.

not to mension impossible.
dani41790
i think its kinda weird but i dont realli care
angel-roh
i guess it's ok for them to date... i mean if they cant date, then middle skool cant date lols. it's fine. no arugment.
sadolakced acid
dude, they're kids. kids... if they're dating now, without the teenage hormones, think what they'll be doing in middle school and high school.

i've heard about it and i think it's nasty. kids doing it at age 12. blagh
kraziegrl
i find it POINTLESS. i mean, the kids in my school they go out with everyone for like.. what a 2 weeks max? then they go and find someone else. im in junior high, and what will the kids in elementry school do? they should stay friends.. i guess
DisneyPrincessKate
I think it's a bit stupid. When I was in elementary school only the "cool kids" would date, and even then it just caused "drama." I thought it was kind of stupid.
mai_z
i think it's fine, but it's sorta funny when they ask each other out to movies, cuz their parents have 2 drive them... n sometimes their parents pay for the tickets......and they can only see like pg movies lolz
NatiMarie
Eh...I don't know. I wouldn't agree with my kid dating that young. Then as they get older they want to get further and stuff...try new things (*nudge nudge* if you know what I mean. Hey that rhymes...sort of). Anywhoo...frankly I wouldn't care for somebody else's kid, as long as it isn't with mine. Hehe, I'm going to be a strict mother...*thinks*
Yeah...not that strict, just annoying. Gah, I'm just gonna hush my mouth now...or stop my fingers from typing...
mglbaby
well i wouldnt call it "dating"
JlIaTMK
i wouldn't call it dating either
i dont think they understand the full concept of it yet
its just they know enough as to "like" one another
shawty_redd
QUOTE(JlIaTMK @ Jun 16 2004, 7:57 PM)
i wouldn't call it dating either
i dont think they understand the full concept of it yet
its just they know enough as to "like" one another

ya thats what i think
LiNHy POO
well its their choice... i mean i do find it kinda strange seeing them like that.... but its their bussiness not mine
sheepy
er i guess its okay.. just hope dey dunt take it too far blink.gif
empyrean
well i think its pretty pointless...theyre 11 or 12 years old at most and its stupid to start "dating" if thats what it can be called.

i mean if all they do is go to the mall and hold hands isnt just the same as hanging out?
oOjenniOo
I don't think middle schoolers or young highschoolers shoould date... i mean, why date? What will it eventually lead up to? Nothing but a broken heart! I mean, you shoul donly date when you KNOW that you will MARRY them and have kids and start a family...i know its fun and you want to feel loved and stuf... but what will the point ever be?
ComradeRed
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 13 2004, 7:25 PM)
Does it bother you that much? I could care less as long as they don't start having babies left and right...that would be kind of weird...and odd.

Gene splicing is fun.
jo3
i think dating in elementary school and even middle school (and sometimes in high school) is pointless. people date in elementary and middle school, and even early in high school because they:

- just want to have a gf/bf
- want to be more popular
- have friends who do it, and they wanna be part of the in-crowd
- have no idea why they're doing it!?! (this applies more to the elementary kids)

some kids might be like, "yea, but i really think i'm in love." sry , but thats 100% bs. love is such a complicated thing, and i highly, highly doubt anyone will truly be in love until they get older and mature more.

why can't people just be close friends than bf/gf? is it because being together means you can do stuff together, like kiss, hold hands, and sexual activities? if that's the case, that's not true love...thats lust.

just my thoughts

-joe
bibliomania
Bleh. Let them be. Even though you're disturbed by those people, they'll date anyway. And hold hands... If that even means anything... I'm okay with them.

I think elementary kids do it so they'd look cool. Makes them feel older... Sort of. That's what used to happen around me... but that's always not the case. :P
MrElsewhere
i find dat kids in in elementary shouldnt date..cuzz dats most lykely NOT real love..i started n elementary n well..wasnt too good..but now im in middle skoo n im in a relationship wif a really nice, sweet, pretty gurl..but who knoes? age is juss a number rite?
inthemudhole
Hmm.
I think it's a tad bit young.. as long as they don't start.. eh, kissing, then I guess it's alright..

Depends on how old.. if we're talking 5th, 6th grade in elementary, than that's okay. But any younger.. ehh. It's a little young.

Wow. I'm turning into my parents. blink.gif

Mleh. I started dating in 7th grade.. and my parents were totally against that.

I think age is nothing but a number (in most cases).
Age shouldn't determine love.
Foolish Heart
It's okay I guess.

I mean, they shouldn't take it seriously.

And they shouldn't fall in love, cause it's just puppy love ^-^.

And as long as they don't do anything beyon holding hands and hugging, that's fine with me.

-hEaRt <3
waccoon
They're going to break up anyways, let them have their fun.
sammi rules you
Elementary? No. At least 6th grade, c'mon. _dry.gif
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