So hmmm... how can I say this...? I REALLY REALLY REALLY hate my ex... well I guess not "hate" rather... I'm sad and sorta hurt for something she did... Well here's the story:

My old pastor attended my grandma's birthday party today. He asked why wasn't I at valerie's graduation. (valerie is my ex btw) I'm like "Her graduation?! Why wasn't I invited?!" (okay I know I'm not her bf anymore, but still, I've known her since 4th grade and that really hurt me that she didnt invite me) He told me that her graduation was last saturday. I'm like "wow... what the hell... I should've been there to say good bye to her..." (she's going off to college in the city) So yea... I'm really really hurt that she didn't invite me to her graduation... and... I feel that it was really wrong on her part that she didn't invite me to her graduation.... dah... I think I'm ready to move on then.... if she wants to abandon and forget me as a friend, so be it. I don't need to know her anymore.... she's totally messed...

What do you guys think??? Am I wrong for feeling this way or is she wrong for doing what she did...?

Please I need input... thanks...

i think what she did was not cool but also i think you're overreacting a bit..i think you should talk to her and ask her the reason she didnt invite you and if its because she doesnt want you as a friend anymore..then tell her you're fine with that ((if you are)) and that you wish she would have told you earlier so you didnt have to find out from someone else..thats always the worst way to find out bad news..

im sry to hear that...mebbe yu should ask her why she didnt invite yu to her graduation. or move on, whats in the past is in the past.....

Ask her why you weren't invited. If she can't give you a straight answer .. i think you should get over her and move on ..

what she did must really hurt. try talking to her and sort things out. maybe she was really hurt from the breakup and is having trouble getting over it. well..theres an explaination for everything isnt there?

of course you aren't wrong for feeling this way. she totally deserved it. and Try to HATE HER. lol.

hm.. if she didnt invite u .. maybe cause .. breakin up was reallly hard on her.. and if she saw u she would like be really sad.. just talk to her. maybe she was right. ..

no ur not wrong for feeling that way cuz shes wrong for not inviting u the first place. i dont think shes a very gud fren if she didnt invite u.

well its her graduation so its her choice if she wnats u there or not...

just uh... who broke up with hu???
well.. mayb shez hurt. and she doesnt wanna c you at the graduation. maybe she loved so you so much [if that was you the one hu broke up] and she didnt wanna think that shez gnona leave you and stuf....

um.. i think u shouldnt overreact that much lols maybe shes not ready to see u? i dunno lol but maybe she didnt do it on purpose... or shes out of tickets and wants to give it to her parents?

i concur.
she was kind of wrong, but maybe she has her own reasons.