May 4 2007, 04:54 PM
every year, my school gtoes on a six flags trip. we went around two weeks ago.
my old best friend, jessica, insisted that she was going to be in our group through the entire year. that is, until a few days before. apparently, she found her some new friends and i, along with our other friends, were thrown to the side.
so i just walked off and i haven't spoken to her since. it's been about three weeks.
her sister, anna, told me last night on the phone that she was going to talk to me.
so today, i wrote her a letter asking her if she was. that's all i asked.
she wrote me back saying that she was doing just fine and that she had made new friends. she also said that i always told her what to do and she could now be herself, which i know is a big fat lie. she is being so fake now with her whoreish clothing and such. she said that she wasn't going to hang out with me because everyone thinks i'm a lesbian[which is a complete lie. no one thinks that.] and that it would ruin her reputation.
so i'm kind of angry about that. we've been like sisters for around three years. i'm not sure if i should talk to her or just let it be. she'll probably come running back to me after her new friends diss her. oh yea, did i mention that she is nopw hanging out with my slutty cousin who does baaaad things now? she is.
May 4 2007, 05:13 PM
Wow that sucks. My Bff was the same way when we went to the middle school she like totally ignored me for her new "popular *cough* slutty" friends but now we're in our last year of middle school and she is finally starting to talk to me again. Just try to ignore her because thats the same thing shes doing to you. Adventually she will realize what a good frined you were and come runnin back :) gl to you guys. lol what was the point of this post anyway?
May 4 2007, 07:14 PM
it happened to me, i finally gained a friend only for her to find someone new and turn all my other friends againist me, spreading rumors about me being a slut... i was 12 at the time, wtf did i know about that shit...
but look wait till she comes running to turn her away... doesn't sound nice but it will show her how bad of a choice she made, she doesn't value true friendship, and if this so call bossy nature you have bothered her soo much then as a friend she should of come to you first instead of doing what she did.
to say talk to her sounds like the right thing to do but to me it seems more of a bad idea then a good one. Seeing how much she changed from hanging with you to hanging with them... slutty is the new thing now lol
nah... but don't let her see how much it bothers you, u have your other friends stay with them and show them that without her your still together. She made that choice to leave karma should eventually show up.
May 4 2007, 11:31 PM
Amazing. Same thing happened to me at Six Flags. Heh... If she's really going to be like that, I say screw her. She can go hang out with her slutty friends and be a beyotch. It's working great for me.
May 4 2007, 11:38 PM
I say you move on, and let her find out what she's lost.
If she comes back and wants to be your friend again, I guess you could consider.
But I'd recommend just moving on and getting some real friends. It's worked great for me, trading my superficial friends for real, true friends.
May 5 2007, 09:04 AM
thanks everyone. these posts made me feel mucho better.
she probably will come running back in a few weeks or so. but i've made up my mind. she can go find herself a new friend who's willing to take all the crap i took from her. i'm sure it'll take her a while.
May 5 2007, 09:31 AM
good for you!
May 5 2007, 04:33 PM
Ignore her. Actions speak louder than words most of the time. She'll either realize what a good friend you have been to her and come back crying or not realize and that shows she never really valued your friendship.
May 5 2007, 11:44 PM
from what i can tell, she is f**king CONCEITED.
(even if you didn't ask for what to do and wrote
only to express...)
tell her that and tell her everything you think about her.
she'd be speechless from what i can tell.
but you know what else i hate too?
when you have best friends from when you were a kid
until you were a like a pre-teen.
but by the time you're a teen, everything changes
quickly because of peer shit.
that's what happened to me and several other people.
so i can understand how you feel.
i so totally would throw shit at her face if i was you.
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