Not entirely sure where this topic goes but yeah people, I got a date with a girl I've been talking to for a few months now. We're gonna go catch the spidey flick and it's like making me a little nervous. I don't know what to wear, if I should get a haircut, what to say, etc. Blah. Any advice out there to help calm the nerves and help me be loose to enjoy the night with her?

Well, firstly, congrats on your date!
I recommend NOT getting a hair-cut... as most guys I know have really awkward transitory stages between their haircut and until the time it grows back out again. This is gonna sound cheesy but just be yourself. Really, if you've gotten her to agree to go out with you, she's interested. So you can stop worrying like crazy. :)

Dress casual if it's just a day-time, going out to catch the movie thing. Conversation will come naturally

Throw LOTS and LOTS of D's on that bitch.

Thanks. That sure calmed me down but I'm still pretty excited. Oh yeah there was one other thing. I mean it's not a big deal but I'll admit it bothers me a little bit. See I don't have my own car yet and she does. I didn't ask her yet but I prolly have to ask her to pick me up. Yeah got me a little insecure. sigh

if you ask her to pick you up, shell think you're a scrub...

haha just kidding, or am i?

nah i am, you should know how to act by now, but sometimes it is good to go out of your way to prepare to show that you care. Just dont overdo it. First date usually sets the tone, for things to come. Based on her personality and how you know she is, dont be too aggressive, but still make a move if you see the opportunity.

Thanks a lot you guys. I'm getting ready right now. Peace.

lmao holy crap im going to go see that movie and in the same situation. but im the girl... dont worry shes probably nervous too, i know i am but if you guys talked before hand just act it as one of those same conversations that you normally have. GOODLUCK

LOL

Wow, looking back on this thread makes me wonder how much of a loser you have to be to be getting nervous about a date.


Go outside much?

^I don't have a pic of her or anything like that yet, but if you saw her, you'd know why I'm like this. Damn I'm pretty lucky actually.

Dont tell me you never have felt that way before.

You are quite the cocky bloke.

Birthday 26 December 1986



YEAHHHH, okay.

21 years old eh.
So I guess you drink alot before you go out on the date or I suppose you and her go drinking.

Makes it a whole lot easier. if you think about it.

Im kidding.

She's not kidding. Seriously, go to a bar and talk a while. Alcohol helps ease things up. Just don't get too drunk. She can get hammered, make sure you don't, though.

Yes i do condone that method of easy dating.

No, I don't go out that much because I have 2 jobs but its all good. btw yall, I'm 20 and she's 18.

yay, congrats dude!GOOD LUCK, let us kno how it goes..pppleeease!!!!!!we're cheering u on!!!!!!!

*sigh* I got stood up. Not even all that mad, shoot my sister was more heated than me. Whatever. That's the end of that.

Thats to bad. Well there's plent of other fish in the sea. You'll find one again.

hahahah like 40 year old virgin ride your bike!!!

hey call her back and she what is going on, i stood up a girl but not on purpose but we went for a second/first date and it was fine.

^naww I'm riding my skateboard homie. lol.

Oh and hell no. I haven't talked to her for like a week and a half. If she wants to chill with me, she'd have to call me even if it was just to save the friendship which seems belly up at this point.

sorry to hear that man..wtf happened?!

^ Yeah.. tell us what happened!

Go bang her sister.

aww sorry it didnt turn out.

i finnaly get your name chess BOXER haha i just realized that.

Sorry to get back at you guys so late, but I've been kind of busy plus I didn't really want to talk about it yet. Well, like I said we were going to see the spiderman 3 flick and I even brought along my little homie because she was going to bring her friend and we'd double. So we went there early to buy the tickets in fear of all the shows being sold out and even though the original time we planned was for around 11 o'clock, we found tickets for 9:30. So I called her on her cell, then she started giving me some excuses like she can't go out unless her brother does and she can't get a hold of her friend. I'm like whatever whatever just work it all out. Then fast-track to when the movies about to start in 20 minutes, okay. I called her again and she said it was too short notice because originally it was suppose to be a couple hours later and can't make it, but does it really matter? I mean she has a car and what's so wrong making the date earlier? Then get this guys. She had the sack to hang up on me and turn off her phone. Stunned. I felt bad for my homeboy because he wanted a date too and damn even though I actually liked spiderman 3, it was totally a date movie. That's it you guys, I got screwed by the bitch (My little sister put her name under BITCH in the cellphone when she gave me the #) lolz

haha congrats to you! hmm all i have to say its just to be confident and yourself! then you'll be okay

^huh?