im in a situation where my boyfriend has to move from NY to a NJ school and he is willing to stay in ny only for me...

but move to NJ for his sports, and school and his home [yes he goes to school in NY from NJ] and the thing is that in NY, yes he has a school but he doesnt like it much [and so on]

and its obvious that NJ has more decisions to choose from than NY.. But its hard for him to choose


SHOULD HE LEAVE OR SHOULD HE GO?

So what exactly is the question my dear?