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illmortal
QUOTE(Spirited Away @ Feb 16 2008, 09:47 PM) *
I hate dating Viets, but that doesn't have anything to do with my parents. Viet boys are... boys most of the time even when they're 30. Not everyone of them, of course, but the ones who act their age are always taken.

I dated a filipino. Hot stuff, but he knew it and took a lot of liberties that weren't given to him.

Mature Black guys seem to really know how to take care of their woman. I like that.


What does their race have anything to do with how they take care of their responsibilities? o.O

pandora
obviously shes just making an observation
Steven
QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Feb 22 2008, 01:22 PM) *
What does their race have anything to do with how they take care of their responsibilities? o.O

Stereotypes/generalizations exist for a reason. Are they absolute? No. Do they seem true more often than not? Yes. That's why they're stereotypes/generalizations.
illmortal
QUOTE(Steven @ Feb 22 2008, 02:25 PM) *
Stereotypes/generalizations exist for a reason. Are they absolute? No. Do they seem true more often than not? Yes. That's why they're stereotypes/generalizations.



Yeah... I agree with you. What I don't agree with is the hypocrisy I keep reading.
pandora
QUOTE(pandora @ Feb 22 2008, 11:24 AM) *
obviously shes just making an observation

Steven
Michelle's Chinese, and that's awesome :D
WarMachine
I'm good to her, she's good to me. We see eye to eye and we communicate. Sounds like success.
chrislagace
I'm for it because thats how my beautiful girlfriend came into existence.
Sumiaki
QUOTE(Steven @ Jul 29 2007, 08:46 AM) *
But if we became one "beige" culture, who would we blame for all the worlds evils and use as a scapegoat?

We already have cross-culture foods. McDonalds has asian salads, taco bell has authentic mexican food, pizza hut has authentic italian pizza. Thats Europe, Asia, and America right there, plenty of culture for one person!

I think this is the only part I could respond with a decent argument.
Eventually, however, the cultures would start to become more and more alike. When all the cultures started to merge, so would their ways of life and their ways of thinking. The different ways of thinking, which could be highly beneficial in worldly issues and problem solving scenarios, would eventually non-existent.


Fail. Can't believe you guys missed this. I nearly pissed my pants laughing reading this.

Cause you know... sweet and sour sauce with mandarin oranges makes anything asian. Taco Bell also serves Authentic mexican food such as chili cheese burritos, gorditas, and meximelts. /sarcasm

ANTI! We would be less diverse and our culture would be watered down.

On a side note: If a japanese person and a chinese person were to hook up... they would produce a Jinx. See now how would the world benefit from a Jinx?
EddieV
QUOTE(Sumiaki @ Mar 11 2008, 01:23 AM) *
On a side note: If a japanese person and a chinese person were to hook up... they would produce a Jinx. See now how would the world benefit from a Jinx?


OOH! I'm gonna hook a couple up so I an capture a Jynx!
RissyMel
You say we're all gonne be the same eventually.
But there's alottt of people in this world.
It's not gonna happen while any of us are living, so go for it!
(:
TaintedSakura
I say we all start a mixin'
Stefanny
My father told me that if I married an Indian man, he would hate me for the rest of my life.
foxx
I'm for it. thumbsup.gif
but god, my dad's like if you bring a mexican/black boy to my house, i'm going to kill you.
I was like, wtf? What about asians? He's like, they're okay.
It kinda made me annoyed _unsure.gif
illmortal
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 27 2008, 07:51 PM) *
My father told me that if I married an Indian man, he would hate me for the rest of my life.


So kill his racist ass, his hatred's gonna land him in hell in the end of it all anyways.
pandora
i told my mom my bf is black and she said "No."
Stefanny
QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 28 2008, 02:50 PM) *
So kill his racist ass, his hatred's gonna land him in hell in the end of it all anyways.
Well he has quite some Indian friends.

I guess it's different; when you don't mind a race, but you don't want that blood in your family line. blink.gif
brooklyneast05
^huh?
Stefanny
Ahaha, sorry. I can't seem to word it right.

It's different when you don't mind a person of a specific race, like in general as a peoples.
But you do care if they're mixed into your family. (considering the topic is about interracial marriages)
HoodNigga
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 28 2008, 09:24 PM) *
Ahaha, sorry. I can't seem to word it right.

It's different when you don't mind a person of a specific race, like in general as a peoples.
But you do care if they're mixed into your family. (considering the topic is about interracial marriages)

Hahahahahahahaahahahaahahaahahahaahahahaahahaha
brooklyneast05
it's ok, i love soft racists, they are so cute.
Stefanny
It's so hard to tell sarcasm online sad.gif

I wasn't trying to say that it was my point of view, though. I support interracial marriages.

GAHH. I'll just stay out of the debate forum. It confuses me too much. oro.gif
illmortal
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 28 2008, 09:19 PM) *
Well he has quite some Indian friends.

I guess it's different; when you don't mind a race, but you don't want that blood in your family line. blink.gif

Yeah but you shouldn't judge a person automatically by his race/ethnicity/origins etc... that's just foolish. And to hate another human because of something that they can't control... that just sucks.
HoodNigga
Well I'll put it like this, if I had offspring I would rather them be with someone that will treat them right no matter their race, as opposed to someone of the same race as I am who treats them horribly.

I've actually heard of circumstances like these. I know one case where the parents didn't want their daughter to be with this black guy and so she turns around and marries a white guy and the dude beat the mess out of her.
Teesa
i'm all for it. i'm indian and just absolutely cannot see myself with another indian man.
even though my parents think it's going to happen, i can assure you, it most likely will not. and my parents aren't racist, but i know that there are certain ethnic groups that they definitely "prefer" over others _dry.gif
BadCraziness
People should have the freedom to do whatever they want, so long as it is not infringing on anyone else's freedom or human rights.

Interracial marriage doesn't do either of these things, and it brings two different cultures together. Sounds fine to me.
Rhianann
Someone back there mentioned a lack of diversity. I don't think that will ever happen. Your culture is more than just your skin color or ethnicity. Where you grew up helps shape who you are. Color is just a built-in sunscreen. I see no harm in mixing. A lot of people call themselves african-american. That always bothered me. Africa is a continent, not a country. I'm no expert, but there are a lot of countries in Africa and I bet they're pretty diverse from one to another in culture. That would be like me saying I'm causasian rather than german and scottish. Why do people intermingle race with country? I guess my question is are we talking about race here or what country a person's ancestors come from?

I know a lot of families want to keep their gene pool "pure". I don't see that as racism necessarily. Not in the true sense. I think love has no color, and it's sad that some people marry someone who isn't their soulmate over something like this. I never look at color and could care less what race they are if I date them. I agree sometimes family can make things hard. I have no color preference. I love Denzel Washington just as much as Robert Plant. Sexiest men alive if you ask me thumbsup.gif
brooklyneast05
QUOTE(Rhianann @ Mar 29 2008, 06:42 PM) *
A lot of people call themselves african-american. That always bothered me. Africa is a continent, not a country. I'm no expert, but there are a lot of countries in Africa and I bet they're pretty diverse from one to another in culture. That would be like me saying I'm causasian rather than german and scottish.


how are african americans supposed to be labeled according to where in africa they are from when we don't know. i guess you missed the memo, but we pretty much had all our culture forcefully stripped from us. so i don't really have the privilege of knowing where my ancestors are from specifically.


lol. you desperately need your consciousness raised about some things.
YaGurlSukedMe2SLeep
QUOTE(Rhianann @ Mar 29 2008, 04:42 PM) *
That would be like me saying I'm causasian rather than german and scottish.

you ARE caucasian now calm down
illmortal
QUOTE(Rhianann @ Mar 29 2008, 07:42 PM) *
That would be like me saying I'm causasian rather than german and scottish.

Your race is Caucasian.
Your ethnicity is German and Scottish.
EddieV
Is a white guy from Africa considered African-American?

We all know here I'm not drawn towards Oriental Asian women. Doesn't mean I don't think some are pretty. I'm currently dating a Paki girl, and my family has no problem with it what so ever.

I tend to be drawn towards brown/desi women, for their exoticness. Hispanic girls are in second place.
illmortal
QUOTE(Sulfur @ Mar 30 2008, 12:40 PM) *
Is a white guy from Africa considered African-American?

No.

If he was born in Africa (assuming his white ass is from British decent) and most likely from South Africa, then his nationality would be South African and his ethnicity would be whatever the hell made his cracker ass a cracker ass cracker.
j4ye
we need more flavors in the gene pool.....
its whats make us human being "SEXY" give us different traits.
plain is 2 boring.. plus 50 years from now every1 is going to be mix like a bag of chex..
Sumiaki
I like culture. Let's not all become mutts. thumbsup.gif
EddieV
QUOTE(j4ye @ Mar 30 2008, 07:33 PM) *
plus 50 years from now every1 is going to be mix like a bag of chex..


More like hundreds to thousands.
aaayotiffany
i am for interracial marriages.
not only have i mostly dated hispanics, lol, but i think the idea of bringing two different cultures together is a good idea. plus my love is hispanic and i think its awesome how we're interracial. asians and hispanics always give us this weird look whenever we go out. HATE ON IT.

plus some interracial couples make THE CUTEST babies. (:
illmortal
QUOTE(Sulfur @ Mar 31 2008, 01:08 PM) *
More like hundreds to thousands.

In the U.S. alone it'll be within the next 100 years at most.
EddieV
East Coast and West Coast doesn't seem to be a big problem when it comes to mixing. Central United States however is another story.

When it comes to the rest of the world, I can see countries which would mix quicker than others. (UK, Canada, etc.)
illmortal
QUOTE(Sulfur @ Mar 31 2008, 02:11 PM) *
East Coast and West Coast doesn't seem to be a big problem when it comes to mixing. Central United States however is another story.

When it comes to the rest of the world, I can see countries which would mix quicker than others. (UK, Canada, etc.)

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Sandraaa
I was for interracial dating, then against, now for. I'm dating a Spanish guy. LOL!!
imkatiekate
I am white. I was married to a white guy. I am currently dating a black guy. So obviously I think it's fine. I have friends (black and white) that have interracial children. My 3 and a half year old son is from my previous marriage so he is white, too. He has friends of all kinds of ethnicities and backgrounds. He did ask me if we were black. It gave us an opportunity to speak about race and what it means. My family is from Vermont as well as my ex-in-laws so it's a very close minded place with little to no diversity (from my experience). I want to teach him that people are not their race or sex or ethnicity, they are what's inside. And I think thus far I have been able to do that. I personally dont think my interracial relationship will have a negative effect on him because it's healthy. My ex husband and I fought and argued a lot and it was extremely volatile. I dont have that this time (and wouldnt be in such a relationship again). And no, I do not plan on having more children, not because of the race issue.
Melissa
Hm. Going by natural selection, traits that are most likely to help an animal survive and, more importantly, reproduce are the ones that are passed down through generations. So, if the world truly does become mixed, the best traits of every race should prevail, meaning that... our great-great-great(x100)-grandchildren will be beautiful and smart as shit or something to that extent, right?

So really, I don't see why interracial marriages are such an issue. We should spend more time worrying about how to stop stupid people from reproducing.
ersatz
QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 30 2008, 12:49 PM) *
No.

If he was born in Africa (assuming his white ass is from British decent) and most likely from South Africa, then his nationality would be South African and his ethnicity would be whatever the hell made his cracker ass a cracker ass cracker.


Aren't you white? What are you? You look white.
pandora
He's hispanic, I believe.
illmortal
QUOTE(ersatz @ Apr 11 2008, 08:22 AM) *
Aren't you white? What are you? You look white.

Hispanic, bud... I hate your kind. LOL Just kidding :P
Melie
i'm married to a black man and our daughter is puerto rican and black.

so i'm all for interracial marriages.
kaytdt
QUOTE(Monochrome. @ Apr 19 2007, 02:54 PM) *
Theres nothing wrong with mixing it up a bit.
As a brown person I happen to love the white men... throb.gif



i agree...as a white woman i love black men...
kaytdt
i say there is nothin at all wrong with interracial couples or marriages...i don see why its people business how other people live there life...if you dont like it then stay out of it. if you were attracted to another race u wouldnt want people to be all up in your business would u?...no u wouldnt so if u dont like it o well...tuff luck just turn your head cuz its gona hppn wether u like it or not...
thats all i have to say
Michel
I am for it. Who are we to judge? A marriage is defined as a holy union between a man and a woman. I've never seen in any definition stating that it was to be confined within its race.
Sandraaa
Yeah, and why is this still in Debate?
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