Me and my boyfriend have been back together for about 3 months and the other day this girl calls me telling me that he's been calling her and trying to get together, but when I asked him about it he swore to me that she was lying. The reason I'm having such a hard time deciding who I believe is because he has cheated on me once in the past but we've both changed alot and hadn't had any problems, not even a fight until this happened. His mother even called me telling me it was a lie and even cussed the girl who told me this out. He swears he learned his lesson last time and wouldn't do it again but should I believe him? Please help me out!

trust ur instincts.... girls have a uncanny way of telling what's tru or not.

i don't know, i dunno any of them... that girl may just be jealous and don't wnat you together or is looking out for you.. i dunno man its your choice...

Uhmm .. maybe go ask the girl?

Well..girls can be very nasty. Maybe she wants your man..and is trying to break you guys up?.. I guess it all depends.. on what kinda relationship him and that girl have. She could just be one jealous girl..and is willing to do anything 2 get him, even to go that low.

yep.

believe what your heart tells ya. if it says he is telling the truth, then he is.

well all i know is that the girl who said that to u prolly jus wana make u mad and get all pissed and make u all worried all day...lotta girls like to do that, but not me newais this girl did that to me...she said that to me that made me get realllieee worried bot it... she says stuff like "yeah he touches my leg. and he touches my shoulders. he stares at me a lot"...but now i trust justin...cus hes not like that...never. he was a playa of course and was like touching girl's body and all but he learned a lesson, so he doesnt do it. so i believe him. anyways it hurted me a lot when that girl said that... that time me and justin...we werent dating..it was kinda a date, but lil more like reaaaaaalliiiee close friends that hugs and peck on their cheeks...it was like that. anyways like his mom even told you that hes not cheating...shes helping his son... not to give his son a bad image looks...newais so wat im saying is that the girl who told u that...shes prolly jealous and prolly likes him. so yeah. trust your bf.. i guess...heh.

does he flirt with any other girls? personally, i think that once a cheater, always a cheater. consider that he told his mom his side of the story, not the girls side of the story. maybe he didnt tell his mom everything that happended?