So recently a friend of mines asked me out, and I said yes because yeah I liked him too blahblahblah that's not too important. Anyways, we haven't come around to kissing because of his younger sister. We never have time alone because of her, and our friends (our friends clash.. they don't like each other). His dad is strict, so she'll tell if we were to kiss. (I swear his dad treats him like if he was in elementary school..) Our only communication is through notes.. because again, younger sister. Any advice in how I can get some alone time with him before, or after school? And maybe if I can do anything about his younger sister?

Invite him over your house ?
Walk home together ? Or take the bus together ?
Does his dad allow him on dates? =\
And.. um.. Iunno. Maybe if you have any dances coming up, you should go together. I'm betting before, during, and after the dance, you'll have a lot of alone time.

Um go somewhere besides his house where his sister's going to be

Get him to tell his parents he's going to the library to study.

His dad can't even know that we're going out. >., It's weird. You would think it was vice versa. Anyways. Our parents pick us up so yeah.. the dances over here suck and we both agree they suck so that ones out of the picture. But thanks anyways.


mm. That one's actually good! mm. After school.. I always stay an hour extra... He could say he's staying for after school enrichment.. and there's loads of secret spots around my school so that'll be good.
Thanks.

Iunno. I would still want some time with him around the school.. we only see each other 5 times in a school day, including one class we have together. I don't want to be all secretive about our relationship

does he know what his sister is the problem?

get 2 movie tickets, and tell him to tell his dad that he's going to the movies with another guy friend. to prove that, tell him to bring any random friend of his. after his dad's approval, let his friend leave, and you two can watch the movie together.

sorry, thats the best i could come up with

I think that you should just tell him that you don't want this whole secretive relationship and who cares about your friends. If they don't like his friends then oh well. I'm not saying dumb your friends or he dump his, just don't let their opinions stop you from hanging out with him once in a while.

The after school idea and the one ^ seemed good you should really try those. I think at first its ok if you don't see as much as him as you want too, but think of it this way its better than just the few times you get to see him a day.